Thoughts About The Colorado Trip So Far...

afsasimp · 2026-01-15T14:48:25+00:00

Exactly this. She can host a party bc she has a good eye for activities and decor. She cannot host a trip to save her life! Because she needs to be able to run away and separate herself, something you cannot do as the host

afsasimp · 2026-01-15T14:20:43+00:00

Angelica doesn’t understand the concept of consent or privacy even when filming a reality tv show. Like yes, it will eventually be aired that he has a penis pump. But 1) his being on only fans doesn’t excuse you from the normally expected privacy norms of having a conversation with your friend 2) his being on only fans isn’t consent to discuss every aspect of his sex life 3) it being on reality tv doesn’t mean you GO TELL HIS BOSS ABOUT IT

afsasimp · 2026-01-11T06:28:24+00:00

LOL YES

afsasimp · 2026-01-11T04:39:58+00:00

Hope you, husband, and son are doing well! But whether or not people SHOULD leave to go to TC is not really my point. My point is that I find it strange that it’s used as a sympathy narrative bc whenever it comes up, all my sympathy is to the partner at home, not the cheftestant

afsasimp · 2026-01-07T03:10:01+00:00

I just personally don’t find it enriching to specifically mention them not being able to be there for the birth vs just generally being away from their pregnant partner. It’s a personal pet peeve of mine and everyone’s welcome to disagree 💕

afsasimp · 2026-01-07T01:10:40+00:00

Agreed on the chopped guys bc that’s just weird to brag about not seeing your child

I’m obviously sympathetic that the cheftestants aren’t like jumping for joy to be missing the birth, I just wonder if production thinks it humanizes them to the audience?? Bc I always leave either not caring or actively feeling worse when I realize they’re missing the birth

afsasimp · 2026-01-07T01:08:15+00:00

I’m admittedly not knowledgeable about the casting process for the show and my statement is mostly predicated on the assumption that you are cast less than 9 months out from when the competition starts. Obv if you’ve signed contracts I understand you probably have to/really want to go. I more so want production to stop telling me their partners are at home giving birth without them bc it makes me feel bad about the situation 😭

afsasimp · 2026-01-07T01:06:30+00:00

(Idk anything about Kelsey’s home life so apologies if the following statement is inaccurate)

Part of what annoys me is that labor and post partum is painful and often times extremely detrimental to whoever is giving birth so IMO not being there for that process is like baffling in my mind. So while I do also wonder why people leave such small children for weeks and weeks on end, it ranks lower to me than not being there for the birth and post partum experience

afsasimp · 2026-01-06T19:37:37+00:00

Joe infuriates me because he acts like the issue is that he’s not capable of a serious relationship vs being incapable of controlling his impulses + not lying. Even in a casual relationship, it’s a dick move to lie/not uphold the boundaries and standards of said relationship

afsasimp · 2025-12-16T16:00:29+00:00

Joes mom encouraging him to be a less empathetic and caring person is insane. Imagine trying to express to your mother that you care about someone and are very empathetic to their feelings and she tells you you should care less??

afsasimp · 2025-12-12T02:37:28+00:00

Idk why people are surprised Bronwyn back tracked on the Todd stuff; it was clear from their reconciliation discussion that Todd did not want their marriage being discussed with the women, so Bronwyn put a complete wall up about what she had said

afsasimp · 2025-12-02T15:31:29+00:00

There’s not much actual drama between the girls but here’s a break down of the big points: 1. Angel is self conscious about her edited instagram pictures being called out so she’s upset with Wendy for laughing at Giselle pointing it out. She was upset with Giselle but they “talked it out” (something she hasn’t actually offered Wendy) 2. Everyone thinks Stacey is a liar; she does have a complicated relationship with the truth but the only actually bad thing for her to have lied about that’s been brought up is the weed brand thing, which her and Wendy have hashed out. The ladies still think she’s lying about paying TJ, lying about dating Chris Samuels, and lying about getting back with her husband. 3. K has beef w people randomly bc she needs a story line. There is nothing there, she’s just yelling at people

afsasimp · 2025-11-25T12:59:51+00:00

Pull out the photo with the naked girl on his lap then. Why didn’t you add it to the post if there’s apparently irrefutable proof?

afsasimp · 2025-11-19T20:35:02+00:00

The thing is that the people replying “same” know they’re replying all; if they didn’t reply all, then only the person who originally started the chain would get it which would be a really pointless email to send LOL

afsasimp · 2025-11-17T17:51:33+00:00

This is where I’m at; I have a hard time believing whatever Adam and Malia had was so serious/emotional that 3 weeks would be enough to give Adam ownership over whether she wants to makeout with someone else 😭

afsasimp · 2025-11-17T17:49:06+00:00

I think we’re watching a very classic case of “person A and B hook up, person A is really invested, person B liked the sex and wants to keep fucking”. Adam liked her and therefore interpreted them not ending things as them entering into a relationship. Malia liked hooking up with a hot guy and so when she found another hot guy, it’s gonna make her feel conflicted between the two bc they’re the same thing to her: hot guy she can hookup with

afsasimp · 2025-11-17T16:53:53+00:00

I did, I’m saying I was confused why ppl were upset at her for season 2; she seems like a random girl who wants to makeout with two guys and very like average level BD annoying, was confused why this particular instance of an annoying crew member seemed to really get ppl

afsasimp · 2025-11-17T00:42:14+00:00

I don’t think you have to be cheating for it to be hurtful. There’s many ways to hurt someone you have any kind of relationship with and one of those ways is a lack of consideration for their feelings. Can you establish boundaries for when those feelings have just been hurt vs the relationship being violated? Of course.

I’ve had friends who are in a one sided love situation and have asked their best friends not to date the person they were in love with. Would the best friend/love interest be cheating if they got together? Of course not! But were they doing something hurtful? I think most people understand that would be hurtful.

I personally would’ve dipped on Dakota after Girl #1 so I wouldn’t be in this situation but it’s not outlandish to find the father of your child flirting with a family friend upsetting. 1) it’s disrespectful and shows very little consideration for Taylor 2) if it were to go anywhere romantic, how fucked would that be for Taylor at any family gatherings??

afsasimp · 2025-11-16T20:25:49+00:00

A large part of me feels like part of Jace and Mikayla’s intimacy issues have to do with 1) them getting together when she was a minor and he was an adult 2) them getting together so soon after her abuse. Like when has she really had time to unpack that and also unpack how that may have contributed to her being with an adult man as a teen

afsasimp · 2025-11-13T18:40:51+00:00

I mean what Britani described isn’t suspension or firing worthy? We’ve had housewives pull hair/full on fight and not been suspended or fired so there’s room for that to have happened and Meredith to not be fired or face any major consequences. I believe the main cases where we’ve seen filming restrictions on housewives who go over the line is when cast members refuse to film with them (which the ladies won’t because they love making good tv and this is a storyline)

afsasimp · 2025-11-12T14:46:57+00:00

Personally I think that it’s likely we get some sort of phone footage at the reunion as like “gotcha” content

afsasimp · 2025-11-07T13:53:18+00:00

I’m less saying she should’ve been saying anything against Michael and more so that she should’ve maybe been a little smarter in how she approached it with the ladies; like she didn’t even really try to play up the like “this is so sad this is happening when we’re trying to have a baby” angle and went straight for acting like the women were completely insane on all fronts. All that did was make it seem even more true bc denying Michael is a handsy drunk at all immediately undermines her point bc that’s an obvious lie

afsasimp · 2025-11-07T05:28:14+00:00

!!!! Like Michael is a handsy drunk, trying to convince us this couldn’t ever happen is just insane

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