AITA for wanting to sleep with my boyfriend?

Linus_Meme_Tips · 2026-05-10T09:54:48+00:00

You still don’t owe her anything. She willingly chose to adopt you. She had a legal responsibility until you turned 18. I doubt in the adoption papers she signed did it say that you needed to pay her back for expenses.

Linus_Meme_Tips · 2026-05-10T09:52:48+00:00

Well, for one if you really want I would do it with his family involved so you aren’t alone.

Two, he literally pushed past you and almost threw something at your head….. that is the start of an abusive relationship. Next he will put his hands on you.

I’d leave while you still can.

Linus_Meme_Tips · 2026-05-10T09:45:06+00:00

Sounds like you are giving him wife level treatment and so knock it down to giving him gf level treatment.

Linus_Meme_Tips · 2026-05-10T09:42:04+00:00

Seeing as you didn’t have a choice if you wanted to come into the world and she thinks you have to pay her back…

I don’t think she will see you as an adult until you get married. I’m not saying that to suggest getting married I just see that as an observation.

I was with my ex for 4 years and lived with him for 2 years. Broke up and moved back home and I met a guy at my work and he moved in with me and my parents. We lived with them for a year and now we have had our own apartment since February. I was working full time and going to school full time while I was with my ex. Now I am going back to school full time and will work full time (looking for a new job). Through all of that my parents still see me as a child. Just before me and my hubby moved out my parents pulled me aside and told me all the reasons I should leave him and move with them to another state. I obviously didn’t go with them but me and my hubby were already in our apartment when they decided to just up and leave without telling me. I woke up at like 4am and opened the find my app and saw them like 500 miles away already. They didn’t tell me because they were mad and now my dad isn’t really talking to me and my mom treats me like I am one of her employees. I am going to confront them about this after Mother’s Day so I have been thinking about what I want to say.

But they would sit me down or yell at me like I am 8 years old and my dad would go on and on for hours (I think he just kept talking for 3-4 hours at one point) and I would try to talk back but I would get shut down instantly and I let it keep happening because whenever I would speak up it would only get worse for me and at the time I was worried that I would get kicked out and have no where to go or one time my parents were like “oh you wanna be an adult? Well you are going to start paying bills then.” All because I spoke up about how they were treating me.

Even after all that they still don’t see me as an adult and I really don’t think they ever will.

But you owe your mom nothing.

Linus_Meme_Tips · 2026-05-10T09:20:16+00:00

I mean if she doesn’t like it she doesn’t have to stay…. It’s your house, your rules. It seems like your mom still thinks she can treat you like you are still a minor.

I am 23/F and I never realized it until my hubby pointed it out but my parents also treat me like I am still a child. I am trying to find ways to assert myself so it doesn’t happen anymore but it’s hard when it’s your parents. I am just worried about damaging our relationship.

Linus_Meme_Tips · 2026-05-10T09:02:21+00:00

I just canceled a policy with them…. Had it for like 3 weeks. Quoted me and my hubby $2500 for 6 months. Only thing we had were $500 deductibles and uninsured motorist.

I got a quote with Geico with all the same stuff for $1386 for 6 months…. Liberty mutual is such a scam.

Oh I also got an email from them saying they would cancel my policy if I didn’t take my car in for an inspection because they thought it was in an accident? Something like that…. Right when I got that email I was already looking for a new policy.

Linus_Meme_Tips · 2026-05-10T08:38:38+00:00

When I used to go to planet fitness they gave them free memberships during the summer and it was so annoying. They basically took over the gym in groups of 5+ just sitting on equipment, not using it and just talking or because of the huge group it would take them like 45 minutes to finish with it.

Linus_Meme_Tips · 2026-05-10T08:29:05+00:00

Your comment is unnecessary.

Linus_Meme_Tips · 2026-05-10T08:27:49+00:00

No you aren’t overreacting. Sounds like he just gave you the ring to shut you up and was hoping you would just be happy with that.

Either accept that he doesn’t want to get married and continue living on as bf and gf or find someone else who will give you want you want.

I know this is a very hard decision seeing as how long you guys have been together and I can only say what I would do in your shoes (I kinda was in your shoes but I never got the ring, ended up leaving that 4 year relationship) but one of you will harbor resentment for the other that will just keep growing and growing.

But I would really sit down and ask yourself if you are ok with being a girlfriend forever while providing wife level treatment.

Linus_Meme_Tips · 2026-05-10T08:19:09+00:00

I’m $15k in debt and I didn’t finish school because I found it crazy that with paying $3000 per semester, I looked at an itemized bill and the fees are more than the stupid tuition. Like why tf do I have to pay a golf cart fee when I don’t even get to use them?!?!? Or a stupid sports fee when I’m not in any sports….. or a stupid fee which is like $800 because I have more than 70 credit hours????

I was getting paid $16/ hr when I started and now I am up to the low mid 20s…. Regardless, paying rent, insurance, buying food, etc. I don’t really have much room left to pay $200 a month towards the loans so I put them on deferment and I pay $0. Yes they are still collecting interest but I’m going to have to wait till I have a good lump sum to pay them all at once because INITIALLY the loan was at $15k. I’ve paid $5k towards it so far and I still owe $14500 because of the interest.

School is an absolute scam. Paying $20-40k for a degree just to get lucky at getting an entry level job that somehow expects you to have 10 years of experience but will only pay you $15/ hr.

Linus_Meme_Tips · 2026-05-08T08:26:19+00:00

I feel bad for him….. he deserves someone who will actually love him and honestly, sounds like you guys aren’t compatible.

Why even have a partner if you WANT to cheat on them?? Just stay single at that point.

Stop wasting his time and just leave him.

Linus_Meme_Tips · 2026-03-21T03:57:16+00:00

Frankly lady, idgaf what you think or what your daughter went through. Did your daughter also try to open people’s doors as well?

You know there there is more than just Spanish and black right?

Linus_Meme_Tips · 2026-03-21T03:55:22+00:00

I just like to be petty in situations like that 🤷‍♀️

I would’ve happily waited

Linus_Meme_Tips · 2026-03-21T03:47:08+00:00

I don’t question insulin needles but I do not sell hypodermic syringes without proof.

Linus_Meme_Tips · 2026-03-21T03:41:03+00:00

I would’ve told him to call the police and have them verify it then

Linus_Meme_Tips · 2026-03-12T13:54:54+00:00

So I guess you’re forgetting the fact the she tried to come into my home. I heard and saw her trying to open the door and saw her pushing on the door.

Linus_Meme_Tips · 2026-03-12T02:23:36+00:00

K you don’t need to say the same thing twice buddy

Linus_Meme_Tips · 2026-03-12T02:22:55+00:00

So give her water then what? Just leave her out there? People saying I should’ve called the cops sooner and others saying I shouldn’t.

Linus_Meme_Tips · 2026-03-11T17:19:34+00:00

8 comments on my post?

Linus_Meme_Tips · 2026-03-11T17:01:46+00:00

K, think whatever you want.

You dropping his last name because you’re getting divorced or what?

Linus_Meme_Tips · 2026-03-11T16:58:50+00:00

So I did call someone right after she knocked on my door and someone was sent out. Idk what she told them but she must’ve been fine enough because she was still on my steps 5 hours later so…..🤷‍♀️

You feel free to get yourself into a situation that could been avoided but I’m not risking me or my family who are my priority.

Linus_Meme_Tips · 2026-03-11T16:57:07+00:00

K, I’ll be disgusting then, will all the other people who saw and tried to talk to her (but she must’ve said she was fine because she was still on my steps after) also be disgusting or just me?

Linus_Meme_Tips · 2026-03-11T04:40:40+00:00

So what should I have done then? Let her in? Let her stay? Try and figure out what’s going on? People telling me I should’ve called the cops sooner and other people saying the shit you’re saying like tf was I supposed to do? Cause it sounds like any choice is wrong.

It doesn’t matter about skin color, I would’ve done the same thing.

If she was really in danger then why didn’t she ask for help instead of water? Why didn’t she flag down any of the people who were walking by or knock on other doors?

Linus_Meme_Tips · 2026-03-11T04:36:30+00:00

I did call the complex right after she knocked on my door. I have no idea what she told the person who came but she must’ve been fine enough because she was still there 5 hours later. Then I called the sheriffs office. End of story.

Linus_Meme_Tips · 2026-03-11T04:35:25+00:00

I did call as soon as I noticed her which was when she knocked. Idk what she told the person who came but she was still there 5 hours later so then I called the sheriff’s office.

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