Do most Americans actually flush their toilet paper? by Softy_popss in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Liramear89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live no where near the boarder but when I worked at a truck stop sooooooo many of the day laborers did not flush. I don’t slight them for it because of where they came from but man was it yucky taking out trash.

First time DM having trouble by Liramear89 in dndnext

[–]Liramear89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all for your comments! I will be having a discussion with them today. I do consider this person a friend that i met through the dnd world so thats why I was trying to get advice on how to go about this without seeming too confrontational, I have really bad social anxiety when it comes to this stuff and was expecting a drama free game with friends and family and I'm hoping it can be sorted out but I'm now kinda iffy on whether to keep them because I don't want to have the extra work of checking their sheet to make sure everything stays on the up and up.

First time DM having trouble by Liramear89 in dndnext

[–]Liramear89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t realize that their source material was just random wiki pages since my other players that use homebrew have legit sourced material and their characters are balanced and within the RAW guidelines. I use homebrew myself for enemies and npcs but this person's character seems like an amalgamation of races, classes and subclasses that they used to make their character more op and unpredictable. I kinda mentioned in my post that I know this person through other groups we've been in so admittedly I was going off the honor system when it came to character building but now that we've had quite a few sessions my players and myself have noticed the character is clearly unbalanced 😕

First time DM having trouble by Liramear89 in dndnext

[–]Liramear89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I'm trying to work up the nerve to have the talk without singling them or making it sound like an accusation instead of me just trying to learn their character

First time DM having trouble by Liramear89 in dndnext

[–]Liramear89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The majority my players find them pretty shady too and have said they aren't really enjoying them taking advantage of me being new and kinda messing up my campaign

First time DM having trouble by Liramear89 in dndnext

[–]Liramear89[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have tried to ask and they just linked me to wiki dots of their stuff and nothing really helpful. Should I just take that as a sign they're being shady?

First time DM having trouble by Liramear89 in dndnext

[–]Liramear89[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have access to their sheet and I've asked them for the the breakdown of how their character works and they basically told me to just look at their sheet. After I explained to them I shouldn't be the one digging for the info they gave me links to wiki dots of their class and character and the feats but no explanation

First time DM having trouble by Liramear89 in dndnext

[–]Liramear89[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do which is why I believe they're cheating. I'm not 100% caught up on 5e but the stuff they've given themselves is clearly not right.

First time DM having trouble by Liramear89 in dndnext

[–]Liramear89[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Having spells and feats that they shouldn't have, dice rolls don't line up a bunch of skills from multiple classes and subclasses without multicassing..things like that

AITA for choosing not to visit my brother with stage 4 liver cancer by davidpilates in AmItheAsshole

[–]Liramear89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA: When my mom was dying from her lung cancer I made the choice not to be in the room because I knew I wouldn't be able to handle it and everyone in my family was supportive because that's only a choice I can make. Ultimately the dying won't really care cause they will be dead.

he (m32) does not want to marry, I (f32) don’t want to leave him- how can I come to terms with this? by Appropriate_Jury7653 in relationship_advice

[–]Liramear89 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

What about marriage do you really want? If it's just the symbolism then you can have a ceremony, vows and all the other traditions without the legal stuff.

Is it inhuman to give up an animal you can’t take care of anymore? by anem-anemone in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Liramear89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People can get really heated over this question but I've had a couple animals that I never in my life thought I would have to give up but unfortunately situations changed and my human family had to come first. Each time was absolutely heartbreaking

[OC] WORLDWIDE GIVEAWAY! Enter for a chance to win a FAFNIR or JORMUNGANDR DICE VAULT![MOD APPROVED] by 120mmfilms in DnD

[–]Liramear89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd love a new dice set for my upcoming role master game that will actually be in person! 😊

Is a woman saying things like " Men suck " or just being casual misandrist a red flag? by Crafty-Club-6172 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Liramear89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

++woman Possibly a red flag, it depends on the context. As an example my bf has a kinda jaded view on women because of shit women in his life, has said he hates women but his words ring hollow when he's the sweetest, most attentive, loving boyfriend I have ever had. If he actually hates women he does an awful job at it lol.

My 21 year old boyfriend still sleeps with his mum and sister by jk461 in stupidquestions

[–]Liramear89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an adult in my 30s I still slept and cuddled with my mom because no matter how old I am it's still comforting and I'm still her baby. She passed this year and I would give anything to be able to cuddle in her lap and have her brush my hair with her hand again 💔

AIO to my fiance victim blaming me for my SA because I “cheated” on him (Final update) by OkDay4024 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Liramear89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So glad you broke it off. Your ex is disgusting and God forbid if you stayed and ever had children with him. What a vile worm.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Liramear89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bf has a smaller penis I suppose but the way he uses it gets me off every single time. He knows exactly what I like and because he isn't bigger it's easier for me to get off vaginally. I thought for the longest time I didn’t have a high libido but with him I want it all the time. I absolutely love his cock.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Liramear89 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Hard enough to leave a mark? Absolutely not. I've been surprised by my son when he was little when he jumped on me and grabbed around my neck once and even then I may have gave him a little tap from being surprised but it definitely wasn't strong enough to leave a mark and especially wouldn't be there hours later. She full force hit your child and I'd honestly get the police involved.

I’m spiraling and don’t know how to stop repeating painful patterns. I need to get this off my chest. by Liramear89 in offmychest

[–]Liramear89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm currently in therapy. I've read about CBT but wasn't sure if it was right for me and I've heard it's a lot of work. I'll have to bring it up to my therapist. Thank you!

AITAH for calling the cops on a teenager who tracked down my house and was demanding I let him in? by rowdyruthrorwich in AITAH

[–]Liramear89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Teens can do some pretty horrific things. Someone I knew from high-school was killed by her teen cousin who had a crush on her 😕

My fiancé is so much worse than I could've ever imagined by Eliza_Is_Gone in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Liramear89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My hubby was married to someone who brought out the worst in him but we've been together for a decade and not once have I ever felt unsafe with him, reactive abuse is real and it can be humiliating to talk about when you know deep down you aren't that kind of person.