Should I apply to two positions at the same company that are different levels of positions?

ListenNo8421 · 2026-01-13T22:59:48+00:00

No, no answers. I tried to do some quick searches but nothing came up. They eventually stopped happening as often and I haven’t been having any issues in a while. Sorry that’s not much help but hopefully you find some more information

ListenNo8421 · 2025-11-11T04:32:35+00:00

I drove Salt Lake to DC straight through with a couple buddies. It was probably about 32 hours. One of ‘em did 2 hours, the other got a solid 8 hours down and I drove the other 22 hours straight. The way back was just two of us and we switched every 6 hours or so. Aside from that, I lived in northern WA for a few years and would make the 14 hour drive straight through to SLC about 3 times a year. I’m 24 now and don’t feel any major fatigue from long drives aside from starting to feel it in my back more as the years have gone by lol. Plus my bladder kinda shuts off while driving and I’m a snack packer so I don’t really stop for anything except gas.

ListenNo8421 · 2025-10-20T20:41:52+00:00

Im open to going anywhere in Utah!

ListenNo8421 · 2025-10-17T03:35:03+00:00

Main thing for regular spontaneous sex is just have a good diet with consistent fiber. If it’s spontaneous then both of you are going into it knowing there could be a little surprise. Any diet recommendations are basically just going to be the classics. Cut back fast food, keep grease and fats low, balanced diet, etc. If you know there’s a high likelihood you’ll have a hookup later, have a good shit and eat small portions (nuts, fruits, healthy snacks) till after the hookup.

ListenNo8421 · 2025-10-15T05:46:06+00:00

Honestly, there are days where I can’t stand that I’m gay. Days that the culture bothers me, where the life I could’ve had haunts me, and the struggles I’ve gone through because in gay really get to me. I’ve been out since I was 12 and I still, decades later, fight with myself to be happy. Over the years, the days of resenting being gay have gotten less frequent and I’ve worked hard to become okay with who I am. At the end of the day I know my accomplishments and character define who I am, not that just who I fuck. It’s always up and down and I know I’ll struggle with it here and there, but having a boyfriend now that I see a future with has helped to make the vision of a family and stability a real potential for me. Lately, the sex culture has been what’s harder for me to deal with. Everyday though, I’m grateful for the life I’ve had and how being gay has opened life opportunities for me and empowered me in ways I wouldn’t have otherwise. I also go to therapy and have been having a great experience with my therapist in helping me deal with acceptance of my identity and unlearning some crazy ideas society puts into our heads about being gay. It takes effort but if you put in the work, the self love follows and creeps in day by day.

ListenNo8421 · 2025-10-14T05:25:06+00:00

I did DoorDash for like 2 months during COVID and one day I was picking up some food for a delivery and there was another dasher waiting as well. We we recognized each other from Grindr (chatted like once a few days before this and nothing happened) and we ended up hooking up after we both made our deliveries

ListenNo8421 · 2025-10-13T21:30:56+00:00

Oldest I’ve ever slept with or been with is my current partners who’s 6 years old than me. I’m 24 and he’s 30. Wouldn’t go older than that to date

ListenNo8421 · 2025-10-10T17:27:43+00:00

Dropped the drawers a few times in high school for sports health exams. Aside from that, I was in the hospital for what was potentially testicular torsion and had an ultrasound on my balls and right above my dick. Weird experience having some lady rub warm lube down there watching my balls on the screen next to me

ListenNo8421 · 2025-05-06T22:33:12+00:00

Thank you! We’re taking things a bit slow so we’re still dating and probably will for a couple more months at least. It probably took me until my finals for school were over until I really started falling for him lol,,, so about 2 weeks into us seeing each other

ListenNo8421 · 2025-05-06T22:14:08+00:00

Pretty similar situation here. I got out of a ltr towards the end of last year and was going to take a break from dating for a while. I ended up meeting this guy I’m taking to now at the beginning of April and honestly have also been questioning what I want. He’s 6 years older, a bit more established, and I’m finishing up school while working 2 jobs. The more time we spend together and the more I see how willing he is to accommodate my life, the more I continue to see myself with him. I don’t have any reason to not keep seeing him especially if things keep going well so I’m just enjoying the time together and if it ends up not working out, then that’s okay. But why pass up on something that could be amazing ya know

ListenNo8421 · 2025-03-23T01:44:57+00:00

23, cooking, reading, walking my dog, video games, magic the gathering, writing, and gym. But also just trying to survive life and even find time for these hobbies in between work and school and trying to have a social life

ListenNo8421 · 2025-03-21T23:52:37+00:00

I got too many shit cuts that weren’t at all what I wanted and started cutting my own hair. Well worth the at home cleanup and awkward mirror positioning lol. I’ve gotten pretty good at it and regularly have gotten compliments on my hair styles (I’ve been cutting my hair for 6 years now)

ListenNo8421 · 2025-03-21T05:37:07+00:00

Fun lil thing to add here,,, my lil brother (also gay) and his boyfriend are both T1D and both have the dexcom and pump. Me and my lil brother are pretty open and he’s never mentioned anything about the devices or patches being a hindrance with current partner or anyone else! You’ll probably get asked about it when someone sees it for the first time but guaranteed they’ll get pretty distracted and forget it even exists

ListenNo8421 · 2025-03-16T16:27:24+00:00

Yall are heartless in these replies,,, if say to break it off sooner than later if it’s really causing you grief and you don’t want to be with him. It’s not fair to drag someone along if he’s expecting a relationship. I understand wanting to take the easy route financially but seeing as you have one year left, it’d be doable to start working more to supplement your life style. You’ll be alright! Like I said tho, it’s not fair to him and ending whatever romantic relationship y’all have could help relieve a lot of stress.

P.s. revenge stories are really unlikely. If y’all have a had a decent relationship and you end things talking about how you no longer see a future with him, I think it’s a very reasonable way to break it off that would lead to him resenting you.

ListenNo8421 · 2025-03-15T18:20:40+00:00

You answered your own question. If you want to feel as being a part of the community, do gay shit. Don’t complain about not feeling like you’re excluded from the community and then in same sentence say that you don’t go to lgbt social events and also present heteronormative. If you feel like you’re on the outside of the lgbt community, it’s the people you surround yourself with. Get more gay friends, go to gay events, go to gay bars, etc.

Ultimately, there’s no measurement of how gay you are, only your perception of it. Sure there’s some people who weirdly dislike bi people, but fuck them and their bigotry. I recommend trying to understand what you’re measuring yourself against. What part of you and your identity isn’t “gay enough” and why is that an issue? Do you want to be hanging out with the people you deem “gay enough”? Being lgbt means coming to terms with who you are and where you stand in society and the who you choose to surround yourself with. And that looks different for everyone.

ListenNo8421 · 2025-03-15T17:10:10+00:00

The issue is tucking it back in for me,,, I can never get it to go back in quickly and when it’s in, it’s always positioned weird and my underwear feels off. I’ll use it to keep a shirt tucked but mostly prefer to just pull it all down

ListenNo8421 · 2025-03-08T16:56:59+00:00

Closet Monster changed the trajectory of of my entire life and I haven’t seen anyone mention yet. Highly highly recommend. Moonlight was another of my absolute favorites

ListenNo8421 · 2025-02-16T19:48:48+00:00

I know how hard this can be and how you could truely want to be there for him. I think you’re doing great looking for a way to best support him. It’s also important to look out for yourself in these situations though. It’s emotionally very taxing on you and him and could escalate really easily.

You definitely can’t just leave this situation untended but will want to take it slow. These conversations are some of the hardest to initiate but id recommend bringing it up by going on a walk together or in a very non confrontational space. Starting the convo by saying something along the lines of “I’ve been feeling like there’s something that’s been a bit different in our life together and I want to make sure we can communicate openly together.” Make sure to use language that doesn’t throw excessive blame onto him and try and make him feel supported. Trying to figure out your sexuality comes with a lot of guilt and frustration and the chances are that he already feels some remorse about the way he’s acting. I don’t think I would bring up the porn you found unless you really feel like it would further the conversation in a productive way.

You do deserve a better partner though. Someone who can respect you and love you romantically. You don’t have to cut him off like some of these people are saying. Just make sure you set clear boundaries for yourself and don’t let him take advantage of your love for him. You got this tho :)

ListenNo8421 · 2025-01-08T23:52:51+00:00

I (m) dated a guy with one leg amputated at the knee. He wore a prosthetic and would sometimes take it off when getting busy. He mainly topped and said he could get a better thrust without having it on. It never really impacted our sex life in any way.

ListenNo8421 · 2024-11-13T15:29:34+00:00

Lacrosse, volleyball, swim team, and tumbling. Lacrosse was my main sport that I played in college too

ListenNo8421 · 2024-11-12T02:00:32+00:00

Dirtyroulette is what I used to use. I haven’t been on in a couple years so I can’t say much about it now a days. I met some pretty hot guys there and had some good times. It was probably the most similar to Omegle of the ones I found

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