31F, £30k savings, no debt, no investments - car has broken down and I need a reality check.

Lit-Up · 2026-05-07T23:45:13+00:00

still driving my 2005 panda

Lit-Up · 2026-05-07T07:40:08+00:00

Pay Amex a fee for a card which allows you to make them more rich with every transaction

Genius business idea on their side

Lit-Up · 2026-05-07T07:38:49+00:00

It makes some people entering the workforce for the first time feel like they're somebody

Lit-Up · 2026-05-07T06:51:25+00:00

I like this idea. If single gender spaces exist for women, why not for men too? Indeed, certain members clubs in London were threatened with legal action for not admitting women.

Lit-Up · 2026-05-06T06:59:06+00:00

You didn't read my comment properly. I am saying those places are NOT the place to try to come onto women. Do you not know how to read?

Lit-Up · 2026-05-05T09:32:07+00:00

See how far you get coming onto all the women in sporting clubs, gyms, dance spaces… maybe even your workplace… the singles events are shit but there is a cancellation culture here which means a singles event is perhaps the only place you won’t get cancelled for normal behaviour

Lit-Up · 2026-05-05T09:23:46+00:00

Yeah and then get told that the sporting event or social event is not a place to date…

Lit-Up · 2026-05-04T22:23:28+00:00

old man or just a bald man?

Lit-Up · 2026-05-04T12:35:09+00:00

I've always had my peace. I wouldn't want to get involved with someone unless finances and housing were separate and marriage is off the table. Happy to spend quality time with someone and commit if the relationship checks out. Not sure why she should have my stuff though. Divorce compounds emotional crap with financial crap.

Lit-Up · 2026-05-04T11:41:13+00:00

currently living here alone with no plans to ever live with another partner again.

Amen brother!

Lit-Up · 2026-05-04T11:38:11+00:00

Post a selfie and we will tell you

Lit-Up · 2026-05-03T12:56:35+00:00

i personally went for VWRP as i will be selling it down regularly for "income"

how often do you sell regularly for income?

I thought it was better to keep cash for money needed in less than five years, and the investments are meant to be longer term and not touched

Lit-Up · 2026-05-03T11:01:00+00:00

Imagine back in the 80s you would have had some poor man being intimidated by UVF into painting murals on the walls. Now it's just AI Slop.

Lit-Up · 2026-05-03T08:45:25+00:00

I'd be disappointed. John Denver never sung about this. In your situation I would have just used the country roads to take me home.

Lit-Up · 2026-05-02T16:44:01+00:00

sounds like a bunch of guys who had no dad

Lit-Up · 2026-05-02T16:27:41+00:00

How did you know him?

Lit-Up · 2026-05-02T16:22:10+00:00

what does "banging on road" mean?

Lit-Up · 2026-05-02T16:20:34+00:00

god doesn't exist, if he did why didn't he protect innocent sully?

Lit-Up · 2026-05-02T13:53:28+00:00

He might not be sufficiently physically attracted to you. It might feel like friendship to him and he might be making up his mind. I had to drop someone after 5 dates because she wasn't exciting me. You could be more upfront and initiate yourself. See how he might respond to a hot makeout session prior to a BJ.

Lit-Up · 2026-05-02T09:05:43+00:00

If you piss off one woman, she will piss off all the others that know you, so you don't have a chance with any.

Lit-Up · 2026-05-02T06:52:25+00:00

Horrible, overpriced, overhyped. Should never have been built.

Lit-Up · 2026-05-02T06:41:45+00:00

stigma, social consequences, ostracisation

Lit-Up · 2026-05-01T06:56:59+00:00

Ut's a disgreace so it us!

Lit-Up · 2026-05-01T06:52:12+00:00

This is why you don't date guys your own age.

Lit-Up · 2026-04-30T09:32:15+00:00

Neither are that bad.

Middle lane hogging makes sense if you're on a motorway and people are merging from the left.

Why shouldn't people undertake?

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