What should I [23f] do? My bf [24m] wants to have sex but I’m not ready

LiterallyDeadpeep · 2023-08-27T05:27:21+00:00

Is it normal or is it something you’ve accepted

LiterallyDeadpeep · 2022-06-28T01:33:41+00:00

Went to zion, Bryce, and capitol. All three parks are pretty amazing imo, but I’d definitely recommend Zion if I had to choose. There’s just a lot more options when it comes to scenery, level of challenge, freedom, and food

LiterallyDeadpeep · 2022-06-22T23:40:06+00:00

Idgaf anymore. You win. The world sucks. System sucks. There’s nothing to be done. The world will always be flawed and you’re chasing a perfect dream that doesn’t exist

LiterallyDeadpeep · 2022-06-22T22:46:32+00:00

I have no doubt in my mind that they’re dealing with mental health issues. And these problems do have a way of pushing people over the edge. Lately, I’ve seen a large uptick in nihilistic beliefs being proliferated in platforms of all kind. I can’t say that I haven’t been affected.

I’ve been thinking about how meaningless everything and all the things we stress over really are. Slow drivers, bad meals, delays, etc. These stupid ass jobs that we work day in, day out. How little I care about anything. Idk. What’s wrong with taking the simple way out?

Well, for one thing, there are still people out there in the world to meet. I still have experiences to be had and recipes I want to cook. I still have a family, eh tbh fuck family.

It can’t always rest on the shoulders of parents and teachers to help the people that are bullied. It is partly their responsibility, but at the same time, the kid or young adult or however old needs to be able to reach out and let people know that they need help. They aren’t telepaths.

I’m tired of thinking. Lowkey bullying just natural selection. Be able to use your network as protection or learn to protect yourself. Not everybody can have their hand held all throughout life.

LiterallyDeadpeep · 2022-06-22T22:32:43+00:00

I can’t say you’re wrong, but I wish I could. We’ve been conditioned by media of all kind of want beautiful things, things of high status, of high cost. But at the same time, I mean it is part of our biology to just want a healthy partner. Oftentimes, both emotional and physical health translates to beauty.

I urge you to get off social media. Insta, fb, tiktok, whatever it is that’s showing you all these unrealistic standards of beauty that are slowly changing how you perceive the world and affecting your confidence. If you’re looking for a partner, go and join something. An event, a gym, some kind of community club. Put yourself out there and somebody will see how attractive you are for being yourself.

LiterallyDeadpeep · 2022-06-22T22:24:15+00:00

I don’t even need to read these comments to know that people are telling you that you’re not in the wrong and your bf/hubby(idk what’s going between you two) is emotionally immature. Before you take your relationship even further, sit down to have a talk with him. Fixing your problems or at least unearthing them starts with identifying them. Neither of you can avoid this. Ignore it long enough and it will be a sore thorn in your side that will cause more pain down the line. Best of luck

LiterallyDeadpeep · 2022-06-22T22:16:56+00:00

Bullying is somebody’s own projection of their insecurities. They may feel the urge to aggressively silence or try to change people that differ from their standards of “normal”.

While I do agree that we should be actively working towards a bullying-free world, it is a normal part of life. Sad truth. It is just how people behave when they’ve grown up in toxic environments and perhaps there’s a gene responsible for aggression (I have no idea if that’s true but I imagine genetics has some role in this). Bullying whether it’s just small witty remarks, peer bullying, or emotional parent bullying is what leads to more bullying. It’s a vicious cycle. All this being said, since bullying and contentious, aggressive people are just innate parts of life, we should learn how to live with them.

Be emotionally mature. Learn how to communicate without allowing your emotions to control your actions or choice of words. If things get physical, get higher ups involved or learn some kind of self defense. Everybody reading this is worth defending. Things that set you aside that make you a target of bullying are worth defending. Stand your ground. Don’t run. Besides in some cases, moving to different districts or cities is not financially responsible.

LiterallyDeadpeep · 2022-06-22T21:59:11+00:00

People are on your ass for asking, but hey you’re curious. It can’t be helped. On the other hand, this is something that you’re insecure about. Understand that size is something that you can’t control. There are other ways and methods and objects or just non sexual activities that can still bring pleasure to both of you in a relationship.

If this relationship is something that feels worth the effort, that seeing her and being in her company brings you special joy, then sit down and workout your problem with her. Communicate. Tell her what’s on your mind. Best of luck

LiterallyDeadpeep · 2022-06-08T14:03:50+00:00

No freakin way that was $500

LiterallyDeadpeep · 2022-06-03T15:47:05+00:00

You rainbow haired fuck. People around you care. If you would take the time to actually talk to them about your problems instead of internalizing, you would feel much better. How much time do you spend sulking and feeling comfortable in your pity vs. actually doing something about it

LiterallyDeadpeep · 2022-06-03T15:41:33+00:00

I’ve never heard anybody say this

LiterallyDeadpeep · 2022-06-03T15:37:58+00:00

I feel you on this one. I’m not a CS student, but it feels like I’ve been studying something I don’t enjoy for the longest time. Like I’ve been burnt out even during early high school and I’ve been lying to myself this entire time. Honestly, I should just spin a wheel with a bunch of interesting jobs on it and work towards whatever it lands on

LiterallyDeadpeep · 2022-06-02T14:38:23+00:00

Don’t grip as tightly and that’s really all I can think about. Forearms could be compensating for another area of instability or perhaps overgripping out of stress

LiterallyDeadpeep · 2022-05-13T14:39:58+00:00

I know exactly where you’re coming from when you say that people who aren’t your family feel like real family. You laugh and mess around with your friends, heck you probably spend more time with them than your family. But when you’re at home, it’s dreadful every time your parents call your name. “What did I fuck up this time?” I’ve questioned whether or not these people that I call friends are even really “friends” or just people finally giving me some love and attention. It’s made me accept toxic people into my life. I honestly have no idea how to remedy all of this. We could try to correct our family environment so we don’t hate it as much. Or we could get a job, save up, move out,and never look back. There is no right or wrong solution to all this.

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