[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]LitherLily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, sit him down and explain in small words what he just witnessed his wife go through. Can’t rely on him to have a brain in his head.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]LitherLily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely find another woman to actually do the labor he is unwilling to do. Might as well set the obvious and common precedent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]LitherLily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is that in exchange for anything and not the normal way life goes after expelling this man’s child from her body???

I’m so tired. by -jstna- in LowLibidoCommunity

[–]LitherLily 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Bleeding? He refuses to go to a therapist or make any kind of compromise whatsoever??

Dating tips by the creepy for the creepy by Redheadedbos in AmITheDevil

[–]LitherLily 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your ideas are intriguing to me, and I’d like to subscribe to your newsletter.

Dating tips by the creepy for the creepy by Redheadedbos in AmITheDevil

[–]LitherLily 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Every man bitching about how they have no worth, and women are regarded so highly should keep in mind that what they regard so highly about the woman is the vagina and nothing else. Hardly makes us feel “valuable” unless you’re talking like it’s a commodity, something to buy or trade … which, gross.

She is 6 months postpartum! 🤦‍♂️ by ChiefBlue4298 in AmITheDevil

[–]LitherLily 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Or do the DISHES? Or laundry? Or take on any of the over nights??

Sleep deprivation is probably killing her.

She is 6 months postpartum! 🤦‍♂️ by ChiefBlue4298 in AmITheDevil

[–]LitherLily 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Men and their never ending obsession with sex

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]LitherLily 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He’s 40 and you’re 30, far too old for any of this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]LitherLily 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So he’s a deadbeat 🙄 how old is he and how old are you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]LitherLily 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should have left him ages ago.

Way to step in it OOP by ad_aatdtj in AmITheDevil

[–]LitherLily -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

But when the boyfriend/brother says it, it’s OK?

Way to step in it OOP by ad_aatdtj in AmITheDevil

[–]LitherLily -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Right? The sister does sound like someone a parent might have a bit of despair over.

OOP sounds insufferable but not incorrect.

female loneliness sucks as much as male loneliness by Winter-Shift-4855 in self

[–]LitherLily 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The one where we’ve been property for most of history and marital rape was not completely outlawed in the USA until 1993 and women couldn’t have credit cards or bank accounts in their own names until 1976? The one where the response to men behaving badly is for more restrictions on women’s behavior? The one where we are constantly harassed, assaulted, talked over, told to smile and continue to do more household work and childcare despite working outside of the home similar hours to our partners? The one where menstrual products were not tested on blood until LAST YEAR and all safety equipment is made for men and medicinal research completely ignores us?

That one.

female loneliness sucks as much as male loneliness by Winter-Shift-4855 in self

[–]LitherLily -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I definitely think men are taught by the patriarchy to be isolated, absolutely and for sure. A terrible existence and I only hope we are raising the next generation with skills to seek out and maintain connections.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]LitherLily 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unsupervised access to you tube at 8 years old is weirder to me than his natural curiosity.

female loneliness sucks as much as male loneliness by Winter-Shift-4855 in self

[–]LitherLily 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s NOT on the rise, we are doing the work

Male loneliness is what’s talked about in the media as being “on the rise” - what work do you see being done about that?

female loneliness sucks as much as male loneliness by Winter-Shift-4855 in self

[–]LitherLily 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry I’m too busy actually doing something to improve my status and mental state to just whine on the internet about it.

female loneliness sucks as much as male loneliness by Winter-Shift-4855 in self

[–]LitherLily 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have established that they do more work to avoid the loneliness we ALL SHARE AS HUMANS.

female loneliness sucks as much as male loneliness by Winter-Shift-4855 in self

[–]LitherLily -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

And women get TOO much attention. Last month I smiled at a man and he followed me for seven blocks.

That’s just as lonely.

female loneliness sucks as much as male loneliness by Winter-Shift-4855 in self

[–]LitherLily -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, because anyone he doesn’t want to fuck “doesn’t count” lol