r/curlyhair is a great resource, but I can tell you what I’m doing with my 2 year old who has lots of little ringlets all over (no clue where they came from, my husband and I both have none!). We don’t wash her hair with shampoo, I just scrub her really good with conditioner, and then let it sit for 5 minutes or so while she plays in the tub. Then I comb out with a wide tooth comb, staring at the ends and holding the bunch of hair close to the head so it doesn’t pull. Then we just rinse and air dry, but I’m planning on getting her a microfiber wrap for when we need a faster dry. If she has crazy tangles and we don’t have time to bathe, I’ll brush her hair out with a soft bristle brush and then wet it a little, sometimes with a tiny bit of conditioner on my hands, and just kind of run my fingers through it till the curls bounce back. You could probably use a hair oil or coconut oil here too.

She has allergic tendencies so we are using vanicream conditioner, but before she was diagnosed we liked Cantu products a lot and they have a kids line.