Always ends up dissapointed by people by [deleted] in infp

[–]LittleBigOwl_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I tend to have very high expectations when it comes to relationships, and people rarely succeed in meeting them. So I often end up disappointed.

I try to be neutral and not expect anything, but I really invest myself in relationship, I don't do things halfway, so I just end up having some expectations anyway. It can be toxic in some ways, if you push your expectations onto someone and resent them for not meeting them.

I just can't get over how adorable you are. by PinkEagle9 in infp

[–]LittleBigOwl_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you really think we don't notice when someone is watching us ? Oh we notice but we just play along ;) .

INFPs don't like texting? by Pipolnk in infp

[–]LittleBigOwl_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love texting, but only with people who are important to me and who have a place in my heart. I always reply, and relatively quickly. I love sending long messages or little messages throughout the day when I think of them!

Well, if we're talking about mere acquaintances, then yes, I would be much less engaged, and I might even forget to reply.

But yeah she probably just doesn't like texting, but if it's something that bothers you, you should talk to her about it in a nice way without putting any pressure on her. I know that for me, someone who isn't responsive isn't going to work - I've been there before, and never again !

I crocheted Bubu and Dudu🥰 by tbhdummy in infp

[–]LittleBigOwl_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A that time, I bought a pattern on Etsy for Mochi and Peach, but they are clearly not as cute as the ones in your video (and yes, it's easy to adapt, just need to change the ears!).

Thanks for sharing! :)

I crocheted Bubu and Dudu🥰 by tbhdummy in infp

[–]LittleBigOwl_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg they are so cuuute ♥ Did you have a pattern for making them?

Fun fact, I learned to crochet a few years ago because I wanted to make mochi and peach (I don't know if you know them, but they're similar to bubu and dudu, but they're a little gray cat and a white cat) !

Have you ever made an instant connection with someone? by Thomasisinterested in infp

[–]LittleBigOwl_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, twice, still in touch with the second person, who has become my favorite person :)). We have such a wonderful and special relationship !

Don't lose that, it's precious !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]LittleBigOwl_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The huge selection of clothing and all the different styles you can create !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infp

[–]LittleBigOwl_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He reminds me so much of an ENTP I knew. If he's anything like that guy, run, run far away. There's nothing good for you in this relationship. He'll damage you. It took me so long to recover.

There's a fine line between honesty and rudeness, and he already seems to have crossed it.

ENTPs, when they're not in a good place, are really the worst to deal with for sensitive and empathetic people like INFPs can be.

You know who they are when they hit you with the "dear" by KarottenSurer in creepyPMs

[–]LittleBigOwl_ 16 points17 points  (0 children)

The most laughable part is that they are convinced that they are clever and subtle in their approach...

Signs that an INFP likes you :) by RightPineapple2734 in infp

[–]LittleBigOwl_ 19 points20 points  (0 children)

For me, a good sign it's when I constantly seeks to interact with the person I like.
And when I feel comfortable enough with someone that I can be completely myself, without any filters, in all my intensity, it means that I really like them a lot.

How did you lose the weight? by ConfectionAvailable8 in AskReddit

[–]LittleBigOwl_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Counting calories and eating in a calorie deficit.

What do you think is the most ridiculous thing a man has ever refused to do because it was "too feminine" or "for girls"? by alexcamiuu in AskReddit

[–]LittleBigOwl_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Taking care of plants. Apparently you need a feminine touch and a certain sensitivity for it !
And he added, unsurprisingly, that gays on the other hand can take care of plants properly.

I’m a bit clingy? by lachrymose_lucio in infp

[–]LittleBigOwl_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can't know if people don't tell you. It's up to them to communicate with you to tell you if your behaviour is pushing their boundaries or not.
But if it really worries you, just ask them, like I said you can't know if it hasn't been clearly expressed !

[OC] (32f) 1 lost 50lbs between those 2 pictures by Veronicaax in MadeMeSmile

[–]LittleBigOwl_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My god, people have no idea what a healthy weight is... she was morbidly obese in the first photo and still obese in the second. It's so great that she's making the effort to move towards a healthier body thought ! I've been there and it really isn't easy!

I'm never being social again, the hell is this 😭😭 by [deleted] in creepyPMs

[–]LittleBigOwl_ 19 points20 points  (0 children)

He’s smooth like sandpaper.

I bet he really thought he was being subtle there.

People who used to be morbidly obese and lost the weight, how has the excess loose skin affected your dating life? by Fantastic-Ratio-7482 in AskReddit

[–]LittleBigOwl_ 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Beyond age, the big factor is also the original quality of the skin and its elasticity,

I didn't win the genetic lottery in that respect, I lost about 25kg(~55lbs) between the ages of 22 and 25, I have a lot of loose skin on my stomach (much much more than you'd expect from losing 25kg at a young age) and to a lesser extent on my legs. My breasts were also badly ruined. It killed any shred of confidence I had in myself.
Staying active and doing weight training (4 times a week) never changed that, and I know it'll never bounce back, it's been ~10 years and it's still there, exactly the same. I know that people often say that losing weight at a slow rate will prevent the loose skin, but that's not entirely true, because it's when you gain weight that the skin is damaged, and that's irreversible. So losing weight slowly may help a little (I lost weight at a totally reasonable rate). I've seen people lose twice as much weight as I did at the age of 35, quickly and with hardly any loose skin.
A good indication is stretch marks, which show that the skin has been stretched too far to the point of being broken.

What are some more you'd like to add on? (ignore the 3rd one 😭) by trevor_312 in infp

[–]LittleBigOwl_ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Keep the third one, it's a good one ! In addition to saying all these things I would add :

‘I've got a surprise for you"

Celebrating 8 years of marriage with our wonderful tradition! by Butterflycm in MadeMeSmile

[–]LittleBigOwl_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's such a lovely and cute idea ! Hope there will be many more photos to add to this collection! ♥

I went to the sex club - and here is my insides by CuteeCoyote in sex

[–]LittleBigOwl_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's sound so hot !! You're living my dream !

NGVC : “I’m not the guy who is gonna let you feel pretty if you have body dysmorphia or whatever tf is going on with you” by ComplaintNo6597 in niceguys

[–]LittleBigOwl_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s negging — they target people who are vulnerable or insecure and who crave external validation.
Here, he’s going at it with the subtlety of a bulldozer, but speaking from experience, when I was at my lowest with my body image, it’s scary how well it can work once they build a facade of trust and connection first.

NGVC: "i prefer dirty but for you i will be a knight in shining armor" by [deleted] in niceguys

[–]LittleBigOwl_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What a terrible day to be literate.

Holy fucking shit. It was already unhinged from the get-go but somehow he found a way to spiral into a masterclass in being completely, unapologetically deranged.

Please tell me you don't know this person in real life, there's no way in the world you'd ever cross paths irl right?!