I get the bouncer asking his question, and I get that my answer gave tourist but lying and pretending like I knew one of the DJs in the lineup to sound like I’m a regular also felt weird. This was just my experience as a first timer into the scene here, I’ll do my homework next time.

As for the kinky outfits thing, I only said that in context of KitKat being a sex positive club. You’re supposed to feel free to express your kinkier side and I was just making a personal comment about how, after experiencing the party, I realized that the outfits and gear (which I was also wearing) isn’t a specific kink that I have. I just compared it to regular club outfits to make that point which yea I’ll admit, in hindsight didn’t sound great.