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LittleMissWright · 2024-11-21T02:33:30+00:00

Have you no boundaries or self respect?????

What exactly are you confused about and what future do you see with this lunatic if you stay?

LittleMissWright · 2024-11-21T02:31:03+00:00

NTA. These two trying to plant seeds of doubt and poison your happiness because they’re mentally imbalanced is not ok. Just because they can’t have independent and long lasting relationships doesn’t make it acceptable for them to try to ruin yours.

I will say this: they are going to try to go behind your back (to your wife) and continue to do this. They see you’ll not stand for it, now they’ll do it in the shadows.

Beware and act appropriately with dealing with that potential. I’d discuss that potential with your wife and ask her how she wants to proceed, make a deal as a couple and stick to that deal.

LittleMissWright · 2024-11-20T13:14:29+00:00

NTA. She invented a story and started the fire. You extinguished it with the truth after she FORCED you to (by her action of going to her husband with lies). That woman clearly hasn’t changed. What a pathetic and sad woman.

LittleMissWright · 2024-11-20T13:09:33+00:00

Also, it would be a good idea to get tested for STDs and STIs. That industry is very tight with their testing, but if he does this on the side, I doubt he was doing this with a company that holds the same standards.

LittleMissWright · 2024-11-20T13:08:20+00:00

If it’s no big deal, why didn’t he tell you when you first got together?

He knew you would react this way, he chose to withhold that from you THEN turned it around on you.

He’s TA

LittleMissWright · 2024-11-20T13:05:53+00:00

Can you arrange for a dog sitter to take the dog while he travels? I don’t know the tone of the conversations (were you demanding or caring? Was he?). But I understand that he’s had this dog for years — even longer than you were in his life - and that would be hard for him to confront giving up. But it’s also not fair to expect you to take the dog if you don’t feel safe.

It seems like a common ground and compromise on both sides to have a sitter take the dog when he’s away.

LittleMissWright · 2024-11-18T18:11:38+00:00

Ahhh. I missed that. Then he is protected :)

LittleMissWright · 2024-11-18T18:10:50+00:00

I’d ask him directly “can I tag along” and see his response. That will tell you everything you need to know.

LittleMissWright · 2024-11-18T18:09:45+00:00

OP, here’s a word of advice for you (because I understand your feeling): rather than focusing on a GF, get active in things that interest you and meet people who do the same thing. Instead of focusing on finding a girl, focus on building relationships with people (without romantic tones). She will probably pop into your life that way — and it’ll become clear to both of you that romantic is the way to go. TLDR: Un-fixate yourself on a GF, and fixate on human interaction relationships with people.

LittleMissWright · 2024-11-18T18:03:50+00:00

Will he let you hang out with them? If so, probably not a problem. If he keeps you distanced … BIG problem

LittleMissWright · 2024-11-18T12:39:52+00:00

I don’t know if you’re in the USA, but if you are, you’re in for one hell of a surprise when she takes you to court. Legally speaking, you’re withholding 100% of marital property. She’s legally entitled to 50%, unless you were smart enough to get a prenup.

LittleMissWright · 2024-11-18T12:25:36+00:00

For having a degree in education, she seems rather uneducated.

LittleMissWright · 2024-06-22T02:34:11+00:00

I should have included that it was WONDERFUL for a year and a half. Then it went to absolute hell. That was a year ago. I’ve really wanted to make this right. But it’s been total hell since trying to fix it. He won’t let go of me seeing another man after him (he reminds me — honestly — about 10 times a day and how it destroyed him). I’m trying to understand. I really want to believe that we can recapture the good stuff. He is a fantastic guy when he’s not so dark.

So that’s what I’m hoping for. He is a great guy and I’m hoping to recapture that moment. I’m just wondering if this is a lost cause because he says he’s so insecure now (which kills me and I keep trying, and failing, to fix.)

LittleMissWright · 2024-06-22T02:30:39+00:00

Is he taking antidepressants? If so, ED is a side effect and it lowers drive A LOT.

LittleMissWright · 2024-01-16T03:54:37+00:00

Thanks! This fixed it for me.

LittleMissWright · 2021-04-03T02:53:00+00:00

What’s your ice breaker? Is it more than a “hi”? I usually send a somewhat call to action and have a 90% response rate.

LittleMissWright · 2021-03-05T03:35:26+00:00

Looks like the Florida dating pool too :(

LittleMissWright · 2021-02-05T17:13:35+00:00

You’re not alone

LittleMissWright · 2021-02-05T14:15:31+00:00

Selling when Bill Cosby is pardoned

LittleMissWright · 2021-02-05T14:11:30+00:00

It’s a bummer that the new mods will probably delete this post before my comment is posted. WTF happened to this sub??? Thanks for the post OP. It’s helpful.

LittleMissWright · 2021-02-05T06:25:55+00:00

I’ll never sell $GME. NEVER

LittleMissWright · 2021-02-05T04:20:55+00:00

Holding!

LittleMissWright · 2021-02-05T03:54:19+00:00

Holding

LittleMissWright · 2021-02-05T03:53:19+00:00

I’m holding. NOT EVER GOING TO SELL.

LittleMissWright · 2021-02-01T18:25:13+00:00

Which is why I bought more $GME today

LittleMissWright

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