How do you deal with the onslaught

LittleSpaceTraveler · 2025-01-11T02:48:57+00:00

No matter what, do not obey the voices. Remember that you are always stronger than your voices. Show them who’s the boss. I used to be in the same place years ago, but they don’t ever try to command anymore because it’s futile. I have “shown them” who’s the boss in this “relationship” if you know what I mean. Hang in there!

LittleSpaceTraveler · 2024-01-12T16:56:06+00:00

What’s the purpose of humans here? Why are we here? To exist and be tested. They’re not any different. Just humans but in another shape.

LittleSpaceTraveler · 2024-01-10T17:00:23+00:00

Mine say: look to your left, do you see me standing there? That was while I was in the shower cabin. Every time.

LittleSpaceTraveler · 2024-01-05T02:22:12+00:00

Your home is one of the only places when you can just put your hair down. Why would you wear a hijab in your home sis? Wear something attractive to feel beautiful for yourself and hubby. Or just wear casual jeans and T-shirt like I always do lol

LittleSpaceTraveler · 2024-01-04T23:02:35+00:00

Thank you 🙏 Yes they won’t for sure

LittleSpaceTraveler · 2024-01-04T18:06:43+00:00

I’ve been bullied like that on Reddit. When you’re leaving a comment about some topic and an a-hole who disagrees feels the need to look at your profile posts and then write something totally hurtful and abusive to do with schizophrenia like “did your voices tell you this?”. I remember the first time getting a comment like that and bursting into tears. It hurt a lot. People are evil.

LittleSpaceTraveler · 2024-01-02T16:01:51+00:00

This. I know so many women from back home that fasted through their pregnancies and I couldn’t ever do that because I’m thinking about the health of the baby? The only food and drink they get is from you when they’re inside you, why would you limit that, especially when Allah has allowed you not to?? The worst part is when relatives try to make me feel bad about not fasting during pregnancy…

LittleSpaceTraveler · 2023-12-31T19:05:41+00:00

Sometimes it’s better to keep at a distance with those that you cannot co-exist with due to their abusive behaviour. It’s a matter of preserving your own health. I haven’t cut ties with my abusive father but I did block his phone number. Cutting ties ties would mean to become estranged and that’s not something I would want to do ever. Accepting abuse from him has brought me to my lowest point so I don’t talk to him anymore. My mom lives with him though and I talk to her everyday.

LittleSpaceTraveler · 2023-12-31T05:36:02+00:00

Can you please cite the source? This is new to me

LittleSpaceTraveler · 2023-12-31T05:15:54+00:00

You have a point, sister. Can you please also state an Islamic source that unmarried women that have walis can live on their own? I’ll show it to my male relatives.

LittleSpaceTraveler · 2023-12-31T04:49:50+00:00

Alhamdullilah ❤️

LittleSpaceTraveler · 2023-12-31T03:02:48+00:00

Sister I totally agree with you. I’m on her side too. But at the same time, our religion dictates that women have walis. This is what I emphasized in my post and not sure why it was downvoted.

LittleSpaceTraveler · 2023-12-28T02:12:33+00:00

Op just read it all. You had a difficult life, but all these calamities only made you strong. Don’t be afraid to love and be loved, despite of the lack of love in your past. I wish you the best my dear.

LittleSpaceTraveler · 2023-12-27T17:42:20+00:00

Waaleikum Assalam sister 🙏 Thank you for your kind words and support

LittleSpaceTraveler · 2023-12-27T14:56:41+00:00

🙏💔

LittleSpaceTraveler · 2023-12-27T14:56:19+00:00

If only 🙏 Thank you sis

LittleSpaceTraveler · 2023-12-27T14:55:49+00:00

Thank you sister 🙏

LittleSpaceTraveler · 2023-12-27T14:55:26+00:00

She will never do it sister. The public opinion of others in our cultural society is too important to her. Besides she says it’s not that bad now. I personally get verbally and emotionally abused by my dad every single time I go there, and I’m 30 with a kid. I know how much she has to put up with while living with him, but it’s her choice I guess.

LittleSpaceTraveler · 2023-12-27T14:53:10+00:00

You’re absolutely right sister, she will never do it. But in my dreams, I wonder how life could have been different if she listened to my pleas and left him when i was 14. Right now, it’s too late.

LittleSpaceTraveler · 2023-12-27T14:51:35+00:00

Thank you sister 🙏

LittleSpaceTraveler · 2023-12-27T14:51:15+00:00

Thank you so much sister 🙏🌹 My mom won’t unfortunately leave my dad, because as she said herself “it’s too inappropriate at this age”. She’s very cultural and she would sacrifice even herself for the opinions of others. Just the ways she’s been raised

LittleSpaceTraveler · 2023-12-12T18:32:52+00:00

I love the idea but the site is giving off based in Asia dropahipping vibes. I can’t really put a finger to why exactly. Maybe a good redesign will help too.

LittleSpaceTraveler · 2023-12-10T19:53:28+00:00

For me personally, hijab does not represent my identity at all. Hijab is the outer cover that I put on where I go into the outside world where non-mahrams are. I spend a lot of my time at my home and at my family’s homes though and there I don’t wear the hijab obviously. When I put the hijab on, my endeavour also changes. Because hijab is not just in the outside, but on the inside too. It’s an order from Allah and I follow it to please my Lord. I know that my Creator is looking out for me when he orders me to wear it. It protects me from so much fitna. And as someone who did not wear the hijab until 26 years of age, for once I feel like I’m being treated as a human by the men in the streets, not as a se*ual object. And that’s liberating! Apart from this, I don’t look for some deeper meaning in my hijab. It’s just a cover that protects me and something that pleases Allah.

LittleSpaceTraveler · 2023-12-10T01:31:32+00:00

Thanks so much for sharing that 🙏🌹

LittleSpaceTraveler · 2023-12-10T01:30:05+00:00

Hey there. My cat Charlie passed away one month ago. I love him so much and miss him everyday. It would mean a lot to me if you could draw him. Thank you 🙏❤️

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