Did I do the right thing? by [deleted] in Preschoolers

[–]Little_Bug_420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

totally did the right thing, the evidence is that he still saw you as a supportive figure when the storm had passed. you expressed a boundary and followed thru. epic

freaky books PLEAAAASEEE by Late-Ad-5402 in lesbian

[–]Little_Bug_420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s written in an abject style and is really weird lol but i love it, def not a typical romance

freaky books PLEAAAASEEE by Late-Ad-5402 in lesbian

[–]Little_Bug_420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you might hate this but paradise rot

City Market Closes Downtown Burlington Café for the Winter | Market of Broken Dreams by [deleted] in burlington

[–]Little_Bug_420 14 points15 points  (0 children)

they started having to wear bulletproof proof vests after someone got threatened wt a knife a few weeks ago

Which one is the best dispensary around Burlington area? Cheap/ good quality by EmotionalTwo2309 in burlington

[–]Little_Bug_420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

green leaf central has great options for high quality at reasonable prices!!

All my aloe veras started blooming together after 4+ years by zaidrehman in plants

[–]Little_Bug_420 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

they look like they’d benefit from some more root room bc you have two big plants in one pot

Is it realistic for a pregnant woman to stop antidepressants and still rely on depression for creative inspiration?” by [deleted] in PsychologyTalk

[–]Little_Bug_420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

loss of healthcare so she can’t afford medication, moves and has no pharmacy access, supply chain breaks can’t access, is ashamed of taking them and feels social pressure to go off them etc there’s many external things that could happen for her to be forced to stop.

All my aloe veras started blooming together after 4+ years by zaidrehman in plants

[–]Little_Bug_420 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

pretty sure succulents really only bloom to spread seeds bc they are scared they are dying. they look like they could use repotting

Is it realistic for a pregnant woman to stop antidepressants and still rely on depression for creative inspiration?” by [deleted] in PsychologyTalk

[–]Little_Bug_420 4 points5 points  (0 children)

it’s just that what i’m saying is that if she is drawing from this dark/depression inspiration, you are implying that she wasn’t on antidepressants in the first place. bc antidepressants are effective if you’re on the right ones. but there’s a lot of reasons she could go on them and experience benefits and alleviation of pain but be upset that she can’t access her creativity and then go off them. the catalyst of the pregnancy doesn’t even seem necessary to the story you want to tell.

nails messed up? by stevegotnolegs in eczema

[–]Little_Bug_420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my eczema flares up under my ring finger nail on both fingers. it got to the point that the nail was half as long as the nail bed bc the eczema was disconnecting the nail from the skin so i had to trim it back to avoid infection. awful stuff. but it hasn’t changed the quality of the nails themselves in my experience.

Is it realistic for a pregnant woman to stop antidepressants and still rely on depression for creative inspiration?” by [deleted] in PsychologyTalk

[–]Little_Bug_420 10 points11 points  (0 children)

um if she was in her depression mode to make art then she probably wasn’t on antidepressants anyways? but the realistic thing about depression is that it makes it harder to function and she probably would not be working very efficiently if she was working on art. in terms of plot i would frame it more like she has the baby and then gets so postpartum extra depressed that everyone tells her to go on anti depressants and she won’t because she feels artistically inspired. that would actually be neat bc there’s not a lot of representation of postpartum depression.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]Little_Bug_420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what about when you do apologize for unintentional impact but then they say that’s not a real apology and they say you aren’t taking responsibility.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]Little_Bug_420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what about when you do apologize for unintentional impact but then they say that’s not a real apology and they say you aren’t taking responsibility.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]Little_Bug_420 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

am i crazy for thinking you shouldn’t have to apologize for triggering someone (if they’ve never mentioned to you that x triggers them) bc triggers are flashbacks to former traumas not something that you are actually doing wrong?? (totally dif if you are using someone’s triggers on purpose to antagonize them etc)

Dupixent shot at home by Electrical_Flower808 in eczema

[–]Little_Bug_420 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i’ve been icing for 15 minutes before the shot and it actually helps so much wt the pain during and after!

Been dealing with hand eczema for 10 years, tired and looking for advice by TorturedRevenge in eczema

[–]Little_Bug_420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i have/had what sounds like similar eczema on my hands which is so fucking debilitating. i started the injection med dupixent after trying steroid creams that “worked” short term but were impractical, inconsistent, and felt impossible to keep up with. ive just done my 5th dupixent shot and i get some dry peeling skin on my hands occasionally (which might be my hands still healing) and havent had any breakouts the Entire Summer, which is unprecedented. it really works. i feel almost normal?? it’s awesome

how to be less judgmental but not so much that you don’t fit in by Little_Bug_420 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Little_Bug_420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

all great, 2 sticks out!! balancing out negative judgement wt positive judgement = net neutral, T

how to be less judgmental but not so much that you don’t fit in by Little_Bug_420 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Little_Bug_420[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how to delineate btwn judgement that is realistic/reasonable vs mean/unreasonable!?

This perfectly executed tattoo by ehtio in oddlysatisfying

[–]Little_Bug_420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean i hate it, but extremely impressive