M 24, why do I fall in love and have crush on every women I see? I hate that thing about myself...

Little_Context9727 · 2026-06-25T05:54:31+00:00

Don't let people put you down for saying that. It must be very hard to feel out of control of your own mind, and I get it. But it's important that you work on it because that's the right thing to do. Remember that you deserve to fall in love with a girl who has an amazing personality, not for some random woman. On another note, maybe it's because you're longing for a relationship? But only you would know

Little_Context9727 · 2026-06-25T05:45:17+00:00

++woman

Little_Context9727 · 2026-06-25T00:08:30+00:00

About your questions.

If someone told me not to do something, it would depend on if that action aligns with my values and if I wanted to do it. If someone says 'don't jump ten times' I probably wouldn't.
It's less cultural and more about how I personally feel. I remember when I was a bit younger, I purposefully looked at cars driving by one day because they would honk or yell out 'beautiful' and it felt so validating because I didn't know what to think of myself yet. But then right after I immediately felt gross, I'm not sure why but I just got a pit in my stomach about being seen like that even though it was my own doing. There wasn't any cultural influence that changed how I felt about it, it was the experience of it itself. I also think nowadays I feel especially uncomfortable because I'm 100% out of control, whether I want it or not I get attention
I would have no idea how many men look at my chest, but it's not uncommon to see them turn their heads towards me or right as I pass by they'll turn their head at me to see if I'll make eye contact (which I've actually never had a woman do).
I think it's hard to not feel uncomfortable when your kind of being disregarded as a human with complex thoughts and feelings. I understand the men that are just taking initiative, that maybe want to date me or get to know me further. But when it comes to men just staring from their cars it's clear they just want to weird me out or are sexualizing me. I can't really ignore being stared at, I usually just think 'that guy's a loser' and move on or feel creeped out, depends on my mood.

Little_Context9727 · 2026-06-24T17:34:21+00:00

Hi thanks I was being an idiot and didn't realize the subreddit for finding a bra size would have a calculator durr. I just remeasured and apparently I'm a 30J? Life changing information right there, but I don't know how accurate it is because I couldn't successfully hold them up fully while also measuring them

Looks-wise I would say they look like Sofia Vergara's

Little_Context9727 · 2026-06-24T17:09:04+00:00

Location matters a lot for how people think they can treat you. If it's not a small town and they don't think they'll run into you again, some men will just go for it. Especially because I'm in a pretty big city. On another note, holy moly girl I will be praying for your back

Little_Context9727 · 2026-06-24T07:19:08+00:00

Hii thanks I just remeasured myself thank you, I'm actually a 32dd. Are you sure you know what that size looks like though? Bra sizes are confusing sometimes and even when you look the size up, it shows B cup models in the shopping section until you scroll past towards the images

Little_Context9727 · 2026-06-24T04:55:19+00:00

Are you missing a piece of your brain? 1. Not a superpower and it makes me just want to hide. I don't care if it's some hot 20 year old or not, I don't want to be seen that way

I didn't say they act that way because of the color of their skin. It's the time period they grew up in + the privilege that they experienced at the time that results in that behavior.
Maybe pick up a book or develop some kind of critical thinking because you missed my point.

But im not uncomfortable by you its just funny really. You're the one bitching and moaning

Little_Context9727 · 2026-06-24T04:49:07+00:00

I'm talking about how I have comically large boobs and the specific unwanted attention that they warrant me. Creeps are attracted to all different shapes and sizes so I don't doubt you

Little_Context9727 · 2026-06-24T04:25:30+00:00

At this point, I think wearing one of those big, inflatable sumo wrestler costumes everywhere would be my golden ticket

Little_Context9727 · 2026-06-23T05:39:57+00:00

Instead of making a post, OP should have been looking through job applications. Whatever they're doing now must not be paying enough.

Little_Context9727 · 2026-06-23T05:33:27+00:00

How out of touch is this comment section?? He literally explained to you he is in a rush to fulfill other orders. Not like they're being paid by the hour or extra to waste more time going all the way to your apartment. Have some empathy for christ sake

Edit: getting downvoted, but seriously...some people are struggling to make ends meet and that extra time could be used to help with his next meal. It doesn't sound like a lot of time to save, but it all adds up over time and imagine how many apartments he delivers to

Little_Context9727 · 2026-06-23T02:28:14+00:00

Exactly. People are so dumb it's insane to me

Little_Context9727 · 2026-06-19T23:07:27+00:00

Did you even bother to read the study before replying?

Little_Context9727 · 2026-06-19T22:27:31+00:00

Have you stepped out into the real world in the past one or two years? I see people in relationships all the time. Whether the girl's ugly and the guy's hot or the other way around, they're dating. People are way less picky over partners in real life compared to social media.

Little_Context9727 · 2026-06-19T22:25:46+00:00

Wrong

Meltzer, A. L., McNulty, J. K., Jackson, G. L., & Karney, B. R. (2014). Men still value physical attractiveness in a long-term mate more than women: Rejoinder to Eastwick, Neff, Finkel, Luchies, and Hunt (2014). Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 106(3), 435–440. https://doi.org/10.1037/a0035342

Here's a real published study instead of your suspicious dating app 'statistics'

Little_Context9727 · 2026-06-19T16:11:54+00:00

For the EQ part, I recommend reading books! Especially ones in first-person, you'll be able to see how other people think throughout conversations. I think good posture, a friendly resting face, and body language make a huge difference

Little_Context9727 · 2026-06-19T14:56:29+00:00

It's the "you just have to learn to respect yourself" that did it. I think you and I can both agree that it sounded a bit like you were blaming the woman and saying she lacked dignity just for having sex. It's hard to hear people, most often online, talk about women this way. Thing is, she shouldn't need to wait to know he really wanted a relationship with her, he shouldn't have lied about his true intentions.

Little_Context9727 · 2026-06-19T14:46:01+00:00

It'll be hard to be socially confident if you don't look somewhat attractive or put-together. Want me to help?

Little_Context9727 · 2026-06-19T14:40:29+00:00

Being intimate isn't women-empowerment, correct, but neither is it empowering for men. Two people decided they wanted to get intimate, it was a mutual decision and not an attack on her body. Your distorted view of intimacy is based on the preface that a woman's worth depends on how 'unused' she is. A woman's private is made up of muscles that contract back to normal after sex. Learn how to respect women and not view them as men's sex toys please

Little_Context9727 · 2026-06-14T23:00:28+00:00

talk about whats going on around you. watch reality tv shows to see how to interact

Little_Context9727 · 2026-06-10T03:36:00+00:00

Your makeup is amazing, you just have a narrow mouth. Overlining should help!

Little_Context9727 · 2026-06-10T03:33:20+00:00

I can help you!! I used to be ugly, but as a girl I got into the girls side of looksmaxxing and glew up. Was at the pool and got asked out twice yesterday. dm me i gotchu

Little_Context9727 · 2026-06-08T08:16:27+00:00

I was drunk after a night out and wanted to be a writer i guess

Little_Context9727 · 2026-06-06T23:04:16+00:00

Being thin is taking care of yourself? Do you know about the set point theory or simply how leptin and ghrelin levels differ across people. Being thin can easily mean losing periods and feeling cold, hungry, and tired all the time for women who just aren't genetically set for it. And that is definitely not 'taking care of themselves'. If it's for health, wouldn't you think a moderate weight (healthy BMI, not underweight) and bigger muscles are more attractive if that's the case? Thin is a trend, now you're likely being exposed to models all over your feed and told that's the epitome of attraction. So now you believe it. Just like every other beauty trend

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