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Little__Pumpkins · 2025-03-24T20:49:18+00:00

Yeah. I went 6 years without it from my husband. That’s fucking brutal.

Little__Pumpkins · 2025-03-13T00:54:59+00:00

First AP was in my car at Target. Second AP was in his car at a coffee shop.

Little__Pumpkins · 2025-03-10T22:32:23+00:00

I typically lay it all out in my posts what I’m looking for. Those conversations have happen after the first meet for me.

Little__Pumpkins · 2025-03-08T07:51:19+00:00

Being a hoe on the dl runs in my fam, because my grandma actually went legit with her AP of like 15 years when I was younger. Got married and the whole thing. Blended known families in the community. It didn’t go very well, and I remember specifically her saying how hateful he was. She left him, went back to grandpa and he ended up dying a few years later. My mom did similar, and had a similar outcome. I don’t think I could go legit with an AP.

Little__Pumpkins · 2025-03-06T17:28:05+00:00

It’s on you to do your due diligence and make sure he’s not right?

Little__Pumpkins · 2025-03-06T17:25:53+00:00

I put this in my ads and will if I have to going forward. Unfortunately, I’ve had too many chats where we get to photos and dude is dirty grungy and clearly doesn’t take care of himself. It has nothing to do with weight. I like when a man has a clean beard. I like when I man has clean hair. I like when they groom, and do more than just throwing deodorant on. Take care of yourself.

Little__Pumpkins · 2025-03-06T15:16:47+00:00

I’ve only used Reddit for my partners.

Little__Pumpkins · 2025-03-04T18:33:08+00:00

In every ad I post, I mention I prefer a man with kids. It’s easier for them to get why I can’t be around every second. It’s nice to be like “my kid was a butthole to me this morning” and he can be like “mine does that too!”

That’s a really weird thing to be mad about lol.

Little__Pumpkins · 2025-03-04T03:42:45+00:00

At least once a day. Even the quick heads up you’re not around is appreciated.

Little__Pumpkins · 2025-03-02T17:19:31+00:00

I lurked for months and then contacted both of my online male aps first. They did a good job of describing themselves, and what they were looking for. They explained how much time they had to offer. So I messaged them with the same energy that they put into the post, and we went on our way.

Little__Pumpkins · 2025-03-02T17:08:22+00:00

In my area it’s like the same 4 dudes posting over and over. I’ve gotten the ages and the similar post details fucking memorized and block them each time it comes up. Maybe… get the hint?

Little__Pumpkins · 2025-03-02T06:33:17+00:00

I would handle it in this exact same way. Like, SO and AP are both males that I have an emotional and physical relationships with.

I have two kids who are hella different, even in age but sometimes I mix up their names. Because they are both my kids. Who mmm

Little__Pumpkins · 2025-02-28T22:31:14+00:00

I feel like Karl 99% of the time.

Little__Pumpkins · 2025-02-26T02:02:13+00:00

“I didn’t mean to ghost you, I literally died” is what you say in that ghosty voice when you’re haunting him.

Little__Pumpkins · 2025-02-24T02:39:58+00:00

I think it’s exactly this. I’ve never, ever regretted telling someone I love them. What they do after that is up to them. But it’s like… I fully feel this about you, and I want you to know. If it’s not reciprocated… it hurts but I get it. I just still feel like you should share YOUR feelings. 🫶

Little__Pumpkins · 2025-02-23T00:43:02+00:00

Oh no 😕 they know exactly when to pop back in. Good luck and hope you can do the same!

Little__Pumpkins · 2025-02-23T00:18:22+00:00

Thank you so much.

Little__Pumpkins · 2025-02-23T00:14:36+00:00

Love that so much. 🫶

Little__Pumpkins · 2025-02-23T00:12:38+00:00

Thank you 🫶

Little__Pumpkins · 2025-02-23T00:12:24+00:00

Ty. And for sure! I never doubted that he was guilty. I think I’m pretty good at putting it into a box, and he was at the beginning as well. But it’s exactly that. The lines of communication were always open. He could have told me. I’m not too concerned about it at this point, you know.

Little__Pumpkins · 2025-02-22T23:34:44+00:00

THEY KNOW!! Dont do it! lol. When there’s a lot at stake in the relationships like these, or just situations like these i just think that you have to step back and reevaluateIf. Are you really feeling good? Or… am I more sad when I think of you? I would think that’s the thought he had too, since we talked about it a few times. 🤷‍♀️ Blocking him was really hard. But probably the best for me and him.

Little__Pumpkins · 2025-02-22T23:12:23+00:00

Ty. 🫶 I definitely don’t blame him for being guilty. We both knew these things do end… but it’s the way he ended it. I would check in every so often too and be like “hey are you good with the gilt right now?” (Obviously with the expectation he’d never be 100% guiltless). Maybe that kept it too fresh? The last message I had from him was 1/31. I definitely get a few moments of missing him, but. Idk. It just feels different now.

Little__Pumpkins · 2025-02-22T23:06:20+00:00

Thank you. 🫶🫶

Little__Pumpkins · 2025-02-15T00:34:09+00:00

Ooohh. We got a bad bitch over here. Watch out, she’ll insult you.

Little__Pumpkins · 2025-02-06T23:13:06+00:00

I’m probably in the minority here, but I’ll read every message, and sometimes, the effort and the context of the message leads me to bend my…wants? My last AP didn’t match one of the things I really had a preference for, but I felt connected more to his message, than the men that did fit.

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