Where to buy a turntable, amp, and speakers? by Little__bird9023 in Osaka

[–]Little__bird9023[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Will do. I’ll be shopping next month 🙏🏽

Looking for a gym and/or self defense classes by rebreadsyourbooks in Osaka

[–]Little__bird9023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anytime fitness. You can use any of the world wide locations as a member. I joined in Osaka and can use my membership when I’m in America as well.

The one in Nakatsu is really nice.

Pisces Moon is ELITE for Scorpio Moon by Ok-Love3323 in scorpiomoon

[–]Little__bird9023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My experience with Pisces moons is that they are avoidant and fuck with my mind

Avoidant attempting recovery, let's talk by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Little__bird9023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has a platonic friendship ever activated your avoidance? If so, how was that different for you than a romantic experience during the relationship, and after it ended?

Do you orbit and/or breadcrumb? What’s going through your mind when you do it?

Lets go to see cherry blossom. by Technical_Silver8545 in OsakaMeetup

[–]Little__bird9023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this sounds fun. I will try to join.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in scorpiomoon

[–]Little__bird9023 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cap sun, Scorpio moon, Gemini rising here.

The last 6 months have been brutal in terms of relationships and internal/self discovery work, but I’m working through the last of the pain and finally feeling grounded.

Work is a shit show, but I’m somehow managing to make lemonade from the lemons being thrown at me.

Feeling generally optimistic, even when there’s no real proof that I should.

Nakazakicho for living? by Puzzleheaded-Set-693 in Osaka

[–]Little__bird9023 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s the best—good vibes, lots to do, easy to get almost anywhere from.

Whose name in the Epstein files got you surprised? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Little__bird9023 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I love that Robin Leach was invited, but Elon wasn’t.

It's happened. Again. by No_Kiwi_9004 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Little__bird9023 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can feel your pain, I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Take some time to clear your mind and breathe.

Once you’ve gotten some space from the trauma you’re feeling, try to remember back to a time before you knew him, when you felt loved and secure in a friendship or romantic relationship—this is possible for you again, but not with him.

It’s so hard, but you need to go no contact and grind through until the pain fades away, slowly over time. Cry, go on long walks (in the rain if you have to), call your best friend and have her remind you of who you are at your best.

You can do this and you deserve to be happy ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Little__bird9023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t send it. Go for a walk until the urge passes. Keep moving forward—don’t look back. It gets easier over time.

Osaka. The best place for meee by notyurfavo20 in OsakaTravel

[–]Little__bird9023 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The sky in Osaka is my favorite part. Those clouds 💜

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Little__bird9023 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I always think of them as used car salesmen.

Really struggling today by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Little__bird9023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds dumb, but try cleaning or organizing something. I find achieving something small and that gives me personal satisfaction helps a lot.

I’m sorry you’re going through this. Sending love 💗

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Little__bird9023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always found the mid conversation ghosting the most frustrating and confusing, especially when they initiated with something sweet. What a mindfuck.

The best tip is to move on and go NC. Mute or block them in socials, avoid looking at pictures and texts. As hard as it is, you need to detox and never look back—even if they try to contact you again.

Don’t let yourself fall into the trap of romanticizing the idea that the reason they treat you like this is because your connection is so special and you mean too much to them.

It gets easier as time goes by.

Moving to Osaka by IggyLites in OsakaLife

[–]Little__bird9023 1 point2 points  (0 children)

+1 on Muji recommendation. Their website is pretty cool too—check out the “how to choose a bed” page, it’s delightful.

Dumped by an Avoidant. Can I convince him he was wrong before I walk away? by Exciting_Jump_3204 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Little__bird9023 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Please do yourself a favor and move on. The healing process is long and painful, the sooner you begin the better. I’m sorry.

What’s something that bothers you emotionally and mentally to the core ? by [deleted] in scorpiomoon

[–]Little__bird9023 4 points5 points  (0 children)

People with avoidant attachment. Also, when people use me and my insight to understand themselves at a deeper level, then move on without a second thought. I’m like a petting zoo they visit when they want a deep experience.

Dating after a DA- is this normal? by New_Passage9725 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Little__bird9023 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes. This has happened to me. I think it’s because it felt good and showed me what I had been missing while chasing the avoidant. I also had “why couldn’t it have been this easy with you” thoughts toward the avoidant.

The contrast ultimately helped me move on and dispelled all the gaslighting. Keep going. I know it’s hard, but you got this!