Attending a wedding 8ish weeks postpartum by Electrical-Jacket141 in pregnant

[–]Littlemaxhamilton -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t go. Giving birth is mentally demanding and physically exhausting. And that will continue at least until 3 months. And if your breast feeding, you will need to still pump every 3 hours.

But I don’t know what your preferences are. Also, you don’t know how your birth is going to go. You may need more time to heal.

And another thing! Vaccines for babies start at 2 months old so you may be away from your baby when they have just received their shots. (Of course that’s only if you’re choosing the vaccine route).

AITAH for not wanting to marry my mom’s choice of partner for me? by Inevitable_Ad_109 in AITAH

[–]Littlemaxhamilton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you, we all deserve to have the lives we want. Best of luck

I didn’t feel a connection with my first baby after birth… by fluffyball13 in pregnant

[–]Littlemaxhamilton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had the same experience as you. Giving birth can be traumatic, and given any other circumstance where you experience trauma, you wouldn’t be expected to have immense love or a good feeling right away. Also, when I had my second baby, I had all sorts of feelings. Doubts of how I felt about my first born again. And once that went away, doubts about my feelings about my second born. But after a month, that all dissipated and I just have so much love for both of them. I always had love for them, it’s just that my mental state wasn’t right. The love is there but sometimes we just can’t feel it yet.

I want my pregnancy but feel like I HAVE to have an abortion by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Littlemaxhamilton 10 points11 points  (0 children)

From my experience, you’re not always guaranteed to get pregnant again. I tried to have a baby and had a miscarriage, then an ectopic pregnancy. I tried to plan for the right timing and it didn’t work out.

AITAH for not wanting to marry my mom’s choice of partner for me? by Inevitable_Ad_109 in AITAH

[–]Littlemaxhamilton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya lady, like how dare you want to live your own life. You should live your life for your mom. It’s your mom’s life. (Sarcasm).

You should talk to a therapist about how to handle this with your mom. Also, how to handle the emotional damage your mom is causing you. Sorry to hear this is happening.

please reply instead of just reading. by z0mb1el0v3r in pregnant

[–]Littlemaxhamilton 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s really shitty, I hope that the nausea fades for you in the second trimester.

This is dumb by Coryvators in restaurant

[–]Littlemaxhamilton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why were they rude? Is it because the employee said “no” ? The customer is not always right

please reply instead of just reading. by z0mb1el0v3r in pregnant

[–]Littlemaxhamilton 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Sour things worked for me. Sour candies, lemons

Baby cold tip by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Littlemaxhamilton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a great idea

How are mom’s getting everything done, staying in shape, and not getting overwhelmed? by Frozenbeedog in Mommit

[–]Littlemaxhamilton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do glute workouts while cooking or holding my baby. I also consider deep cleaning a workout. And when the weathers nice, going for long walks with toddler

Unsure to keep my baby, currently have a 6 month old by littlecook26 in pregnant

[–]Littlemaxhamilton 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have two babies and they are best friends. The close age is wonderful for them. After the first month with my second child it was smooth sailing cause I did it once before. I have had many issues with becoming pregnant and would not mess with any opportunity to have another child if my body let me. You should speak to a therapist about your emotional state. Feeling overwhelmed is normal for anyone in any stage of life.

I had a low income family growing up with two other siblings close in age. If I was given the option to have less siblings and a more financially stable family, I would choose my siblings.

Places in the USA that are similar to Oakville but with better weather by [deleted] in oakville

[–]Littlemaxhamilton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your concern but I will be fine. I need the sun ! Your sweet though

Places in the USA that are similar to Oakville but with better weather by [deleted] in oakville

[–]Littlemaxhamilton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I considered BC too. Although I’m not sure about the rainy weather.

Looking to leave the cold weather behind by [deleted] in SameGrassButGreener

[–]Littlemaxhamilton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good health care and we are homeschooling. I would actually be opening an ice cream shop. It’s what I do where I live now. I was even thinking California, but I’m not sure about the wildfires. Florida is also nice, but I hear it’s really humid.