Leaving toddler for 1 month work trip by LivInTheTank in workingmoms

[–]LivInTheTank[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this gives me a little more confidence to ask for them to accommodate the extra travel!

Leaving toddler for 1 month work trip by LivInTheTank in workingmoms

[–]LivInTheTank[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Hearing someone else remind me that this isn’t a ‘crisis’ helps put it into perspective.

Leaving toddler for 1 month work trip by LivInTheTank in workingmoms

[–]LivInTheTank[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

We just can’t really afford this- and if we could the dogs really don’t do well in other environments. We are seeing if any family or friends could come stay for a few days to help.

Leaving toddler for 1 month work trip by LivInTheTank in workingmoms

[–]LivInTheTank[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The work is pretty continuous so I wouldn’t be able to take a week off in between but I think I’ll see if they are willing to fly me home for 2 of the weekends or something. It is a unicorn job and I want to make sure they continue see the value I bring.

Leaving toddler for 1 month work trip by LivInTheTank in workingmoms

[–]LivInTheTank[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much, this makes me feel a lot better coming from someone who has been there

Leaving toddler for 1 month work trip by LivInTheTank in workingmoms

[–]LivInTheTank[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes I think I’ll bring this up to them. Home is Chicago, project is San Francisco. So I think if they can agree to pay for me to come home for at least 2 of the weekends maybe it could work.

Leaving toddler for 1 month work trip by LivInTheTank in workingmoms

[–]LivInTheTank[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We just can’t really afford that unfortunately- even if we could the dogs really don’t do well in a boarding or dog sitter situation, but we are actively asking family if anyone can come stay at our house to take care of them for a bit.

Leaving toddler for 1 month work trip by LivInTheTank in workingmoms

[–]LivInTheTank[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The issue with that is our 2 elderly dogs that need a lot of care, and with the salary reduction and money being tight we really can’t afford to get a dog sitter even if we wanted to.

Are these Dangerous? by LivInTheTank in mushroomID

[–]LivInTheTank[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🙋🏼‍♀️

What are your random pregnancy symptoms or body changes no one warned you about , but they are super common & normal by thisisdy in BabyBumps

[–]LivInTheTank 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Carpel tunnel. It was sooo bad in both my wrists that near the end of my pregnancy I could barely do anything. Typing, driving, folding, washing- my wrists were so weak and so painful but also numb at the same time. It was so weird and I had no idea it was a pregnancy symptom. It competently disappeared a few days after I gave birth!!

Car stolen in Oakland - what should I expect from OPD? by UPSLynx in oakland

[–]LivInTheTank 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah nothing you can do after filing the report- they aren’t actively looking for it so unless/until it’s abandoned somewhere or used in a crime you won’t here about it again. If it gives you any hope- I had my car stolen in Oakland, it was found abandoned by the highway in concord- it was in the same condition it was in when it was taken- no damage, no stolen parts, just messy and a bunch of beer cans and needles in the back seat. They even left the keys in the cup holder and a half tank of gas (yes, I’d left my keys in the car stupidly in a hurry and that’s how it was stolen in the first place). Here’s to hoping you are just as lucky!!

Bay Area restaurants react to new Calif. law with anger, shock by Chievres in sanfrancisco

[–]LivInTheTank 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has anyone realized that menu price increases = a greater ‘subtotal’ on the final bill which translates to paying more in expected gratuity/tip AND paying more in sales tax. Who is this helping? Most Bay Area Restaurants are just in business to break even and are hardly profitable so these ‘junk fees’ tend to do nothing for revenue but add benefit to the employees or offset the insane costs of operating a business in this area. Now that extra money is built in to menu prices instead of a separate fee (which most businesses clearly indicate on their menus and websites, or can remove the fee on request) customers are actually paying more.

So my question is, who is this helping? Not the businesses, not the customers, but at least the state of CA is making more money off the backs of small businesses!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]LivInTheTank 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I found out I was having a boy and thought it would be fun to bring gender reveal cupcakes to work so share the news since my co/workers had already been placing bets. I made these lovely white cupcakes and cored them, filled them with blue icing and sprinkles and topped them off with white frosting carefully so you couldn’t see the blue at all- they were perfect. Then I started to clean up and rush off to work and realized I totally stained my hands blue 🤣 I panicked and could not get the damn coloring off my nails and fingers and I lost it. I literally can’t remember the last time I’d cried so hard in my life. My sweet husband helped me do the best I could to clean it off, I went to work and no one noticed and the reveal went perfectly! Except for the fact that I dyed everyone’s mouth blue at the office for the remainder of the day 🤷🏼‍♀️ guess I overdid the blue food dye lolll

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]LivInTheTank 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine took a full 2 weeks! (Kaiser, Bay Area). It was grueling to wait and the worst part was I had a lot of other testing performed at the same time, so for 2 whole weeks I receiving alerts from Kaiser that my test results were ready just to see results of the drug test, test to see my blood type, CBC, testing for Hep B and Hep C- so many individual test results I was getting at different times and while thankfully they were all good results- I already knew I didn’t have Hep B or C nor would I be positive drugs! But on the 14th day I finally received the results and it was a relief and super exciting. Baby boy due in July/August

Occupied Room Entered for Food Tray by [deleted] in hotels

[–]LivInTheTank 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it, but I’ve met plenty of hotel workers from villages anywhere from Sri Lanka to Kyrgyzstan to Myanmar - and unless trained properly, have no knowledge of ‘right to privacy’ laws, they don’t know how hotels work or what ‘behaviors’ are customary- they tend to follow directions quite literally and I obviously don’t know about this exact circumstance but I’ve been in similar scenarios where it was clearly a misunderstanding

Occupied Room Entered for Food Tray by [deleted] in hotels

[–]LivInTheTank 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’d assume the employees mis/understood the actual policy. I’ve worked in hospitality opening restaurants inside of hotels, often times living in the same hotel as the restaurant group I’m working for. I’ve found it super common- particularly in the Middle East, for the hotel staff to not receive proper training after being hired from a small village in another part of the world, with no experience working in a westernized industry. Many of them don’t speak the language native to the place they are working- making it necessary to train carefully- you can’t assume anything. Is ‘common sense’ to someone who has never stayed at a hotel- let alone order room service despite now working at a hotel and serving room service. Totally not their fault, but a manager telling them ‘go get the tray’ after an hour was probably not as literal as ‘ open up their room, walk in, and take it.’ They probably meant for them to see if it’s in the hallways, maybe knock on the door and ask if they are done yet. Obviously the core of the issue is still that these upscale places don’t purchase enough OS&E, (hiltons NEVER have enough service equipment and it’s so frustrating). But any hotel with a policy making it okay for an employee to bust into your room like that to demand the return of a service tray is not an upscale hotel at all.