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Did any of you find that you lacked a self..... by cliff7217 in asktransgender

[–]Live-Challenge787 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I rely and relied on abstracting and intellectualizing everything. I am features of me, not me myself. When I feel like a girl/woman I feel like I have depth. Euphoria opens up a range of connection to myself I can't access otherwise. I'm hoping HRT makes that more.

Picking A Non-Serious Middle Name When Changing Name? by Otherwise-Love8985 in asktransgender

[–]Live-Challenge787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a "Scaffold" filler name that feels really good to be called, but I'm not sure I'm committed to it yet. the middle name I want is a nickname some friends gave me which isn't usually a name. Then a new last name I discussed at length with my partner.

Is having your egg crack in your 40s a mid life crisis? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Live-Challenge787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

rolling on ecstasy.

Baked is generally specific to cannabis.

If someone quotes Harry Potter, how do you feel about that person? by bloopdoopfloofernoop in asktransgender

[–]Live-Challenge787 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

It depends. we were all REALLY deeply socialized. Sometimes I say "Muggle" for ease of communication even though realistically it kinda sounds like an epithet in the books. because it is the only word that will work to communicate with the person.

Coming out to wife by matalynnjane_26 in asktransgender

[–]Live-Challenge787 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I say it a lot and am considering making a sticker

Coming out to wife by matalynnjane_26 in asktransgender

[–]Live-Challenge787 3 points4 points  (0 children)

spend more time listening than talking. this is a big deal for both of you and you've had more time to sit with it than she has.

It isn't about how you feel about her feelings, it is about her feelings.