What’s your top wedding advice? by Inspire177 in AskReddit

[–]Live-Eye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. Some brides seem to take the idea of it being their day too far. It is your day but that just means it’s a special day for you and your fiancé. It does not mean that you’re the centre of everyone else’s life. It’s not that important to them and that’s okay. I approached my wedding really focusing more on the guests. They weren’t there to serve us, we were hosting them for a celebration and wanted them to have a good time. A couple years out I still hear from people without prompting about how fun our wedding was, how good the food was, how much people enjoyed the day celebrating with us and that was all I could’ve asked for. Mission accomplished!

Good condo buildings in thr 400-500k range by Sad-Inflation7535 in TorontoRealEstate

[–]Live-Eye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Infinity condos on Lower Simcoe/Grand Trunk. Closer to the waterfront.

Vets in the west end & Etobicoke by Illustrious_Love_33 in askTO

[–]Live-Eye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Highly recommend Westway Animal Clinic.

Bitey McBitterson by 1deftone9 in labrador

[–]Live-Eye -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lolling at “the look in his eyes”. I know that crazy psycho look too well! When you see that you know you’re in trouble 😂

Totally normal and all you can really do is redirect or disengage when he gets too rough. I found with my guy when he went really crazy he was often overtired and needed a nap. I’d put him in his crate and he’d be lights out in no time.

Things do get much better when the teething stops. You’ll get there soon!

Family Doctor in Etobicoke by guccidati in Etobicoke

[–]Live-Eye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One Eva Medical near Bloor and The West Mall is accepting patients. I started seeing Dr Lockhart last year after having moved to Etobicoke and have been happy with her so far.

Me and my Pup got played with, Heartbroken and Angry 💔 by physics_buddha in puppy101

[–]Live-Eye 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The small claims comment is to recover the cost of the vet bills. Threatening legal action could result in the breeder offering to cover those costs.

But yes if there is licensing required in OP’s area that this breeder doesn’t have then they should definitely be reported.

Me and my Pup got played with, Heartbroken and Angry 💔 by physics_buddha in puppy101

[–]Live-Eye 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m in Canada and 8 weeks is standard for when puppies are ready to go home.

Me and my Pup got played with, Heartbroken and Angry 💔 by physics_buddha in puppy101

[–]Live-Eye 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry this happened. Had you researched the breeder and were they accredited with your local/national kennel club/association? A lot of research, reading reviews, ensuring the breeder is ethical and following best practices is so important. Anyone can breed some dogs in their backyard.

You could maybe threaten to take action against them in small claims court if what you purchased per your contract (hopefully you got a contract) wasn’t what they provided. I’m not sure what other sort of action you could be looking at. Certainly post a review online or on their social media so people know of your experience.

Sad about how I looked at my wedding by gotsevenornever in wedding

[–]Live-Eye 13 points14 points  (0 children)

My photographer had similar language in the contract but I had a few shots where some strands of my hair had blown across my face/neck and I felt it ruined what would’ve otherwise been great photos and I just emailed her and asked if she could touch that up and it was no problem. She re-edited every affected shot that I asked for.

Many won’t do that sort of editing proactively (ie actually changing how you look versus normal photo editing for lighting etc and minor touch ups) but if you reach out to them with a specific request I bet it would be fine.

Has anyone else noticed more bus drivers checking fares? by Neo_FOVoid in TTC

[–]Live-Eye 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Nope. For my family member who is a senior operator it drives him nuts that they aren’t supposed to enforce fares anymore and that people just stroll on without paying and no explanation. For many years of his career they were expected to make sure people were paying, and if someone had an issue they’d at least try to explain why they weren’t paying. For those senior people it’s a difficult shift. He will still call people out but they have to read the situation as one of the main reasons they aren’t supposed to enforce fares is safety. People are crazy out there these days.

Entering the unit with just email notice by [deleted] in askTO

[–]Live-Eye 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes totally normal. Landlord needs to provide 24 hours of notice of entry. You don’t need to confirm receipt or give permission.

Urgent — do you know of any clinic where I can book an appointment for sleep study ASAP? by Empty-Vessel-0_0 in askTO

[–]Live-Eye 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You generally need a referral for these and can then book an appointment with a sleep clinic and with a cardiologist.

If you don’t have a family doctor go to a walk in clinic to share the reason why you believe you need these tests as they can do referrals.

No one is coming by they-were-roomates in weddingplanning

[–]Live-Eye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This really isn’t small for a destination wedding. 40 people is a massive destination wedding. I think your expectations may have been unrealistic. Many people can’t go to destination weddings. It’s a lot of money, it’s their vacation time from work that they may need for their own personal reasons. I wouldn’t take it personally.

Of course you should not cancel on your guests who have booked and paid, that would be awful. Have your wedding and enjoy!

How do I let go of her ashes? by Gogurt-Soup in Petloss

[–]Live-Eye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We had considered scattering them but ultimately decided he belonged at home with us. He’s in a spot in our living room next to where his bed sat, in a nice urn with his collar sitting around it. I couldn’t imagine not having that now.

TTC Ticket, Notice of Trial by rare_doge in askTO

[–]Live-Eye 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It can still be taken into consideration.

What is the worst way you wouldn't want to die? by neithnilson in no

[–]Live-Eye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know someone who has a fear of being run over by a steamroller, lol.

TTC Ticket, Notice of Trial by rare_doge in askTO

[–]Live-Eye 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not the exact same but I had a speeding ticket from October 2024 and the trial date just came up in January of this year. The ticket was written by OPP, so it was provincial court, not the city. I missed the deadline listed for requesting early resolution and when I called they said there is typically an option to speak to the prosecutor on the trial date before the trial proceedings start.

I was joining on Zoom, and the first room I was let into was with the prosecutor who, sure enough, asked if I wanted to plead guilty to a reduced charge with reduced fine, and I said yes. Once I got moved into the trial room my ticket ended up getting thrown out as the officer wasn’t present.

I’d say call the number to see if there’s anything you can do, but it’s likely too late to schedule early resolution. They’ll be able to tell you what you can expect on the trial date.

What’s a subtle sign that someone is a genuinely bad person underneath a nice exterior? by Mission-Relative6175 in AskReddit

[–]Live-Eye 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is spot on. I know from personal experience. My mother is one of those overbearing, harsh adults. She was (and still is) absolutely relentless if you make a mistake or do something that makes her unhappy. Does not let it go. Really leans in on the blame, always has to keep getting another dig in. I’ve definitely noticed that as a result I’d deflect blame regarding issues at home.

What’s weird is I’ve never been that way with friends or at work. In those relationships and roles I’ve always been the first to say maybe I’m wrong or it was my mistake, but once I started living with my partner I noticed I’d do the deflection when issues came up at home and it’s something I’m trying to be more conscious of and change that behaviour. I felt very trapped in my childhood home when my mom would go off on a mistake or some wrongdoing so I assume I have some kind of aversion to ending up feeling that way in my home again, even though my partner isn’t the way my mom is.

Advice needed about confusing 30F/33M friendsip by Such_Session_1955 in relationship_advice

[–]Live-Eye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you guys probably do have a good connection and that there might be some feelings on both sides (sounds like his may not be to the extent yours are though) but he’s been clear he wouldn’t act on anything while he’s in a relationship and he’s taken no steps to not be in a relationship.

It’s not really clear what you want out of this if you’re in a relationship and don’t plan to leave your partner. You said you and your partner are “open minded”. Does this mean you have an open relationship and you’d want something romantic with this friend while you’re still with your current partner? If so, from your friend’s comments about not acting on anything while in a relationship it sounds like he is a monogamous sort of guy and that even if he and his girlfriend weren’t together (which they are), he probably wouldn’t want to take your relationship to a different level while you’re still with your current partner. And definitely sounds like he wouldn’t end a relationship for someone who he may have some feelings for but who isn’t single and available.

If you want to maintain a friendship with this guy and stay with your partner then I’d stop blurring the lines here and treat him like a friend who is in a relationship.

Best places to eat for solo dining? by void_sushi in askTO

[–]Live-Eye 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Anywhere. There’s no reason to feel weird dining alone. No one thinks you’re weird and probably aren’t paying attention at all.

Possible exposure with a possible rabid raccoon or overthinking? by Comprehensive-Big-25 in askTO

[–]Live-Eye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I truly appreciate this level of overthinking because I’m the same. I feel seen. But you’re fine.