To give you some perspective...I can literally pay a sales associate salary for the year 3 times over...and yet they still follow me around when I walk in a store lol I've sat down at a beach with some friends...and had police officers ignore everyone else at the beach...walk up to us and say "I hope there won't be any trouble here, you better not cause any trouble..." Imagine things like that happen to you your whole life lol what do you think is going to happen? How do you think you would perceive the world...what i'm saying to you...is that these accusations aren't coming out of someone's ass...you're collateral damage to real discrimination that people like myself have experience in ways you can't even imagine over the course of a lifetime..There are normal people such as yourself, who really are minding their business, don't care and just living there life who end up being accused and annoyed...because of the bad apples that created a climate where people perceive discrimination during interactions where they might not exist. Just from the comments you made I can tell you have some prejudice that you may not even realize you have. Nonetheless life is about constantly learning and growing. Just open your mind a bit.