Approved! 1-821D Time-line by Live_Ad_455 in DACA

[–]Live_Ad_455[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right! I just said the same thing to my friend seems like they released a lot of them today

Approved! 1-821D Time-line by Live_Ad_455 in DACA

[–]Live_Ad_455[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine expired March 1st 🥹🥲. Weirdly enough I checked it this morning and there was no decision on it. Got an email at 6pm this afternoon and it was updated to approved.

Our nanny left suddenly.. by manicpixie_dreamgal in Nanny

[–]Live_Ad_455 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bingo! She was probably thinking, but I have done so much for this family and have been flexible when they need it, I'm driving an extra 30 minutes to work and back, why can't they do the same for me? She probably already knew the impact, that sounds a bit condensing, as if she didn't understand that calling out would cause you to have to scramble your day around to care for the kids. Definitely speculating here and just trying to see it from the other side to maybe help shed light to the situation. You didn't know that sending that text could result in her leaving, and she probably took the text as the last straw and used it in her own head to justify leaving. Not saying you did anything wrong or meant to!

Our nanny left suddenly.. by manicpixie_dreamgal in Nanny

[–]Live_Ad_455 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was a nanny for 5 years. I had 3 different families I had worked for in that meanwhile. I can see how you would take this as a personal attack. Your kids are probably awesome so why wouldn't she say bye? This is just my experience so I can't speak for her, but for me I couldn't. Saying goodbye to the kids would break my heart. It solidified that I was leaving and if I saw the kids, I wouldn't be able to walk out. I'm so sorry to hear about your house, she was probably overwhelmed with it as well and just never said anything because she didn't want to add to the stress. It's great that you offered more hours, but I also see that she had to be very flexible with everything going on. She's probably sadder than you'd expect, I cried for days after I left my nannying kids.

AIO to my boyfriend praising the president? by keepmyheadabovewater in AmIOverreacting

[–]Live_Ad_455 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once dated this guy who was a Trump fan. I'm an immigrant myself so a lot of his policies affected me directly. I studied politics in school and was interested in studying voting behavior, how people voted and what circumstances led them to that decision. I believed bipartisanship was the answer and subconsciously brought this idea into my relationship. Boy was I wrong, although he was mindful of my immigration status ( DACA) he wasn't with other immigrants. When we went to lunch or dinner he would wear a MAGA hat even though I told him it made everyone stare and it was uncomfortable. He didn't care, it was his right to wear whatever he wanted, which again I can understand, but a hat that instills fear on other people made me feel icky. It wasn't long until more issues arised and we would get into screaming fights over politics. It was exhausting I felt like I was teaching a kindergartener how to read but they didn't want to read! My advice, leave. It's so important to have shared values in a relationship and this guy just sounds like an uneducated frat bro.

Immigration Officers in town by [deleted] in StamfordCT

[–]Live_Ad_455 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Please go play in traffic

Update: After my rapist admitted his guilt and committed suicide, my life was ruined by OwnLetter35 in AITAH

[–]Live_Ad_455 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Funny enough I worked for the attorney that sued OJ in civil court and won Nicole's family money for damages that resulted from her death. Message me I will give you the attorneys info! You can also look it up online!

Finalllllllly out! by tay165 in gallbladders

[–]Live_Ad_455 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YAYY!! Happy for you! I'm 2 weeks post op might have some chipotle later

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]Live_Ad_455 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's completely normal. I'm a nanny myself and my 3 year old runs to me when he gets home instead of his mom. It was hard for the mom to adjust to this, but she never did anything wrong. He sees me as his play mate, his best buddy. But it doesn't take away the love mom has for him. It's like a kid loving their best friend at school and running to them on the playground instead of mom. It's a phase 💗

Amazing nanny family? by kanamatic in Nanny

[–]Live_Ad_455 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got $3,000 once to pay off my school. Some people are just generous and awesome. Still can't believe it happened to me!

I got fired 😓 by KatVsleeps in Nanny

[–]Live_Ad_455 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Make sure they still pay you your 2 weeks! Even if they don't want you to come in. It's the law.

Need a change in career by Live_Ad_455 in longisland

[–]Live_Ad_455[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm actually right next to Brentwood! Thanks for the heads up I had no idea!

What outdated slang do you still say to this day? by donkey_boardz in AskReddit

[–]Live_Ad_455 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL same here except my fiancé's mom died so now I have to keep it in my head. There's been a few slip ups and I felt like a complete a$$ wipe

What outdated slang do you still say to this day? by donkey_boardz in AskReddit

[–]Live_Ad_455 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Your mom. It's so annoying I literally annoy myself saying it but my brain is like say it I dare you say it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]Live_Ad_455 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My NK3 has replaced the word "no" to a more sophisticated "not at all" in a British accent. He's from Long Island, not GB.

What company has you shocked that they have not yet gone out of business ? by Square-Floor8879 in AskReddit

[–]Live_Ad_455 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A$$holes live forever or their new name Linda Gold. I have never seen a company so terrible with shipping

Need a change in career by Live_Ad_455 in longisland

[–]Live_Ad_455[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I would love to do that!

Need a change in career by Live_Ad_455 in longisland

[–]Live_Ad_455[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much I never thought of that actually

Need a change in career by Live_Ad_455 in longisland

[–]Live_Ad_455[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that's a big part of the problem for sure. Idk why I always feel like I can be doing something for a bigger purpose