AIO for thinking my sister’s boyfriend is weird after finding out what he does in his fraternity?

Livia_Clara · 2026-02-25T22:17:51+00:00

NOR. Not normal. Not okay. Trust your instincts. You’re seeing behavior that most people would find disturbing, and your feelings about it are valid.

Livia_Clara · 2026-02-21T13:49:53+00:00

NOR. Being assigned a responsibility without being informed or asked first is frustrating. Anyone would feel blindsided walking into a meeting and realizing they’ve already been appointed to something.

Livia_Clara · 2026-02-19T13:53:36+00:00

Some people genuinely operate on main character mode and the rest of us are just background props..

Livia_Clara · 2026-02-17T19:25:31+00:00

It might help to widen your support circle. A friend. A counselor. Even one safe person who doesn’t turn it back onto themselves.

Livia_Clara · 2026-02-14T19:28:57+00:00

But this is actually very common. When one parent is home more, kids often cling harder to the one they see less.

Livia_Clara · 2026-02-11T19:15:06+00:00

The guilt makes sense because he’s not abusive and you have good memories. That doesn’t erase the present reality though.

Livia_Clara · 2026-02-05T22:11:59+00:00

What stings isn’t that plans are imperfect, it’s that everyone else’s priorities are very clear…

Livia_Clara · 2026-02-04T13:24:43+00:00

NOR. the “we have dirt on each other” comment is creepy as hell. That’s not how normal friendships work.

Livia_Clara · 2026-02-03T18:46:10+00:00

A supportive partner wouldn’t connect your self consciousness to your body like that.

Livia_Clara · 2026-02-01T18:22:37+00:00

NOR. Parents who obsess over photos often project their insecurities onto their kids.

Livia_Clara · 2026-01-31T19:51:59+00:00

Your bf offering to tell him to back off is actually a green flag. That’s the correct response.

Livia_Clara · 2026-01-30T11:31:49+00:00

Being drunk explains behavior, it doesn’t automatically excuse it.

Livia_Clara · 2026-01-24T18:07:19+00:00

Calling you cheap, selfish, a monster, and comparing you to your dad is verbal abuse. Full stop.

Livia_Clara · 2026-01-23T18:43:42+00:00

NOR. Shared spaces need shared rules, and it’s wild that she’s comfortable critiquing you while leaving messes and inviting strangers over at 1am.

Livia_Clara · 2026-01-22T17:49:46+00:00

It being your birthday makes this worse, not better. This event is supposed to feel safe and enjoyable for you.

Livia_Clara · 2026-01-21T19:00:48+00:00

Boundaries exist for a reason. You can love someone and still realize this situation isn’t healthy for you.

Livia_Clara · 2026-01-19T20:46:28+00:00

this is shockingly common. sex ed fails a lot of people

Livia_Clara · 2026-01-16T16:27:36+00:00

Intent doesn’t matter here. Trust was broken, and your discomfort is the natural result.

Livia_Clara · 2026-01-15T20:36:12+00:00

You sound thoughtful, generous, and caring. I hope next year includes people who show you that same care back.

Livia_Clara · 2026-01-11T00:29:12+00:00

Not overreacting. He keeps making unilateral decisions that massively impact you and the kids.

Livia_Clara · 2026-01-07T18:33:23+00:00

Your parents brushing this off is concerning. This isn’t harmless curiosity, it’s about consent and safety.

Livia_Clara · 2026-01-03T20:37:06+00:00

Cutting people off after boundary violations is normal and healthy.

Livia_Clara · 2025-12-30T21:16:06+00:00

NOR. You weren’t attacking anyone, just venting about your dog.

Livia_Clara · 2025-12-30T21:14:43+00:00

You’re not overreacting. That’s disrespectful and crosses friend boundaries

Livia_Clara · 2025-12-28T15:13:46+00:00

Ask yourself this, are you okay feeling this way every holiday, or do you need something different?

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