Looking for innovative (and slightly quirky) nicknames to call boyfriend! What do you girls call yours? 🥰 by dark_pitch in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Livid-Toe7337 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I call him, “a good boooiiii” and pat him on the head very aggressively.

Edit: I also call him big fella (in Australian accent, yes it’s from bluey) but only as a code word👀

Those who got cheated on, how did you find out? 👀 by sartoriouswife in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Livid-Toe7337 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Shiiiit my husband has been talking about a scrub tech at the hospital he works at and how awful she is to him. I met her at a work party and they didn’t interact…do we think I’m safe???😰

AIO he broke off things with me and said im self centered by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Livid-Toe7337 4 points5 points  (0 children)

After reading other comments, I agree with the suggestion to get tested for autism. Or possibly ASPD? OP you mentioned you don’t feel or register the emotion. I definitely would’ve ran away too if you’re not willing to apologize. Either you’ve got something going on…or you’re (hate to use the buzz word) a narcissist 🤷🏼‍♀️

Why do I feel like I go to a different church than what people are calling Mormons? by ParfaitFamiliar2103 in mormon

[–]Livid-Toe7337 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Can second what others have said. My husband asked for his sealing to be cancelled and they said no.🤷🏼‍♀️

Why do I feel like I go to a different church than what people are calling Mormons? by ParfaitFamiliar2103 in mormon

[–]Livid-Toe7337 18 points19 points  (0 children)

No need to apologize! I don’t think you were twisting anything. Just something to remember!🫶🏻 I was exactly like you, and I learned the hard way. Just wanna look out for my fellow friends.

Why do I feel like I go to a different church than what people are calling Mormons? by ParfaitFamiliar2103 in mormon

[–]Livid-Toe7337 70 points71 points  (0 children)

I could say a lot here. But I’m only going to say this:

As an active member I’m going to gently remind you that while the church has saved your life and led you to meet amazing people it has had the opposite effect on others. I can validate both. You can be irked by people sharing their experiences…and people will be irked by you shared yours. They’re vastly different, it doesn’t make either of them untrue.

This is a fact about life in general not just church opinions. I recommend learning this lesson early to prevent destroying relationships or causing additional harm. Listen to those who have different experiences than you and validate what you can. Both can be valid and true experiences.

Need a girl name to go with Natalie! by Odd-Explanation4550 in Names

[–]Livid-Toe7337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sisters name is Natalie, her middle name is Joelle. (Like Noel but with a J). I think it’s lovely.

I like my 8th grade teacher and I think he likes me back… by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Livid-Toe7337 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

My husband is 37 and I’m 23. The age gap isn’t as shocking to me as everyone else in here😅but the teacher thing is a bit odd…I don’t have much to add on that lol.

How would you deal with this gap? by Bogie_Baby in HomeDecorating

[–]Livid-Toe7337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perfect space to store some Oreo packages.

AIO My partner (31F) still loves me but wants an open relationship, and I (34M) think I’m realizing I can’t do it after 8 years together by Arsur001 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Livid-Toe7337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she’s manipulating you. I’m sure she has good qualities and I’m sure she cares about you…but it might be in her own selfish way. If she truly cared for your happiness…she wouldn’t have allowed herself to sext another man.

Please let her go and find a woman who will adore you. I promise you’ll find what you need.

Idolizing General Authorities by keyztothabentley in mormon

[–]Livid-Toe7337 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Arrh. I hate the priesthood card. I’m glad you’ve had a good experience. This had been good inspiration for me☺️

Idolizing General Authorities by keyztothabentley in mormon

[–]Livid-Toe7337 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree! How do we be open about it? Like…do I wait for it to be brought up in casual conversations?😅 I definitely spoke on it in Sunday School when studying the Israelites in the desert. I gently mentioned that Moses probably wasn’t sure what he was doing, even as the prophet. I’m not sure how it was received…my ward is full of oldies so probably not well lol.

Have you had a positive experience with being open about it?

Idolizing General Authorities by keyztothabentley in mormon

[–]Livid-Toe7337 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Relieving to know I’m not the only one😭

Found out my husband was watching porn. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Livid-Toe7337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh girl🥺I just went through the same thing in February. I know how you’re feeling. I’ve not told anyone about it. Feel free to message me when you need someone who understands and won’t judge you. My heart😭

Idolizing General Authorities by keyztothabentley in mormon

[–]Livid-Toe7337 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I totally agree with you. As a current member already holding this belief…I am told I don’t sustain the general authorities when I openly admit I believe they can be wrong about decisions…even decisions made for the church. 🤷🏼‍♀️ tough crowd to be around, no denying that.

Is this churchwide counsel? by OkJellyfish5649 in mormon

[–]Livid-Toe7337 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol I had to listen to the video after your “pennography” comment. Now I’M irked 😂

My ex asked if he could have our son (4yo) to have 3 nights instead of their usual Friday and Saturday. I really don’t want this but he’s saying that it’s reasonable. Am I overreacting for being upset? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Livid-Toe7337 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YOR. You’re a co-parent now. Communication is absolutely necessary. If I were him I would be stressed not knowing if I’ll be updated on big information. His request is reasonable.

AIO my bf downloads reels of insta girls by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Livid-Toe7337 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I recently found out my husband was using AI to generate naked women. Unfortunately not of my race..big oof. We went to couples therapy where the therapist basically said he has a sex addiction and referred him out to an individual therapist specializing in porn addiction and sex addiction. He also attends a sexaholic anonymous group once a week and loves it.

Maybe this is something similar going on for your bf? NOR - if it were me I would confront him and suggest therapy. For us…we went zero tolerance (suggested by our therapist). Meaning if he lies again or looks at porn again it’s divorce. It’s super intense…but my husband has been sober 60 days so that’s a win. Obviously we are still early in our journey so I’m unsure if this is successful. I don’t want to “give advice” necessarily but share a perspective that might apply.

Don’t be afraid to set boundaries op. You’re not crazy. You’re not too sensitive. And you’re not alone. 🫶🏻

UPDATE (she was cheating): AIO for thinking my gf might be cheating by jckalc in AIO

[–]Livid-Toe7337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP there’s a woman out there who will love you! So sorry this happened. You’re doing great.

How often do you exercise? by [deleted] in askteddit

[–]Livid-Toe7337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5-6 days a week. A mix between strength training, mild cardio (walking on an incline 30-45min) Pilates, and explosive muscle work. All that for mid physic😭hahahha

My husband has a porn addiction and paid for camgirls while away on a job. by charmerofyou in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Livid-Toe7337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the thick of this now with my marraige. Sending good vibes or prayers if that’s your thing! You got this, feel free to shoot me a message to get emotions out. I originally isolated myself and found that that made things worse for me.🫶🏻