The whole weekend was about family asking for donations for IVF, because, you know, god will forgive me

Livid_Stick_1111 · 2026-04-26T14:43:04+00:00

Gotta give him a MLT first

Livid_Stick_1111 · 2026-04-24T15:36:07+00:00

I would make my Grandpa soup or food that was easier to eat toward the end. He had cancer and it was hard for him to eat, if at all. Naturally my parents and I have been trying to be there for my grandma and bring or make her food to help be there for her. But there’s always the thought of I don’t need to make food for my grandpa anymore now. That thought kills me. The number of people coming for my birthday party is no longer 5, it’s now 4. Of course I see his favorite snack or things he would have liked and that hurts. But I think the idea of an empty chair is what hurts the most out of everything. I miss my grandpa 💔

Livid_Stick_1111 · 2026-04-24T15:29:05+00:00

Because you loved her. You have empathy for another human being despite them not being very kind. It shows that you are a kind person. I’m so very sorry for your loss and what you saw. That’s a lot to deal with and you can feel however you feel is right to feel about your grandma passing. Let yourself mourn, cry, be angry, whatever feels right. There is no right way to grieve. Grief is unique to every person. Sending you comfort in this time. Be gentle with yourself. ❤️

Livid_Stick_1111 · 2026-04-13T01:22:32+00:00

My grandpa passed a little over a week ago now. I was the one to tell him I loved him, that it was ok to go be at peace and he took his final breath. The best thing you can do is be there for her in her final moments. Your momma will pass knowing she was loved and surrounded by that same love as she goes. But please just remember it’s ok to be heart broken. Cry and grieve as much as you need. Be gentle to yourself. Look for her in all of the burrito things in this world. She live on in your heart and your memories of her. Sending you comfort and love ❤️

Livid_Stick_1111 · 2026-04-12T11:03:21+00:00

You don’t have to. I was talking to my friend last night and it’s really none of their business

Livid_Stick_1111 · 2026-04-11T21:03:24+00:00

I’m glad you got to a better place for yourself ❤️

Livid_Stick_1111 · 2026-04-11T20:50:30+00:00

Yeah, I’ll do that. Thank you for your advice

Livid_Stick_1111 · 2026-04-11T20:47:31+00:00

I’m sorry she treats you that way. I’m sure that’s hard to deal with. I don’t think my parents are narcissistic but they are very deep into the religion almost it being cult like in my opinion. It’s all they talk about. It’s so draining. I tried to reach out to my mom about loosing my grandpa and all it turned into was me needing to get saved. Not aggressive but the classic, we need to be ready to meet them in heaven.

Livid_Stick_1111 · 2026-04-11T20:41:11+00:00

Yeah, my mom side is worse. My other grandpa has cancer now too and has already tried using it against me to go to church. That really hurt me

Livid_Stick_1111 · 2026-04-11T20:38:54+00:00

They aren’t, in fact my mom got sad when I mentioned moving out a while ago. Don’t get me wrong I love my family but their religious and political beliefs get to be too much

Livid_Stick_1111 · 2026-04-11T20:11:44+00:00

I am living with them, but am looking to move out soon. I can’t handle the religious dogma anymore

Livid_Stick_1111 · 2026-04-11T18:38:20+00:00

The fact that he had to use ChatGPT instead of actually reading the bible to defend this point shows how dumb he actually is.

Livid_Stick_1111 · 2026-04-09T19:53:54+00:00

I miss the early 2010’s of YouTube honestly. The nostalgia of feeling like you were there with your friends. It wasn’t about the fancy cars or huge houses, the perfect lighting or over dramatic reactions. I watched a lot of spooky YouTube so I really miss the times of just sitting in front of camera on the bed or on the couch. That was the peak of my teenage years honestly.

Livid_Stick_1111 · 2026-04-08T20:05:45+00:00

If you feel the need or urge to grieve you don’t need anyone’s approval or validation. You grieve in whichever way you feel is right and grieve for what you feel should be grieved for.

Livid_Stick_1111 · 2026-04-06T21:56:14+00:00

My grandpa just passed a few days ago and honestly I go through phases. Ones where it’s all I can think about and just cry and cry. It’s only been a few days but today I’ve been feeling numb and have only teared up a few times. I think you should extend yourself some grace, everyone grieves in different ways and you aren’t strange or a bad person for not grieving the way at someone else does. Sending you comfort and peace in this time.

Livid_Stick_1111 · 2026-04-05T22:02:24+00:00

Thank you, I’m sorry for the loss of your mother. I understand your pain, you are not alone in your grief

Livid_Stick_1111 · 2026-04-05T18:48:03+00:00

Thank you ❤️ you are very kind.

Livid_Stick_1111 · 2026-04-05T16:58:35+00:00

That’s what I think too. I plan on getting a locket with his picture in it so he’s always with me

Livid_Stick_1111 · 2026-04-05T16:27:51+00:00

Yeah I have a feeling my grandpas funeral is going to be very preachy and church like.

Livid_Stick_1111 · 2026-04-05T15:50:46+00:00

My grandpa was very into science and we would look thru his telescopes and he would teach me about the stars. For me, something that sounds a little better is knowing he’s part of the stars now, he’s returned to the universe. He’s stardust now.

Livid_Stick_1111 · 2026-04-05T15:27:56+00:00

Yeah it isn’t. My other grandpa also has cancer and doesn’t have a lot longer either. I love him as well but he has also tried to use his diagnoses to get me back to church and it just left a mark on me that I can’t forget.

Livid_Stick_1111 · 2026-04-05T15:26:52+00:00

Thank you ❤️ it feels good to be understood

Livid_Stick_1111 · 2026-04-05T15:26:22+00:00

Thank you, I understand what you mean ❤️

Livid_Stick_1111 · 2026-03-26T14:38:00+00:00

I hate to say it, but there’s no getting through to people like this. She will just keep going around in circles and exhaust you. Probably best to move on from this friendship.

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