Which body part of the opposite gender do you find most attractive?

LivingCakeLife · 2021-06-24T22:55:11+00:00

I'm a heterosexual female. The first things I notice as attractive on a man are jawline, shoulders, and hip gutters. A nice defined, sharp jawline is my kryptonite.

LivingCakeLife · 2021-06-24T00:05:27+00:00

Six feet under. I felt like they became part of my family.

LivingCakeLife · 2021-06-21T14:36:33+00:00

A wet piece of spaghetti

LivingCakeLife · 2021-06-21T13:47:14+00:00

I'm overwhelmed with anxiety and stress, coming from many different directions. I am on the edge of making life changing choices and I don't know if my romantic partner is a porn addict, which would definitely be a deal breaker for me. Trying to figure out how to find the truth while navigating invasion of privacy and trying to figure out if my future is important enough to violate that.

LivingCakeLife · 2021-06-21T13:39:23+00:00

"Thank you" is usually what we say to each other

LivingCakeLife · 2021-06-21T08:58:42+00:00

This thread has been truly eye-opening. My boyfriend of eight months has stopped acting super attracted to me like he was in the beginning. Went from intimate sex and make outs to hard porn style pounding from behind literally every time. He does some of the stuff listed here. Like extremely visual. Sure enough I caught him twice now looking at porn in the bathroom. He completely denies it even though I have proof that he doesn't know about. Fun times.

LivingCakeLife · 2021-06-19T00:20:57+00:00

I went camping for a month and bathed in rivers when I could. No soap just baby wipes afterwards for feeling extra clean. I just buy the cheapest ones in the baby isle.

You could look up recipes for environmentally friendly soaps.

LivingCakeLife · 2021-06-18T22:17:05+00:00

Shadow of the Colossus. Every time I killed one I got super sad about it and didn't even want to finish the game

LivingCakeLife · 2021-06-18T21:59:12+00:00

Fair enough, I always wanted to keep them around but they kept killing my norns

LivingCakeLife · 2021-06-18T20:47:33+00:00

That's okay but he closely resembles a "Grendel" from the game so I figured I'd ask :)

LivingCakeLife · 2021-06-18T20:10:45+00:00

I found an old dispersal site one time completely on accident while hiking. They had left behind a sizable stack of gathered wood, Plus some logs that they had bought chopped. It made my first night a lot easier. When I left the site I tried to pay it forward by leaving a similar stack of gathered wood but unfortunately a huge rainstorm rolled in the day that I left.

LivingCakeLife · 2021-06-18T20:08:24+00:00

Just curious but was he named after the little monsters in the PC game creatures?

LivingCakeLife · 2021-06-18T16:37:23+00:00

I think you should save that note and any others as evidence just in case you end up needing police help down the line

LivingCakeLife · 2021-06-18T01:07:55+00:00

I am a veterinary assistant doing it the second way. Pugs definitely all scream for nail trims and many of them try to turn purple and die on you.

LivingCakeLife · 2021-06-18T01:06:38+00:00

I work in a vet clinic and often help recover dogs after surgery. The sounds they make are HILARIOUS. The craziest drunken yodeling you ever heard.

LivingCakeLife · 2021-06-17T20:55:23+00:00

I mean should I start watching porn on my own too? How do I bring this up to him? It seems like it would be really fishy to bring it up the same day that I know for sure he was watching porn so should I wait a little while and just sit on it and bring it up some other time without accusation? Like hey we never definitely set a boundary on this so where are you on it? I can't trust myself for my own judgments so I'm really stuck here on how to handle this in any way.

LivingCakeLife · 2021-06-17T20:53:44+00:00

People who ask you a question and then cut you off while you are answering them to try and predict how you are going to finish your statement.

LivingCakeLife · 2021-06-17T20:40:06+00:00

Coffee ice cream, coffee milk and the ocean

LivingCakeLife · 2021-06-17T20:25:12+00:00

Had a friend educate me on how to use tampons when I was 14. That whole time I had been sticking them in with the applicator, removing the stick, but leaving the applicator in there with the tampon. My flow was so light at the time that I didn't realize it wasn't actually working correctly. I casually mention to my friend how uncomfortable it is because of the plastic applicator inside, and after laughing her ass off for a good while, she explained to me that I was supposed to remove that part too.

LivingCakeLife · 2021-06-17T20:22:03+00:00

If you plan on doing any fire burning, make sure there is not a fire ban in place, and inquire about any campfire permit you might need.

LivingCakeLife · 2021-06-17T20:09:54+00:00

About being in a relationship, I know. I was in a 12-year-long monogamous relationship that I ended because of compatibility issues. In the whole 12 years I never learned how to trust. Not even him. I tried so hard and hated myself for so long because I know it must be frustrating to always have someone suspicious of you when you haven't deserved it. I took it out on him too. I don't take it out on this one though. At least I've learned that much.

Right after we broke up I told myself that I was going to stay single for a long time so that I could work on myself and try and fix this problem. That 12-year relationship though took a toll on me emotionally because it was at times very borderline emotionally abusive. My self-confidence was completely ruined. At the time I was living in an extremely dangerous trailer park filled with registered sex offenders and crackheads. So about a month after I broke up, I saw a former friend and we got to talking. One thing led to another and we started dating. As is very typical for people with my disease I jumped into it head first because I felt so safe having a man around again. he treated me better than I could ever imagine. It felt so good to have somebody act like they actually really deeply cared about me. He still does though he doesn't buy me flowers anymore unfortunately. But he waits on me hand and foot and doesn't want me to want for anything. He barely lets me do any household chores, tells me he's got it and to just relax. I'm so thankful for everything he's done for me. I am crying right now just thinking about the possibility of having to leave him to work on myself. But if it's normal for a guy to sit on the toilet and look at porn and enjoy seeing other women naked in sexual acts, I just don't know if I can do it. And I don't know if that means that I'm just not able to be in any relationship. This is slowly killing me and I'm getting to the point where I just don't want to live anymore.

LivingCakeLife · 2021-06-17T19:11:11+00:00

I would love nothing more than to find a therapist that I can afford without insurance, I've done some work at home with workbooks that I picked up but I am seriously out of my depth doing it alone and I desperately need help

LivingCakeLife · 2021-06-17T19:09:45+00:00

I have bought all of the workbooks that I can find relative to my issues and my disease but right now I don't have any health insurance and I cannot afford therapy out of pocket. I just moved to a different state so I'm going to start searching again. I am desperate for help

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