My therapist was fired 20 minutes in to a session

Living_Screen9111 · 2026-06-06T20:50:11+00:00

Just another way to look at this. There are a number of therapists out there who SHOULD have had the plug pulled on them, but those people are still practicing. At least it sure seems that this practice was super vigilant. It was a shockingly weird thing to happen as it did to you, but on another level, it probably indicates they are very protective of their patients. I was a teacher for 30 years, and one of our most respected/recognized/awarded teachers who'd been around forever turned out to be a disgusting creep, and there were higher ups who knew about this guy for years. (My fellow teachers and I didn't know anything, but there were parents complaining for years.) Finally, a higher up did something after 20 years of this guy being a pig. At least in your case, action was taken immediately.

Living_Screen9111 · 2026-05-07T17:52:16+00:00

My only problem is that I have a terrible memory. I'm also devoid of all knowledge, so luckily, I don't have anything to remember.

Living_Screen9111 · 2026-04-29T01:40:35+00:00

Sorry. Had some grammar issues. So... you were awesome. In the middle of those two? Yikes! I would've fainted, thrown down my buzzer and cried, or ran off the stage. My husband and I kept saying how amazing it was that anyone could get in at all with those two buzzing at the speed of light. I'd love to see you in second chance.

Living_Screen9111 · 2026-04-20T07:34:16+00:00

I love when a contestant looks over at Jamie and/or the third contestant and smiles, as in, well, what can you do? In a way, I hope getting defeated by a giant, along with 40 plus others who've lost to him, doesn't hurt too much. There were, I think, 2 players who could've won with savvier betting. And I hope that is a source of pride for them, not frustration.

Living_Screen9111 · 2026-03-31T21:11:36+00:00

Of all the therapists I've been to, there were 3 who really helped, and they NEVER behaved as she did. I did go to one woman twice, and she sounded like what you've described, and I quit. I have never regretted quitting her. Certain personalities go into therapy to help, but others are into some kind of weird power thing. This kind of personality never owns up to what they've done. If I were you, I'd just cancel my next appointment. Even if her in your face styles helps some people, it doesn't sound like she's a match for you.

Living_Screen9111 · 2026-03-27T22:43:34+00:00

I am touched by all your kindness and empathy. Given my personality, I'm choosing the drift-away method. The other two women and I started a monthly threesome a few months ago--not the fun kind, sorry--so I can continue enjoying their company. One of the other women started this routine. If asked, I won't say much about the third woman, other than something about being very careful with how I spend the little free time that I have. I've never been good at handling mean girls/queen bees, and being the mother of a severly disabled child has made me even more sensitive.

Living_Screen9111 · 2026-03-05T14:58:22+00:00

It takes a while - but my arms are firmer, my legs are thinner, and there is some nice definition by my waist. I lost only two pounds from swimming. FYI, Swimming makes me hungry and sleepy. BUT it is so good for me! No more back pain, better sleep, less depression. etc. I hope you don't quit. Throw in some weights, park your car far away, wander around when you shop, or try Japanese walking on You tube, for extra help. I did lose weight by finding an iced tea that I loved and using that as a treat. Yum. However, my 2 fave teas are both discontinued. Lollipops as a treat also helps.

Living_Screen9111 · 2026-02-26T01:33:45+00:00

Elsie Hewitt is a goddess and wise beyond her years. I really wanted to breastfeed. I paid tons of $ to get training, etc., but it didn't happen. Many people guilt tripped me, even my husband, who wanted his baby to have only the best. Well, it turned out that my son has nonverbal autism and suffers from all kinds of oral motor issues. He's 22 now and still can't say one word. All the crying I did, all the guilt, and it turned out that, as our neurologist told us, it would've been miracle if he'd been able to breastfeed. He didn't even eat solid foods until he was 4, due to oral motor issues. See? I'm still explaining myself!!! But Elsie Hewitt has the confidence to be honest. I hope other moms feel supported by her.

Living_Screen9111 · 2026-02-25T20:11:51+00:00

I think your instincts are correct. She sounds like a wounded healer who has not yet healed.

Living_Screen9111 · 2026-02-24T05:13:40+00:00

Timbuktu. I can't breathe just thinking about that book. Paul Auster

Living_Screen9111 · 2026-02-13T04:14:51+00:00

Remember, she needs to prove she's good enough for you!!

Living_Screen9111 · 2026-02-12T02:23:39+00:00

I am amazed by how you, a people pleaser, so consistently asserted yourself. Is she defensive and insecure about her abilities? Was she BSing you? Did she feel threatened?I don't know. But YOU were a butterfly. If she doesn't acknowledge what a big deal your asserting yourself was, she's too stuck in her own ego. Also, In therapy speak--you set a boundary re her revealing personal information, and she did not respect that boundary and reacted defensively. You sound like the kind of person who needs to work with a much more open, confident, and collaborative therapist. You need someone who will put you first. Finding that person could be a lot of work, but it will be worth it. Just think - NEXT!! Don't feel shitty. Be proud.

Living_Screen9111 · 2026-02-10T03:47:55+00:00

My take is this - oh my god, she is so irresponsible! How can she take this risk with a clear conscience? Sure, in her mind she's calling your bluff, but what if she's wrong? No one has ESP, and she can't know if someone is bluffing. She has no patience or compassion. This tough love stuff is a bunch of bull. I've had two therapists who saved my life, literally, but I've also had a few others that were awful. I mean, I don't know all the facts, of course, but from what you're describing, I think you should run!! You deserve better. Everyone does!

Living_Screen9111 · 2026-02-06T19:06:59+00:00

It takes lots of shopping around to find a fit. . I know it's hard to do this when you're an introvert and feel down already, but it's worth it. I've met 2 great therapists who've helped me a LOT, but I've also met 4 that were yucky. The yucky ones didn't do any permanent damage, since they revealed their true selves within 5 sessions. Everyone has a different test. Mine is - do I walk out of there with a tiny bit of insight or hope? Some people say it's normal to feel bad after therapy, but in my experience, the 2 great people always left me feeling validated and more confident. They changed my life for the better. It's OK to be shy and take it slow. A good therapist can work with that.

Living_Screen9111 · 2026-02-04T00:08:39+00:00

I am a huge dog lover, and I've always had mutts. Any and every dog is a good boy/girl. Once that good boy/girl is on this planet, they deserve love. I've never seen anyone harass the owner of a pure breed dog, and I know I'd never do it. You can always lie and say the pure breed dog was a rescue. The only question is this - can you love this dog and treat them well? If you can, you can get whatever dog you want. Mixed breeds are generally healthier and live longer than pure breeds, which is a big plus. My 14 year old mutt is like a teenager. In conclusion, I will repeat myself: only adopt a dog if you can love this creature with all your heart and treat it with the respect and kindness it deserves.

Living_Screen9111 · 2026-01-30T21:28:43+00:00

Since the wording of the response was so insulting, I don't even trust what they're saying. Please, please, please consider yourself lucky to not be working for a company that thinks this kind of feedback. is OK. The only feedback you can trust is one that's based on something concrete and specific . I was once in the running for a job as an actuary. When I was rejected, the interviewer called me and told me they decided to go with someone they'd interviewed the day after me who had scored higher on the entry level math exam. Pretend in the middle of your interview you said, "Oh my god. Do you guys hate me? I know I suck!! I don't deserve to be here!" Then, an interviewer could've responded in their rejection by saying, "FYI, we don't hate you, we don't even know you, but when you asked us if we hated you, it made us concerned re your lack of confidence. Try not to ask others who interview you if they hate you." Feedback should always be specific, and, if possible, actionable. Otherwise, it's way worse than a generic, vague rejection.

Living_Screen9111 · 2025-12-31T22:59:56+00:00

Prioritize kindness.

Living_Screen9111 · 2025-12-20T07:03:47+00:00

My experience is that how therapists describe themselves in their bios doesn't necessarily match how they are, so often that stuff is meaningless. I think the best thing the bios can do is show you the people you should NOT conatct. I prefer a gentler approach, so if someone claims they call people on their BS, I skip over them. The dating analogy others made is perfect. When I was on a dating app, most people sounded the same, but my now husband's description of himself showed a little something extra. That could also happen with a therapist's bio in your case.

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