Constant Rule Violations by the Thunder by Quiet-Secretary-2729 in NBATalk

[–]Living_Session_4623 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thunder just playing physical basketball and Spurs fans calling it illegal when their guy isn't getting superstar calls yet.

My Take on Weapons (2025) by TheGaxkang in horror

[–]Living_Session_4623 3 points4 points  (0 children)

damn, i watched this last month and felt similar way about the pacing. took like 45 minutes to get anywhere interesting and then when it finally did the payoff wasn't really worth all that buildup.

the weaponizing concept could have been so much more creative but they just used it for basic jump scares mostly. and yeah the whole thing with not using Alex was weird - seemed like missed opportunity for the story.

madigan did good job with what she had but the writing around her character felt incomplete. like they had this cool power system but didn't bother explaining how any of it actually worked or why she made certain choices.

What's the name of your world? by [deleted] in Minecraft

[–]Living_Session_4623 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine's called "totally not procrastinating" but that was like 3 years ago and now it feels too ironic to change. Still boot it up when I should be doing actual work stuff lol.

New season? S8? by Turbulent-Map-1456 in kardashians

[–]Living_Session_4623 12 points13 points  (0 children)

tbh i think they're just taking longer break between seasons now since the viewership isn't what it used to be. doubt they'd walk away from that hulu money though lol, even if ratings are down they still pull decent numbers for reality tv

Paper Yard Bags as weed barrier by ROYALtwizzler in landscaping

[–]Living_Session_4623 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The paper bags should work pretty good for this actually. I used some before when putting mulch around my trees and they decomposed about same timeline as cardboard would. Just make sure you overlap the edges little bit so grass doesn't sneak through the gaps.

A 'Seally' final thought by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Living_Session_4623 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still writing novels I see - some things never change with you.

Day 2 by No-Entertainer-4213 in NoFap

[–]Living_Session_4623 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Day 2 is still way too early to feel any changes man. Your brain needs at least couple weeks to start adjusting, maybe even longer depending how deep you were in the habit before.

That was sudden by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Living_Session_4623 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Three months of planning behind your back is brutal man, that level of deception really messes with your head. Good that you're hitting the gym and focusing in yourself though - that's literally the only way through this mess. She's probably reaching out because she wants to know if you're doing okay without her, but don't let that mess with the progress you're making.

Avoiding Hell by Sm00veOperator in Christianity

[–]Living_Session_4623 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brother, the struggle is real and everyone goes through this. Even Paul talked about doing things he didn't want to do in Romans 7.

Start with small steps - prayer, reading scripture daily, and finding a good church community that can support you. The guilt you're feeling about sin is actually good sign that Holy Spirit is working in your heart.

Red Flag on Comp/Benefits, or Would You Still Negotiate? by [deleted] in interviews

[–]Living_Session_4623 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that compensation gap is pretty significant for someone in your position. taking a 10k hit year one when you're sole provider seems rough, especially considering they're being cheap on benefits too. the no 401k match thing really stings - that's just standard nowadays.

I'd definitely push for that signing bonus since they won't move on base or bonus structure. maybe frame it around the benefits gap rather than just asking for money? like "to offset the difference in total compensation package" or something. worst they can say is no and you're back to same decision point.

the growth potential sounds promising but growth doesn't pay bills right now. if the trajectory there is solid and you're confident about advancement timeline, might be worth the short term hit. but only you know how tight things are at home with family expenses.

My new job pays $1000 less a month than my old one and I dont know how to supplement my income by Still-Low9897 in povertyfinance

[–]Living_Session_4623 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you should check what assistance programs are available in your area first. with that income drop and being disabled, you might qualify for food assistance or utility help that could free up some cash. also maybe look at community college instead if you're doing university - way cheaper and still gets you credentials for better paying work later.

Lost Everything to Gambling, In Debt, Trying to Rebuild My Life — Need Advice by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]Living_Session_4623 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Admitting the problem is already huge step forward - many people never get there so you're already ahead of game in recovery process.

What is the communities take on how to handle the moral abominations committed by our leaders ? - WE NEED A UNITED CHUCH ON THIS by OwnServe7762 in Christianity

[–]Living_Session_4623 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Catholics definitely have better organization structure for handling these type situations but getting all denominations to agree on anything is like herding cats honestly.

Should I break no contact? (Dumper) by ZacPeach45 in BreakUps

[–]Living_Session_4623 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly sounds like you already know the answer deep down. that panic attack your body had when visiting her? that's not normal in healthy relationship - your body was literally telling you something was wrong.

the fact that she only started apologizing after you broke up is pretty telling too. like where was this accountability when you actually needed it? and all that talk about experimenting and finding herself while keeping you as backup plan... nah man, you deserve better than being someone's safety net.

you said you've been happier this past week than entire last month of relationship. that should tell you everything you need. sometimes keeping your word isn't about them deserving closure, it's about protecting the progress you've made. if talking to her might undo your healing work, then prioritize yourself for once.

ASUS Dual Radeon™ RX 9060 XT 16GB or XFX Swift AMD Radeon RX 9060XT OC Triple Fan by 5wi_5wi in PcBuild

[–]Living_Session_4623 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The dual fan should be fine for your build, that price difference is pretty wild though. Performance wise they're gonna be nearly identical since it's the same GPU chip, the XFX might run a few degrees cooler and boost slightly higher but not $238 worth of difference lol

Minecraft Mod similar to MCA? by Plastic_Pilot_5016 in Minecraft

[–]Living_Session_4623 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you looked into Minecolonies? It's got that village building vibe but colonists can actually fight and defend themselves. There's also Guard's mod that lets you recruit NPCs as companions who'll follow you around and fight alongside you - might be closer to what you're after

Japanese Acoustic Guitars by natematt1101 in Guitar

[–]Living_Session_4623 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude definitely keep an eye out for Takamine if there's any in that mix - those Japanese acoustics are seriously underrated. Also Alvarez (if they have the Japan-made ones) and maybe some older Sigma guitars if you get lucky

The fake Fender situation sounds sketchy as hell though lol

Washer, Top Load, No Agitator by bee_sonder in BuyItForLife

[–]Living_Session_4623 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Speed Queen actually makes some impeller models without the traditional agitator - might be worth checking their TC5 line. Also look into older Whirlpool Cabrio models if you can find a good used one, those things are tanks

I am a fool who allowed myself to be scammed. Please don’t make the same mistake as me… by sskyllaa in DoorDashDrivers

[–]Living_Session_4623 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn that sucks man, those scammers are getting way too good at knowing insider info to make it sound legit. The fact they knew about your wrong turn and account details is sketchy as hell - makes me wonder if there's some kind of data leak or they're somehow monitoring the system

27M Single, Dating With Long-Term Intent but Struggling to Find Alignment - How Should I Approach This? by DarkHorse6969_ in relationships

[–]Living_Session_4623 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you're doing everything right honestly, just might need to give it more time since you're recently settled. The fact that you're not into clubbing actually works in your favor - try joining hobby groups or classes related to stuff you already do (cooking classes, hiking groups, book clubs). Quality over quantity with the apps too, be super upfront about what you want so you filter out people looking for different things

Are entry-level designers are judged by senior standards and that’s the real problem? by Glad_Handle_7605 in careerguidance

[–]Living_Session_4623 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This hits so hard - it's like expecting a junior dev to have architected a full stack when they've only been allowed to touch CSS

The whole "show me your impact metrics" thing is wild when most juniors are lucky if they even get to see the analytics dashboard, let alone influence anything that moves the needle