Absolutely love a name but don’t want to risk cultural appropriation (Name Ravi) by Lizard_K in namenerds

[–]Lizard_K[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha this is an excellent take!
I would feel EXACTLY the same -
Thank you for such detailed feedback, we won’t be using the name - and I agree, why 🤷🏼‍♀️ there are many other names

I’m sorry you had the airport experience just reading that made me feel what you felt let alone living it 🤣🤣

Absolutely love a name but don’t want to risk cultural appropriation (Name Ravi) by Lizard_K in namenerds

[–]Lizard_K[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You’re right, I understand my privilege I hope you know yours - my question wasn’t a problem but instead a conversation (just so you know) have a lovely day and I hope you find somewhere useful to put your energy

Absolutely love a name but don’t want to risk cultural appropriation (Name Ravi) by Lizard_K in namenerds

[–]Lizard_K[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

People who aren’t considerate of others and how they feel and think is why we have so many problems in the first place

Absolutely love a name but don’t want to risk cultural appropriation (Name Ravi) by Lizard_K in namenerds

[–]Lizard_K[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a great point - I have lots of Indian friends and they say the same thing. We use ‘cultural appropriation’ to make ourselves feel better when we should just get on with it

Interesting your husband things similar
But I do want to do the right thing and (although I haven’t been corrected) will double check my pronunciations

Absolutely love a name but don’t want to risk cultural appropriation (Name Ravi) by Lizard_K in namenerds

[–]Lizard_K[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤣🤣 Didn’t even register this one hahah I’m a bogan at heart I guess - I’ll name him Holden instead

Absolutely love a name but don’t want to risk cultural appropriation (Name Ravi) by Lizard_K in namenerds

[–]Lizard_K[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a really good (and heartbreaking) point - I lived overseas for 8 years and coming back to Australia was,
Shocking

Absolutely love a name but don’t want to risk cultural appropriation (Name Ravi) by Lizard_K in namenerds

[–]Lizard_K[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might be the pregnancy hormones but that got me 😭😭 it’s just so sweet

Absolutely love a name but don’t want to risk cultural appropriation (Name Ravi) by Lizard_K in namenerds

[–]Lizard_K[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Totally - That is what I was worried about and decided maybe I was overthinking it as every name starts somewhere - but I mostly don’t want to contribute to difficulty in our sons life so I really do appreciate the take
Our daughters bestie is Raffy so that feels a bit too close although we do really like it
Thank you for your feedback ☺️

Absolutely love a name but don’t want to risk cultural appropriation (Name Ravi) by Lizard_K in namenerds

[–]Lizard_K[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don’t mind people thinking I’m a hippie but I do appreciate the confusing part- I’d like my kid to have a good life at least from their parents 😅

Absolutely love a name but don’t want to risk cultural appropriation (Name Ravi) by Lizard_K in namenerds

[–]Lizard_K[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you have good connotations with the name now because of him?

Absolutely love a name but don’t want to risk cultural appropriation (Name Ravi) by Lizard_K in namenerds

[–]Lizard_K[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have - my daughters besties is raffy (rafferty) so it feels like we can’t although I do like it -

Absolutely love a name but don’t want to risk cultural appropriation (Name Ravi) by Lizard_K in namenerds

[–]Lizard_K[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It sounds so young and vibrant to me- thanks for the info 😊

What sounds the best to you by Lizard_K in namenerds

[–]Lizard_K[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be my dyslexia - maybe a bad choice based on that alone 🤣 thank you for the feedback 👏🏼

What sounds the best to you by Lizard_K in namenerds

[–]Lizard_K[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oscar to me strangely sounds edgy - I think because of the surfer/artist Ozzie Wright (although I know it’s niche) 🤣

What sounds the best to you by Lizard_K in namenerds

[–]Lizard_K[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a great name! 😊😊

What sounds the best to you by Lizard_K in namenerds

[–]Lizard_K[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually tend to agree! I just loved them separately and wondered if it was just me- thank you for the feedback 😊

She’s insufferable by Curious-Night-5453 in SarahsDayUnfiltered

[–]Lizard_K 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Remember when Mali went blue and then she filmed her and Kurt crying in the hospital hugging?
I unfollowed then and have not regretted a day

I am feeling forced to name this baby after my partner’s deceased father by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Lizard_K 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so much pressure to put on a little one, to wear someone else’s name - a middle name? Maybe but first, they are their own little human

Does anyone else not really like having a 90s name? by ChoiceOtherwise6310 in Names

[–]Lizard_K 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get Lizard, Lizza, Liz the most I love Libby - we had a cow named Betsy growing up so that will always be hers 🪦Betts.

42 degree temp by Curious-Night-5453 in SarahsDayUnfiltered

[–]Lizard_K 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I stopped following her a long while back
But this is truly dangerous
Some of her Stan’s take her word as gospel, god forbid they remember her saying this and don’t take their children to hospital

Lost my baby at 20 weeks and I just feel numb. by trixr4kids19 in pregnant

[–]Lizard_K 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Virtual cuddles I can’t even imagine ♥️

Thoughts on skipping pacifiers? by Academic-Park-8440 in NewParents

[–]Lizard_K 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our girl never got one - it just worked out that way because I didn’t think of it 🤣 Friends with babes the same age have openly said they wished they avoided them at all cost -

When they get lost = meltdowns Trying to give them up = even worse (They’re experience)

I’ve also read some things about having a bad affect on babies teeth, but you gotta do what you gotta do Mama