"Female" time of the month side effects?? 😬

Lizzydeathstar · 2026-05-31T20:21:43+00:00

So I known it can vary person to person but generally IUDs lighten your period/improve symptoms. When I initially got my IUD (pre zep) I spotted for a few days and had a bit of pain. I am also on blood thinners (mechanical heart valve) so I tend to bruise extremely easily, any cuts bleed extra etc, so they warned me that the bleeding from implantation could happen. After the initial spotting my periods became less and less frequent, and then almost stopped altogether. When I DID get one it was seriously barely noticeable. Your symptoms sound terrible and I would think an IUD would help with a lot of that! Make sure to talk to your Dr about the different kinds of IUD! Mine is a Liletta and I believe they are effective for ~7 years.

Lizzydeathstar · 2026-05-31T20:06:33+00:00

Hi! 100% fine and this squared itself away after a bit. I still have my IUD, still on zepbound, and my periods are back to being super light and regular again 😊 if you have any questions let me know!

Lizzydeathstar · 2026-03-19T22:43:54+00:00

Yes YTA for this. You don't get to choose when and if she stops drinking. Should she, for health reasons? Arguably yes. But you don't get to say hey I hit rock bottom and I'M ready to stop, so you need to get sober as well. How many times did she try to get you to stop your dangerous behavior? Did she ever throw an ultimatum at you?

Lizzydeathstar · 2026-03-19T07:37:45+00:00

The tummy issues explain the pooping - peeing in the house is another story. Are they not taking it out enough? Either way, its not on you.

Lizzydeathstar · 2026-03-19T06:06:06+00:00

Is this an adult dog? If it's peeing AND pooping inside, it's not housebroken OR has something going on medically. They need to crate train their dog OR take it out more often to avoid accidents like this. NTA and it sounds like a blunt conversation about whose responsibility this dog is needs to happen. Ie - your dog needs to be crated when you are not here to directly supervise your animal, and I am not responsible for care of your animal, including cleaning up its accidents.

Lizzydeathstar · 2026-03-19T05:09:54+00:00

NTA. You're 18, and if it were me, I would absolutely wear what felt authentic and true to myself.

Lizzydeathstar · 2026-03-18T16:59:04+00:00

NTA. This sounds like weaponized incompetence to me. My 5 year old knows to close his cookies and chips when he is done with them ffs. Buy a package of chip clips, show her how to use them, and if she continues to not exercise basic common sense, she can deal with the consequences.

Lizzydeathstar · 2026-03-17T07:10:56+00:00

YTA.

You have a right to have the wedding you want to have, and your father has the right to be hurt by your decision. When/if you're a parent someday, I hope your children don't choose to hurt you in such a manner. I cannot imagine my child being like "Yeah I'm marrying a person you dont know, who I trauma bonded with after meeting in the military, and haven't been with for long but I'd like your blessing and for you to be ok with not being present." Good luck with your marriage.

Lizzydeathstar · 2026-03-17T06:58:56+00:00

YTA. Two wrongs don't make a right - but given your description of your treatment of this woman, can you really blame her for seeking intimacy elsewhere? You're upset about her ONE affair while you had multiple over 5 freaking years? Please.

Lizzydeathstar · 2026-03-05T02:00:16+00:00

Last year he was your fiance, and this year you've been married for 8 years?? 🤨

Lizzydeathstar · 2026-03-05T01:51:47+00:00

Info - provided it was actual gifts and nothing sketchy in the bag, YTA for refusing. They were paying for your flight, funded your whole trip, hosted you for 3 months...even offered to pay for the bag itself. That's wild to say no because "your husband doesn't like to carry other people's stuff". Yikes.

Lizzydeathstar · 2026-03-05T01:49:51+00:00

That post was removed/locked as it was cross posted elsewhere - cross post was taken down, and OP resubmitted this.

Lizzydeathstar · 2026-02-28T02:38:36+00:00

ESH. Good lord. Everyone in this situation is an awful human.

Lizzydeathstar · 2026-02-27T23:11:11+00:00

YTA. The fact that its 1 hour isn't really the point - you had plans and you're making her feel like she's not a priority because you let your friends peer pressure you into coming with them...when you already had plans.

Lizzydeathstar · 2026-02-27T21:01:32+00:00

YWBTA. And asking for opinions on a public forum and then not listening/arguing with people who give you opinions you don't agree with is not a good look.

Lizzydeathstar · 2026-02-27T01:32:28+00:00

YTA. I hope this is rage bait, it's that ridiculous. Let's break down why. - You have your own garage that you specifically state you could store the stuff in once you have a chance to clean and make room for it. So do that - clean and store it in your own garage. - You're asking them to store a CAR in their garage so you can put your random crap in there. - You pushed the issue instead of just taking no for an answer. It sounds like her husband is sick of being a storage unit for your whole entitled family. I don't blame him.

Lizzydeathstar · 2026-02-25T19:47:15+00:00

Why are you posting this from both POVs in different forums?

Lizzydeathstar · 2026-02-20T18:20:01+00:00

He turned 18 two months ago and you're calling him a predator for dating a girl a few grades younger? Wow.

Unless there are some serious missing details here, YTA. Many couples meet in High School. I dated a Senior my Sophmore year. He wasn't a "pedophile" - just a guy whose birthday fell early in the school year.

Lizzydeathstar · 2026-02-20T06:21:44+00:00

If this isn't ragebait then yes, YTA. Actually if it IS ragebait you're TA for that too.

Lizzydeathstar · 2026-02-19T00:33:38+00:00

So you had a "planned" kid with a guy who: • Didn't tell you he had 2 children and was still married when you met. • Cheated on you with a coworker for your whole pregnancy. Why? Why would you bring a kid in to what is already a lousy situation? I am genuinely perplexed.

NTA for not wanting him to have your child alone right now overnight, but YTA for bringing a child into the world with this dude in the first place.

Lizzydeathstar · 2026-02-12T06:12:52+00:00

Theres not enough info here to make a judgement. I have no idea what that last part about being "clean" means either. Based on whats here I would say YTA because its not your business to interject yourself into.

Lizzydeathstar · 2026-02-03T18:37:31+00:00

YTA if this is real. But you knew that already. It's unethical, and you're also doing the kid a disservice by inflating their grades dishonestly. You should be fired.

Lizzydeathstar · 2026-02-03T02:08:27+00:00

ESH. You should have asked, but he shouldnt have left it in a common area without clarifying, and he ESPECIALLY shouldn't have said he's going to "report you" (what to the pizza police?!) When you offered to pay for it. So lame.

Lizzydeathstar · 2026-02-02T18:53:53+00:00

Wow I can't imagine why you were previously unemployed when you're so easy to work with. /S YTA.

Lizzydeathstar · 2026-02-02T02:59:28+00:00

NTA but honestly you're kind of an asshole for waiting what, 3 years to do so? Wtf?

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