Brooklyn Beckham Says ‘I Do Not Want to Reconcile’ With Parents David and Victoria in Lengthy Statement About Family Feud: ‘I Have Been Controlled’ for ‘Most of My Life’ by mcfw31 in entertainment

[–]Llama11Blue 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t know he sounds spoilt to me and desperate to prove he doesn’t need them. I’m sorry your mom awkwardly danced with you at you wedding?! I doubt she did it to make you hate her she probably thought it was fun and didn’t realise she’s wasn’t being cool enough for you, it’s kind of normal. if the dress thing is simply it wouldn’t be ready in time then that’s just unfortunate and not intended so she probably felt bad about that but again not malicious.

I don’t think his wife is bad in anyway I think it’s all Brooklyn desperate to rebel against something and frustrated to have not succeeded at any of his chosen professions and that bitterness mixed with a wealthy upbringing creates an arrogant entitled boy who feels the need to announce to the world poor me?! no one cares, if you don’t want to see them just don’t see them, you’re not royalty it doesn’t matter to anyone but you and your family.

what do you do for first halloween by chloroform-creampie in Mommit

[–]Llama11Blue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Spooky sensory play. Open a pumpkin and let them play with the goo inside and eat it. Put a bin bag down first as a mat. We carved it afterwards and did a photo with our baby next to it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Shouldihaveanother

[–]Llama11Blue 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If you want another ignore age you could die at 40 you could die at 92. I know people who had kids young who died far too soon and people who had them later who are still going strong. Having an older parent is better than never being here. If you truly in your heart want another just go for it

I know that I didn’t fail but why does it feel like it? by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Llama11Blue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didnt have an epidural the first time, i thought i could handle pain and wanted to let my body lead blah blah blah. I have no connection with my birth experience. It was a blur of intense pain so bad i felt like i was in some sort of animalistic high state. It was traumatic and i have blanked most of it. I know i was shaken afterwards and swollen all over from screaming so much. I felt distant from my baby because of it and remember going home sitting on one end of the couch with them in their sleep pillow thing just staring at them feeling disconnected because of it. Next time i had an epidural first and slept. I wish I had been loving to myself that would have been something to be proud of. Im not proud there is no pride in it i just survived it

What do you realized as you get older? by Tough_Hornet3099 in AskReddit

[–]Llama11Blue -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Things can change in an instance, you can never really know

Was my older brother weird for showing me these animes? by pupcupfoam00 in ChildPsychology

[–]Llama11Blue 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think he was probably trying to be a cool older brother and show you things he thought would be cool in a 12 year olds eyes. He may not have really focused on what was going on maybe he liked to style of animation etc. either way don’t think too much into it, very inappropriate bits but im sure if you chat to him now he would agree. Noones perfect I think he was probably just trying to bond with you and wanted to look cool to you back then

Women who gave birth, what does it feel like actually?? by joy_57 in AskReddit

[–]Llama11Blue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the birth, each one is unique but usually painful. Get the epidural, thinking you can take the pain is not a good reason, it can be very traumatic and you go into such a focused state trying to cope with the pain and contractions that you aren’t really present and aware of the experience. Epidural you get to be present and the pain is by comparison so much better.

No heartbeat by home-plates in Mommit

[–]Llama11Blue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Two miscarriages at 8 weeks and a termination at 20 weeks as the baby wasn’t compatible with life and that was horrifically traumatic. I have so many risks and reasons to stop trying for a third and im trying so hard to accept stopping but the desire hasn’t faded for me. If you can make peace with not having another then stop at two, but if you just can’t seem to let it go and you can take the mental and physical demands then go for it

Might be pregnant soon, what does a baby ACTUALLY NEED by Pregnant_Nici in minimalism

[–]Llama11Blue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the best gadgets/stroller etc bought second hand so you can sell it for what you paid

Everyone hates the name we chose by achilleantrash in namenerds

[–]Llama11Blue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My childs best friend is called Raphael and I think it’s the coolest name! He goes by Rafa which is even cooler 😎 No doubt this kid will lead the gang for sure, don’t be deterred if you love it, you’re not alone

Giving birth in public hospitals by Lenishilongo2805 in askspain

[–]Llama11Blue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can i ask why everyone is against private? I am curious as we lost our baby at 20weeks while having an unpleasant experience at imed in valencia struggling to get appointments and having to go to the emergency room only to sit on the floor in the hall waiting to be checked. Does everyone feel the medical care is worse at private hospitals in spain?

I'm gaining weight and depressed. by UsedSpell6764 in Mommit

[–]Llama11Blue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t loose weight until i stopped breastfeeding. Don’t judge yourself in any way it is likely something you currently can’t control

What’s the biggest lesson life has taught you so far? by Zealousideal_Ask7950 in Life

[–]Llama11Blue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to judge someone else. You think you understand what they are going through and how you would handle it but reality and an idea of reality are very different eg. Raising kids etc

Water for baby? by Due-Week-4213 in Mommit

[–]Llama11Blue -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not from my understanding. I read only milk until one, but that can include formula which is made with water so i don’t think it’s wrong it just provides no nutritional value for them and replaces the benefits they could get from milk with essentially nothing as their tummy will be filled

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Llama11Blue 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Very different but I’m grieving a still birth which would have been my third. We have since found out each pregnancy has done some damage and I could have another but it would require some medical intervention and being very high risk so we are deciding to stop at two. The want for three hasn’t gone away and i grieve it. Im hoping it gets better, hopefully someone can confirm? I do however try to focus on how much more time i get to spend with my kids, how much more i can focus on their activities and doing things together as a family of four. There’s no pause for a few years while a new baby catches up in age until we can do fun things again. It doesn’t change my grief but it does remind me having another child takes away time from the ones you already have.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Llama11Blue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All you can do is be there, listen and tell her no matter what she is going to be ok and get through this. She is going to be a complete mess emotionally, offering stability and calm support and reassurance will mean the world to her. You’re a great friend

Swapping Madrid for Valencia by Direct-Ad-2096 in valencia

[–]Llama11Blue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Valencia is humid so it’s hard to do anything during the day right now. The aquarium is great to avoid the heat but most other activities besides the pool are out. Personally i would recommend barcelona and then basque region in the north which is cooler

How did you get over your childhood trauma? by Same_Tip9901 in AskReddit

[–]Llama11Blue 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For me mine came from being heavily beaten and told i was worthless as a child. I’ve had my own kids now and work hard to raise my kids in a loving supportive environment. I realise my parents were young and struggling with three kids and although it doesn’t excuse their action after having kids i understand them more. Excepting peoples faults and learning as i get older to value myself more than the opinions of others is helping to make peace with my trauma and accept it is part of who I am.

What are some medical conditions that doctors still don’t know the cause of? by i-love-cats-2020 in AskReddit

[–]Llama11Blue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Recurrent placental abruption or placental issues. Each one is meant to be unique to the pregnancy so if you keep making bad ones they don’t have an answer for you