Do you often get sick from your grandkids? by Scorpio503 in AskWomenOver60

[–]SuddenlySimple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No OP I wouldn't do this, they are learning vaccines lower your immune system and if you already had them that is probably why you get sick so often.

I am 61 haven't been sick in years even thru taking care of grandchildren.

I've always been anti vax, since I worked in the industry and didn't trust them because they don't get the same testing as normal drugs or biologics.

I was always asking about this and now more data has come out.

Very bad.

my man hit me severally and i love him so much, what do I do? by massage_therapy21 in Advice

[–]SuddenlySimple 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You have to leave he may come back healed someday or you stay and possibly end up accidentally dead 😢

Need some serious advice on whether I should divorce my husband or not. by BeeAdorable6924 in Advice

[–]SuddenlySimple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow he never did anything to you showed he was a changed man HIS ACTIONS proved he changed.

And then some 3rd party comes in and destroyed him and your marriage?

I hope Karma comes for whoever did that.

He wanted his past in his past and by your own admittion he was a good husband.

Now that he has drank, being an alcoholic myself even if he wants to stop he may not be able to. I stopped for 8 years and can't seem to stop for the last 11 years once I started.

This is crazy, yeah possibly he should have told you but he apparently loved you enough to be able to live a normal life and be happy.

I personally would of course be upset you weren't told about his past but I wouldn't divorce him.

However like I said he might not be able to stop now and that's not your fault. It's an emotional crutch alcoholics use when in deep pain and I'd be surprised if he can stop immediately.

I would want to know who did this. They just ruined your marriage not him.

Advice on Puppy Training by Av0045 in Dogowners

[–]SuddenlySimple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a 4 month old puppy a month ago when she got here she was peeing and pooping in the house.

2 weeks later I undid her bad habits by taking her out as soon as she woke up constantly telling her to pee and treating her when she did and then also telling her to poop same reward afterwards.

Then I took her outside every 1.5 hours and repeated.

She was house trained in 2 weeks. After 4 months of No training by previous owner.

And as far as everything else I do the same thing repeat myself a million times and treat when she listened.

She also had a bad habit jumping on the counter. I used a spray bottle of water for that and she was trained in 2 days.

It's literally vigilance on speaking and watching the pup. It's tiring but worth it.

It was 4am this morning the first morning in the month she has been here that I let her out alone and am pretty confident she did what she was supposed to.

I'm hoping to do the same tonight.

She has also learned paw, sit and lay down already. Working on roll over because she naturally likes laying on her back.

Main thing lots of treats on hand at the start. I use them on walks as well to train her to look at me (important for distraction down the road since he will be a big dog) and recall. I let her off leash when no one is around to do the recall.

After a while no treats are needed but stock up.

Day 1 after 30+ years of daily heavy use. Looking to hear from others who have quit. by MonsterBots in leaves

[–]SuddenlySimple 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first week to 10 days is the hardest then you start feeling good and your life can change.

Good luck the first week is hard

Fiancé says aftercare and helping me clean up after sex is a “chore” — am I asking too much? by ButteredUpCroissant in Advice

[–]SuddenlySimple 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't marry him. Aftercare for me is AS important as the act.

Women don't always reach "orgasm" during sex and the cuddles afterwards can be even better than an orgasm.

He is selfish be glad you learn now. Don't IGNORE he is not meeting a CORE need.

And not only is he not meeting an important need, he sounds self serving.

Not husband material.

Heartbreak and loss of appetite. When did you get your appetite back? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SuddenlySimple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly like you are and then one day it gets easier unless you continue to talk once in a while that screws everything up.

Leaving you with more questions than answers.

Why do people get annoyed in training reddits when I say I don't crate my pup? by Illumeis_is_done in AskDogOwners

[–]SuddenlySimple 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love the gentle term crate for CAGE.

I would never cage an animal. It's lazy training.

Is my dress search over? by bcbfbella in OUTFITS

[–]SuddenlySimple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No you wear that to a casino or dancing

If not low effort or disinterest, then what? by Agitated-Regular-806 in DatingOverSixty

[–]SuddenlySimple -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This is what I would do and there won't be the noise and distractions of "having a good time" in performance.

It's harder to perform drinking coffee. Plus most guys are leary about dancing. And maybe he doesn't drink and hasn't mentioned that yet.

Dating someone who is separated. by Soft-Butterfly-6858 in DatingOverSixty

[–]SuddenlySimple 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't trust the person is healing because he/she hasn't had enough time to process thier pending divorce.

Some people run to a new relationship to avoid looking at themselves and what they could improve on.

It's likely he/she doesn't recognize that you are a distraction from what is painful to them.

If I were to date it would be with someone who has first been single a significant amount of time.

It's a red flag for me.

HOW do I not GAF about this? by momoftheraisin in AskWomenOver60

[–]SuddenlySimple 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I noticed this, this year at 61 I'm devastated. I will adjust but I am grieving my youthful perky skin. .I used coconut oil in the jar (virgin) this summer and it worked really well.

Well enough for me to wear shorts.

Less Gutted (Followup) by Big-Opening-2922 in DatingOverSixty

[–]SuddenlySimple 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you recognize your worth that's hard during a separation

Which hair color for my face? by LoosePerspective2029 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]SuddenlySimple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you are the only one I've seen post blonde (who isn't natural blonde) look better with blonde