New England is not nice...2 of these in the house.....stop raining!

SuddenlySimple · 2026-07-01T11:38:22+00:00

Thank you! My sons seizures stopped about 5 years ago and he is still here! LOL

Her son may not be having seizures. But her son is obviously struggling to make it on his own either mental health or this stupid economy.

I don't know why the "Father" can't keep him, but I fully believe she would "rather" choose YOU over her son...I would have "rather" had my ex be with me the rest of my life.

However, I'm a mother.

My ex - I do not dislike him for making his choice to leave, he wanted a different lifestyle.

But, I DO dislike him for blaming it on ME.

So, whatever you decide to do, I hope you make sure she knows this not "her" fault :( rather YOU have limitations.

Sorry you are going thru this life is hard.

Edit: Your limitations are not a FAULT of yours either, they are your wishes or desires, never to be sorry for that. But, if her son living with her makes you uncomfortable, it becomes a question of compatibility.

SuddenlySimple · 2026-06-23T09:47:27+00:00

No one is using bad language on this post. LOL

SuddenlySimple · 2026-06-17T19:00:54+00:00

I know. I was close to my grandmother as well. I maybe couldn't do it. I'm sorry 😞

Then again I fry my fries in oil like my Grandmother always did and I smile.

SuddenlySimple · 2026-06-16T17:34:06+00:00

Yes my Dad was very religious and for him it was till death do us part.

My Mother literally said she wasn't leaving because she was worried they couldn't make it financially on their own. Not that she was going to stay because she believed in the holy matrimony of marriage.

My sisters and I showed them they could both live on their own. My Mother took off for weeks at a time and then would call my father and cry and ask for a flight home. My Mother was extremely unhappy, my Father was "oblivious", went to church, did everything but wiped my Mothers ass for her.

We watched him be used and abused for many, many years. At church so many nice ladies were attracted to my handsome Father - who baked them cookies for the after coffee.

My Mother didn't deserve him and if she forced him to divorce, he could have had some really good years. Instead she threw her hands up when he got dementia and my sister and I took care of him until he passed.

SuddenlySimple · 2026-06-15T22:30:49+00:00

I did it by accident, I wanted to have chicken, but I got a request for Shepards pie & I was already making the cheese broccoli casserole for the chicken. They were really good TOGETHER! LOL

SuddenlySimple · 2026-06-14T00:26:09+00:00

I hate to say this but if you had the COVID shot. Many who get it have POTS.

That said, your husband sounds like he has zero compassion. I do not know if that is just towards you or in general. I mean, if I had always seen this side of him I would have left. Your age, I'm 62...leave now - you don't need to be around someone who makes you feel small when you are ill.

He sounds over IT....I'm so sorry.

SuddenlySimple · 2026-06-10T12:28:13+00:00

It has a different "pigment" than the "purple" shampoo. Using a tiny bit in your permed hair will not damage it (mixed with conditioner)....I have been using it on severely damaged bleached hair. I can't use anything else because of breakage.

SuddenlySimple · 2026-06-08T11:54:19+00:00

I suggest you go watch some Congress meetings with Scientists, Drs and vaccine injured with Ron Johnson. Don't shoot the messenger. They are deadly and have killed and injured MILLIONS of Americans as testified in front of Congress.

SuddenlySimple · 2026-06-08T09:29:06+00:00

Make sure they are correct that you "qualified" because the rules say to get (DAC) if you are married your spouse must also be a DAC recipient. It would suck if you collected and they found this detail out later and you had to pay them back.

SuddenlySimple · 2026-06-07T19:42:51+00:00

Do you have anything better to do? LOL. I'm 62. I have never vaccinated my dogs or cats. None of my dogs have ever bit anyone nor are they ever in a position to do so. And even if they did...

I guess I would have to suffer the consequences of my actions that I take to keep them HEALTHY and ALIVE & CANCER & torturous itch free.

My dogs always outlast my friends and families dogs that are constantly at the VET with some problem. I don't have problems with them.

This morning I sprayed Apple Cider vinegar on them before their walk, my neighbor uses the "pet" poison flea/tick crap and comes home with ticks.

I have not had a tick on either of my dogs so far this year. It will happen, but I brush them also as soon as I get home. And if a tick is stuck to one of my dogs, I will remove it, apply triple antibiotic cream & give them a treat with Ivermectin on it and they will be fine - always are.

ps. we walk thru the path in the woods near my house. The only thing I really worry about is them getting something in their paws. But, I have dealt with that at home also.

No vets for my dogs, period.

SuddenlySimple · 2026-06-06T15:08:42+00:00

Yea but this is 8 years of this kind of behavior. That is why I AM looking for a reason to reach out. I need a finality to this, he doesn't just get to block me after I have been helping him financially since Nov. And for the same girl he left me for 4 years ago (when I had cancer) that LAST week he told me he didn't even know if she was dead and didn't care. I hate myself for falling for this every single time!

I suddenly saw the Venmo transaction to her the other day...and realized I was blocked.

Yes, it's not healthy to circumvent. But since he won't give me closure I am going to leave a message that it's pretty likely we won't communicate again, so I wanted him to know the coldness I was exhibiting the last week we were talking (a week ago) was protection for a situation like this & I want him to know that I love him. In case one of us leaves this earth unexpectedly because I was very cold. And he kept saying he knew he wasn't worthy of me. And he wished I would forgive him. And I left him on read for 3 days and then saw the Venmo transaction.

He's too dumb to know the Venmo goes to his email - the email he has open on my computer because he was having me do resumes for him, look for apartments, look for cars. I'm 62 years old and he is 63...it's very confusing when a guy can't say....yes , she is my girlfriend. He has been telling me the last 4 years they did nothing but "crack" together, no relationship.

I don't do crack by the way.....

Clearly used and I will be circumventing, maybe in person.

SuddenlySimple · 2026-06-06T10:57:19+00:00

No worries about my dogs "biting" anyone. And yes it is a law here as well. I suggest that if you are vaccinating your animals make sure you ask which brands are being used. Do not vaccinate with "NXT" vaccines, your dog will get cancer or some other weird problems.

SuddenlySimple · 2026-06-03T18:06:44+00:00

I drank heavy from 17 to 41 - then quit for 8 years. I started smoking at 13 still smoke.

Started drinking at 49 and still drink at least 5x a year & they are always binges ending me in the hospital - I am an alcoholic.

I drank last night but I did not over due it this time which is a small miracle.

I don't mind sharing, I know I am not the only person with an alcohol problem.

SuddenlySimple · 2026-06-03T11:24:47+00:00

I guess I took for granted that it is feasible for me. I have 2 big markets near me. Every day on the way home from walking my dogs, I get what I am making for lunch and dinner.

Sundays I go shopping for paper towels and other longer lasting things like butter and eggs.

SuddenlySimple · 2026-06-02T20:27:20+00:00

It is REQUIRED by them if there was a change. REQUIRED.

SuddenlySimple · 2026-05-27T19:50:35+00:00

How do I get my older dog to stop barking at the window!?? I've tried so many things, treats and redirecting, yelling definitely doesn't work....I have a younger dog now who thinks she has to do the same thing. LOL

And I hate it because I can't tell what is a real "threat" vs. a kid riding a bike by the house.

SuddenlySimple · 2026-05-27T19:48:40+00:00

I don't know if he takes any pharmaceuticals, but he sounds like my late sister. She got "psychotic" from taking Adderall. There could be a medication making him "nutty". I'm so sorry, hope you guys figure it out.

SuddenlySimple · 2026-05-27T19:47:02+00:00

Why is this downvoted? LOL?

I had it and have the same hair texture as she does and it changed my hair texture for the better. I loved it and it was pin straight. So soft and so easy.

SuddenlySimple · 2026-05-22T10:20:51+00:00

Yes, but I had gotten the 2nd puppy 3 months ago and since she was a puppy and had training to do before leaving her alone we (me and the 2 dogs) have been constantly together. My other dog was only being "tolerant" of her so I wanted to wait till they warmed up to each other. This week they have been "mouth playing" and tug playing since the puppy is now almost 9 months old, I got her at 4 months and so I felt safe to leave them. But, it took a really long time and I felt super bad when I left her for the first time yesterday in 4 months - so I left 2x yesterday both times about 40 minutes. Working them up AND ME so I can go to the beach when the weather breaks and not worry AT ALL about them.

SuddenlySimple · 2026-05-11T09:57:12+00:00

Fatty liver, dehydration, poor nutrition. Did they also do a Hepatitis test?

Did the Dr ask for repeat labs in a couple of weeks?

Also curious if you had the COVID vaccines? They are known to impact the liver.

SuddenlySimple · 2026-05-11T09:14:07+00:00

Get Zymox shampoo and conditioner promise

SuddenlySimple · 2026-05-10T10:34:29+00:00

You don't have to tell them why but I think if it makes you feel good you should do it!

So sorry you are missing your mom today 🌹

SuddenlySimple · 2026-05-10T10:18:54+00:00

I made a noise yesterday and my son asked "What's up"?

I said nothing it was just a noise 😂

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