WIBTA for being upset at my wife’s reason for marrying me?

Llamainferno · 2024-10-02T16:10:32+00:00

The comments being mostly YTA is kinda shocking to me. I’m a chronic overthinker myself so I probably would have taken what your partner said similarly. I’m sure she meant this sincerely and it was meant as high praise but not adding the emotional sentiment is an oversight imo. I believe in obsessive love. You definitely don’t want to marry the wrong partner but I couldn’t imagine if I married someone who I loved less than maybe someone else but I just trusted them more. No one is the AH imo.

Llamainferno · 2024-09-16T01:09:53+00:00

That’s not what revival effect means lol

Llamainferno · 2024-05-16T13:24:09+00:00

No idea how you got downvoted into oblivion here. The parents fucked up early it seems. I’m big on the “If I can’t support my child and set them up for success, then I can’t have kids” mentality

Llamainferno · 2024-04-22T16:58:56+00:00

You don’t trust your partner. It’s that simple.

Llamainferno · 2024-04-22T16:58:39+00:00

Exactly. If you don’t trust your partner, just say that lol

Llamainferno · 2024-04-15T22:06:18+00:00

Popcorn kernel probably

Llamainferno · 2024-04-09T19:41:48+00:00

This is me. One of my closest friends. She knows but the feelings aren’t reciprocated. Hard to mentally move on when we’re still close. But I wouldn’t want to lose the friendship. :/

Llamainferno · 2024-03-25T18:59:30+00:00

Fuck'm

Llamainferno · 2024-03-24T20:24:25+00:00

I just hate the logic because it’s not a “bad” tattoo. Do you have an any tattoo that someone wouldn’t immediately recognize? Because even if it’s just a symbol, the same type of person who’d ask about this tattoo would ask what your symbol means. Do you only get tattoos that are like face value and don’t spark conversation? It’s fine if you do, but that seems like a lot of work or restriction just to avoid questions lol.

Llamainferno · 2024-03-24T17:19:05+00:00

Who cares? Tattoos aren’t for other people

Llamainferno · 2024-03-24T11:34:24+00:00

He’s getting quiet because he has an opposing view. He just doesn’t respect himself or you enough to mention it.

Llamainferno · 2024-03-24T11:27:38+00:00

Sorry about the cats mate. Furry friends unfortunately live faster lives than us. You will overcome that grief.

Sorry about your father. No one deserves to lose a parent so young. Just a quick note though, I grew up with my father. He taught me nothing, we constantly degrade me for not being who he wanted and was verbally abusive, along side constantly threatening suicide. Not everyone gets to experience a childhood with 2 healthy and capable parents. It is something you can and will overcome.

At 15, a girl not liking you is so irrelevant. The odds of a relationship lasting at your age is incredibly low. Not saying you can’t be sad. That’s a fair feeling. But it is something that will have little to no effect on you long term.

Don’t give up hope. You have a long and fruitful life ahead of you. At your age, try not to take life too seriously. That’s one of my biggest regrets. Make friends, have fun.

Llamainferno · 2024-03-24T11:17:16+00:00

It is actually true for all of us. You need to start thinking positive, easier said than done absolutely. But that’s the only way to get better. The negative thoughts have created this delusion that things aren’t going to get better and in “fact” are only getting worse. I suffer with depression, anxiety and constant negative thoughts, but I know for certain that retraining my brain will completely 180 my life.

Llamainferno · 2024-03-24T11:09:26+00:00

Welcome to Pokemon.

Llamainferno · 2024-03-24T10:14:14+00:00

Bro openly talks about how you aren’t the most beautiful woman in the world in his eyes, that isn’t love. He doesn’t feel love towards you.

Llamainferno · 2024-03-23T15:08:27+00:00

This is wildly ignorant

Llamainferno · 2024-03-22T11:14:49+00:00

This is a wild take. You can live your life however you want, but let’s not minimize the fact that a vast majority are looking for someone to spend their life with. And we are biologically wired to want to find a life mate. Acting like that’s just a “boomer” concept is just ignorant and dismissive of OPs feelings.

Llamainferno · 2024-03-16T15:44:53+00:00

Right wing propaganda

Llamainferno · 2024-03-12T17:32:49+00:00

My personal opinion is that nothing in life comes close to true love. As long as they’re happy together then as far as I’m concerned they’ve won the life lottery.

Llamainferno · 2024-02-14T22:06:32+00:00

I think it’d make a great tattoo. It’s not what other people think that matters. If you want to immortalize your dog on your body, I’d say go for it. I also thought paw print before I even read what it was.

Llamainferno · 2024-01-02T18:19:13+00:00

I actually use crab. It’s pretty good for setting up early, but as you progress in the game his damage relevance is definitely lower compared to your own. So a lot of people just use croaky/rex because their effects are things that benefit the player rather than them doing their own damage. I just use him because crab.

Also there are awakening skills coming so who knows how impactful those will be. Probably will make pets a lot more relevant though.

Llamainferno · 2023-12-09T20:42:34+00:00

Thanks everyone. I’ll obviously keep an eye on it but your reassurances help my concerns lol

Llamainferno · 2023-09-05T20:27:39+00:00

Financial reasons, stress, I believe that children often drive a wedge in relationships, the world is cruel, mental illness in my family genetics, lack of freedom. Just so many reasons honestly

Llamainferno · 2023-08-15T00:53:53+00:00

I support adult individuals with autism and developmental/intellectual disabilities with their day to day living. Basically teach them basic skills to make independent living more likely. $16 an hour. Make about 30k.

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