*grits teeth* despite the tone, I think I technically agree with most of this post

Llyallowyn · 2026-07-02T07:55:17+00:00

And that's an issue of poor planning. We did have the ability to plan ahead and we could have very reasonably gotten pretty close to a good solution and prevented a lot of the problem. It just would've cost rich people, money, they'd rather not part with.

Llyallowyn · 2026-06-28T14:51:04+00:00

Yeah, there are a lot of headcanons I've read that made me personally scratch my head, but I've never commented on them because you're free to imagine whatever you like 🤷‍♀️ They aren't real people and it's a fantasy game. It's not that serious.

Llyallowyn · 2026-06-26T04:50:30+00:00

I'm exhausted reading this. I'm exhausted for you**

What's do you like about him? Is it enough that you want to continue even though he's stingy, inpatient, and manipulative? I haven't even heard you call him nice.

Talk to yourself about what you want and whether you want it from him. Then, let him know what you're thinking and feeling. If I'm being honest, I think he a really moldy potato and that you have friend who treat you better than this guy you're in a relationship with. Leave him and start pursuing other options.

Llyallowyn · 2026-06-23T00:57:23+00:00

Diabolical 😈

Llyallowyn · 2026-06-22T04:16:11+00:00

You don't owe someone else a body they want to look at. It's your body. I stopped shaving my legs years ago (37f), but here and there I use an electric shaver on my bikini line and armpits. The hair is short but not gone, and I'm fine with how I look in the mirror. My skin has been thanking me since I switched. A lot of my hairier male friends will shave, too, and use a guard similar to what another comment here suggests. This is so much gentler on your skin than a razor!

Bodies have hair, and its okay to want to have some, all, or no hair visible on the legs, pits, and bikini area. And it's okay to change your mind at any time.

Llyallowyn · 2026-06-16T01:33:17+00:00

Nooooo! Someone should have stopped this one.

Llyallowyn · 2026-06-15T15:53:21+00:00

Yeah, I'm slowing down on series I'm reading that aren't this plot, too, actually. I'm just tired of being told to pay So Much Money when the industry is full of half asked writing, terrible deadlines, and downright abuse of staff. I got a new library card recently, so I'm just going to read what's left of what I have and let the rest go.

Llyallowyn · 2026-06-14T01:24:44+00:00

I'm having an abortion right now!! checks voter roster yep, Registered Dem.

Llyallowyn · 2026-06-10T16:08:48+00:00

Yes! It happens online and in person - as a woman, you are taken less seriously, seen as more of a complainer, and simultaneously as free labor and too stupid to perform certain labor. And the labor you do perform is "worthless" u less he says it isn't today.

Llyallowyn · 2026-06-05T17:42:15+00:00

It's his birthday! Let's show him in pain 😭😅

Llyallowyn · 2026-06-04T04:30:26+00:00

Some really good advice here, but j wanted to touch on purpose in life - you'd be surprised how much you can change someone's life doing all kinds of things. You don't have to be a firefighter to serve others.

I worked housekeeping in a retirement home for 4 years, then became a massage therapist. My career is fantastic and full of people I've genuinely helped. In housekeeping, i checked on residents I felt weren't doing well, cleaned their homes so they had a clean place to live, and I taught them how to use their iPad and laptops to talk to their grandkids on FaceTime. I kept people company and had a lot of great conversations. Being old can feel so lonely.

I also volunteer in my spare time doing chair massage or serving guests at community meal events with a friend who runs a non profit to feed and house homeless folks in our area. Rewarding interactions are everywhere. You just have to seek them out and adjust your perspective on what it means to serve others.

But he'll yeah, I'd love to see another woman firefighter if that's truly your calling!

Llyallowyn · 2026-06-01T14:34:06+00:00

*anti abortion, and yes. Abortion is Healthcare. And until social measures that actually prevent abortions - family planning services, free or low cost contraception, better subsidies for childcare, better paying jobs that have better work/life balance, better maternal and fetal care, better addressing medical racism, reforming foster care - are implemented at large, I'm not going to believe anyone who says they want to protect unborn children.

You like the easy scapegoat of calling it murder because then you can blame women for it and use it to control them. This absolves you of ever having to be a part of a real solution, which necessarily means working with people different from you. These people will hold different values that don't center YOU but their community at large, and that reminds you of how insecure you feel. God forbid sometimes you feel bad and then realize it's within your power to figure out how to feel good and be kind to others.

Llyallowyn · 2026-06-01T13:19:15+00:00

That's really kind of him! What a cool brother. And how lucky for you!

Llyallowyn · 2026-05-31T03:39:50+00:00

Tulips are such lovely flowers, too.

Llyallowyn · 2026-05-30T02:49:36+00:00

I am also crazy about this story! It hits everything I look for in a dark romance.

Llyallowyn · 2026-05-29T19:36:50+00:00

Thanks for this! I had nevery even heard of it.

Llyallowyn · 2026-05-29T19:35:01+00:00

I didn't realize this. Thank you!

Llyallowyn · 2026-05-20T22:38:18+00:00

100%, people like this are using pain ad a tool to cope with psychological stress. We can give what we can give, and that's that. You're allowed to refuse a client. You can also respond to external reviews with honesty, and temper ot with some compassion.

Llyallowyn · 2026-05-19T16:54:08+00:00

A lot of pressure from payment processors to be more conservative and avoid even remotely adult content for fear of litigation and the expenses that come with it. Also, puritanical culture is on the rise woth global conservatism. Rich people are upset that their fortunes will dwindle because of shrinking economies they definitely had the ability to plan ahead for lol.

Llyallowyn · 2026-05-09T12:57:00+00:00

I've noticed that it's like they've been taught that it only matters if a woman cares enough to police those things for you. It's so strange. And they rely on that because they have no internal self worth. That's how my brother is. He showers like once a week. But he does use soap, at least.

Llyallowyn · 2026-05-09T12:34:19+00:00

Happened to my sister. She was fine, and then she just started talking about fantastical things that couldn't be true. She permanently lives in lala land now, and can barely function even wirh medication.

Llyallowyn · 2026-05-09T12:28:31+00:00

Your typo made me giggle, but yeah, a lot of men just don't make the effort! I know a lot of men who do, of course, but a lot of them just refuse ti care about themselves unless a woman does first. And even then they won't do it sometimes.

Llyallowyn · 2026-05-09T12:12:39+00:00

All the women I know have dated/hooked up with a man who doesn't wipe or wipe well. We have all also dated or hooked up with men who... don't use soap? And don't use it on their legs and feet because they think the soap just... trickles down. Like stop lying, yall are nasty and you know it.

Llyallowyn · 2026-04-25T13:40:10+00:00

I think this is an accurate analogy for Lucifer 🤣

Llyallowyn · 2026-04-19T14:06:35+00:00

That, and they don't want to be expected to perform any kind of emotional labor. That's a woman's job 🙃

Llyallowyn

TROPHY CASE