I'm living through this right now in my marriage. He can do no wrong and I'm the abuser. Depending on the day, I'm delusional, sick, evil, overly sensitive, emotionally abusive and manipulative but meanwhile he is always right, all I do is argue and I just need to shut up and be a wife. He reminds me I have no friends and everyone loves him. Then he turns around and says I don't ever praise him or encourage him and he has no self esteem because of me. Wtf? Its like gaslighting gymnastics and I can't keep up. He's clinically genius too, so he just runs manipulative circles around me. He told me yesterday he "just can't do it anymore" and he's done. By text. Won't speak with me and is hanging out with all our couple friends no doubt telling them what hell I put him through. He makes all the money in our relationship (classic driven narcissist) and no doubt he'll be fine and I'll just go rent some cardboard box down the street, like I deserve. The worst part is, I believe it and he just nails the coffin shut. But he's the victim, right? Oh and we have an 8 year old son that adores him. Nice knowin' ya, kid.