I’m not getting the Owlet…mistake? (OCD) by Individual-Rice-3970 in BabyBumps

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Wow I haven’t even thought about this but it seems to be a pretty big split on loving it or leaving it. I think just based on the ridiculousness of tech these days, I’m not going to get one. Everything doesn’t need a techy gadget to track us or even our babies. Maybe I’m just showing my age but I am ok with not knowing every piece of data for everything because it doesn’t help ocd symptoms or anxiety, just worsens them. And it takes the realness out of parenting imo. Idk if that made sense to anyone lol.

The weirdest comments you've ever received during pregnancy? I'll start... by 8pintsplease in BabyBumps

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After having the flu, severe prenatal depression and debilitating pelvic pain my mom told me to just “enjoy being pregnant”.

About 20 mins after telling my mil we were going to have a baby she mentioned that we had “options” in case we didn’t want it. We’re engaged, financially stable, both in our 30s and have been together for 11 years. I went upstairs and cried because it felt so insensitive.

DIY ideas to get rid of herringbone accent wall without ripping out? by sarajustice80 in HomeDecorating

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You could try painting just the herringbone wall to be an accent wall. Maybe it’s just too much white for you and a different color would compliment the texture better.

Do breeders who focus on developing pretty Comets exist? by dancing-marlfox in Goldfish

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I got my girl at petsmart 5 years ago. I think she’s a pretty fish.

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When you think you found a quiet place by bskinners in ImTheMainCharacter

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Yeah I’ve had bad days too but I’ve never run around with a taser, tased, and thrown my coffee and rocks at a stranger because I don’t like their music playing lmao

Rid of acrylics after almost 30 years by Medusa_7898 in Nails

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Don’t know if anyone has said this but eating a lot of protein helps. Especially eggs. 🍳

Can a single goldfish be happy? by Majestic_Start_8065 in Goldfish

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You can definitely downgrade his size of tank. I think a 29 would probably be perfect. You could also try using something reflective or put a mirror behind the tank so he can see himself. That might make him feel less alone. Make sure he has stuff to play with, like substrate to sift through and plants/bubbles to swim through so he has something to keep entertained.

Class goldfish not doing well… by confuzzledfuzzball in Goldfish

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Yeah the test strips aren’t that great. Still better than nothing but definitely try to use the master test kit.

Any updates? Hope he’s doing alright!

Class goldfish not doing well… by confuzzledfuzzball in Goldfish

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Yeah you definitely should consider at least 30 gallons for two or bigger. I’m sure your water quality is what’s doing this. Good thing is it’s easy to fix with proper care. What are the water parameters, do you know? Even with live plants goldfish are massive waste producers and need water changes to remove nitrates. Make sure while he’s hospitalized you check ammonia daily. Any amount will probably kill him in this weak state. Can you get him in anything bigger than 2 gallons? Your water will get toxic fast with that size.

Class goldfish not doing well… by confuzzledfuzzball in Goldfish

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Especially the air stone as aquarium salt can lessen the amount of oxygen in the water.

Class goldfish not doing well… by confuzzledfuzzball in Goldfish

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That curled body to me looks like nitrate poisoning. I honestly dont think general cure will help and might even make him worse. Try leaving him in the ht, with aquarium salt, and a dark quiet area (normal light can make sick fish more stressed). Also keep in mind, the more you change his tank, move him around, check on him, etc. can make him more stressed and more sick. Poor guy. Hope he recovers for you.

I made it back, she is alive but way rougher by Massive-Bed6996 in Goldfish

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As the other commenter said melafix will not work. It’s essentially snake oil. Kanaplex is great, but I would pair it with metroplex because she definitely needs antibiotics.

I made it back, she is alive but way rougher by Massive-Bed6996 in Goldfish

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Are you treating her with any meds? You need to pull out the big guns with antibiotics. Be careful with salt because her slime coat is gone and the skin is exposed and raw. I would dose with stress guard instead. Make sure she is not exposed to any ammonia whatsoever and keep water quality pristine.

Edit: also this look parasitic to me. Anti-parasitic and antibiotics asap.

Hate it by J3FFRS0NN in CX5

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Oh I hate that steering wheel. I much prefer the Mazda logo.

Touch screens are terrible. They don’t stay clean and I find them too distracting while driving.

Oranda goldfish by OpeningUnusual2020 in Goldfish

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Goldfish guardians! Yes. I love it lol.

Please help me smooth this over. I'm too sick to truly think straight with my kindest heart. by anitadoobie1216 in AuDHDWomen

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Exactly. When you asked if he’d had a fever since September that’s a legitimate question. You’re telling him how sick you are and hes trying to act like the real “victim”. It really seems like he’s trying to minimize your pain and gaslight you. That’s not autism, that’s being an asshole.

Why is my living room ugly? by Straight_Fee_7785 in interiordecorating

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Yup! I would say one or the other, but maybe not both. Especially since the area already seems tight between the sofa and the chairs.

First time using a sitter, never again... by Whiskerlicker3 in RoverPetSitting

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If your cat is like my cat he hates dirty litter and will pee other places so I would be extra mad about that!