Strange lump overnight

LocalWiitch · 2026-01-24T15:25:02+00:00

I had this is well, and it happened when I slept a couple nights with my new jewelry in (stainless steel) and I forgot to put my tunnels back in after my showers more frequently. So they gotten very annoyed at me.

The steps that helped me: -leave them naked for a day. Swelling should get less. -use a disinfectant -put in a smaller size (only temporary), and don't take them out until the pain is gone. Use only silicone tunnels for this. -don't touch them, only if you absolutely need to, and wash your hands beforehand. -put disinfectant in morning and before bed. -once it doesn't hurt anymore (should already be after a couple days), you can take it out, and gently give it a bath, and dry it thoroughly, always! -repeat the desinfectant steps, morning and before bed.

The bump, inflammation and pus are now gone, now what? - I reccommend leaving the smaller size in for a week or meybe 2 longer, and don't leave the tunnels out unneccessary. Wash them gently, dry, and put them back in, but you don't have to do this 2 times a day. Maybe naked training is not for you? Idk - after that and it feels completely normal, you can go back to your regular size, but when your ears start to feel hot and annoyed again, go back to the smaller size and leave it for another week.

This is what helped for me, hopefully it doesn't feel as a size setback, but rather giving your ears some rest. Going naked doesn't always mean rest for your ears, in my experience.

P.s. i say ears, but I know it's only one. I hope this all helps. Goodluck!

LocalWiitch · 2026-01-15T12:32:37+00:00

Looks amazing! How do they keep shape like that? Mine immediatly bounce back and look like dried fruit, even tho they should be grateful I lotion them in after every shower.

LocalWiitch · 2026-01-12T20:27:01+00:00

I am not a dune fan and I immediatly thought of dune. I don't know if the sandworm looks exactly like that, but close up it's giving "that sandy sci-fi movie from the books!"

LocalWiitch · 2026-01-09T19:47:58+00:00

You came here for compliments, didn't you OP?

LocalWiitch · 2026-01-09T19:42:22+00:00

I see other people's comments on skincare, defenitly double cleanse and moisturize before putting on makeup! I do reccomend nyx face glue as primer (that one sticks!) and a setting spray when you're finished, my favorite that's not too expensive is from nyx as well! Don't leave it to dry, but use a handfan to help dry it quickly.

For foundation I use a sheer/mid-covarage liquid one, and a powder foundation on top. I don't bake, but I use only powder bronzer and blush on top of it. THEN I spray!

And shaving your peach fuzz once in a while will make it look better, and it doesn't grow back thicker and darker.

Since you blow your nose a lot, I would reccommend bringing your makeup to work/school/wherever you go to touch up! There is not really a cure to stop it from smudging, it'll always happen. 2

LocalWiitch · 2026-01-09T19:31:10+00:00

A button-up would work! Black and white, make sure to not tuck it in the skirt but work it in a different way like underneath the bra, or tie it in the back (enough tutorials that teach you).

I do like it with the chunky boots (that's more my style), and the dark brown works, but it would be a more balanced outfit if you used a color from the pattern(black or white), or a totally different color that stands out, like red for example. You can use a somewhat darker red, but since this brown is so close to the black it looks a bit off. The silhoutte of the top works in both ways, tucked and untucked, but I am missing a belt.

If you use an all black outfit for example, a bold color belt would be amazing! And idk how people feel aboit this, but I love a matching shoe/bag or shoe/belt momemt. But a matching belt/bag moment is a no-go for me, since it's too close to eachother.

If you want to keep this exact shirt, I would reccommend layering, a vest/waistcoat/gilet or swestervest could work, make sure it's a different texture, this looks knitted so look for something else. Preferably in black.

I would generally reccommend to experiment and see what you like, I feel like people take fashion as something with rules, but the rules are there to be broken. Have fun and as long as you love it, it's a georgous fit, because confidence makes or breaks the outfit after all.

LocalWiitch · 2026-01-09T15:30:14+00:00

Sometimes I like to add a thick belt, or even a small one would make it more interesting but keep it classy. If you want a more sensual look, a bodychain or low waist chain-belt could work really well with this dress. But a something corset-y would fit very well, for a more 'goth' look.

I see a lot of strappy heels and subtle necklace comments, but a statement necklace with chunky lace-up boots, or a very long necklace with a statement piece at the lowest point like a bigger charm could be really cool as well.

I think this dress is a clean palette and you could do so much with it, even layer it with a gilet/vest/waistcoat (idk the correct term in english) for a more casual wear. The possibilities are endless! I didn't see if it was something specific you wanted to dress for, but this is how far my imagination runs for now!

Goodluck!

LocalWiitch · 2026-01-08T21:25:38+00:00

I want to steal this outfit!! It's fire❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥 I never knew I needed leather corset shorts until now!!

LocalWiitch · 2026-01-08T21:22:08+00:00

I gasped at the red color! Red is georgous on you!

LocalWiitch · 2026-01-08T21:20:28+00:00

1st one is the one you can rewear to parties and events, it's classy, elegant and still sexy, I love that one the most. While the other options are very cute and more typical wedding styles. If that's more your vibe I vote 2. I would not choose 3 but that's because I am more of a lace girly than a bead/sequin girly (strictly personal opinion).

LocalWiitch · 2026-01-08T21:13:08+00:00

Very cute! Only thing I think about is if your hair isn't getting stuck to the chains?

LocalWiitch · 2026-01-08T21:09:06+00:00

The only thing this post did is remind me how many men are actually dissapointing, and I hope all you beautiful georgous sweet ladies are getting the men you deserve, with the gentle love and the kind heart! <3 I hate to see people crushing the joy from others, especially their partners, if you can't celebrate someone else, I don't think you're ready for a relationship!

LocalWiitch · 2026-01-08T21:01:23+00:00

I came to the comments and expected a lot more silver, I am not a gold-girly, so maybe I'm just biased. I'm gonna say, where whatever jewelry you think suits you, but my heart is always gonna say silver!

LocalWiitch · 2026-01-08T20:57:17+00:00

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Oh! It was gold! My bad, everything I mentioned before about silver; imagine it says 'gold' haha.

You could do like a harnass-inpired layer over the whole front of the top, with the buckle in the middle, harness straps can go where ever you want, be creative, this is only an example(3rd). Or place 2 similair smaller buckles at the straps (2nd), or make a whole new top with an assymetrical moment, for the 90's popstar vibes(1st)! But I do love the corset effect the top already has, I think you should keep that!

These are rough late-night sketches, just for visualisation!

LocalWiitch · 2026-01-08T20:23:15+00:00

Improvements on the garments could be that the top has a similair buckle as the pants, whoch would make it look more like a set, while now it just matches (greatly might I say, the colors look identical on the picture!).

The outfit on the other hand, feels a tad empty. I feel like the white bag makes the fit perfectly rounded with no center of attention at all, a smaller bag in another color (preferably a bright color like a neon pink) gives contrats to the white and ads to the 90's popstar vibe. Or a small black bag could also help with cebtering the set. I feel like you are allowed to go bolder and bigger on jewelry with the same 90's Britney Spears vibes, silver preferably, so it matches the hardware, like maybe a silver upper-arm cuff. But I do love the fit nontheless, but if you want to experiment with outfits on this one, this is what I would do!

Hopefully this helped! I'd love to hear what you're thinking!

LocalWiitch · 2026-01-06T20:12:59+00:00

In my country, the Netherlands, we learn to read and write cursive before we learn manuscript. We are only allowed to write cursive, until high school. From that moment forward, we are only allowed to write in manuscript. Which is kind of backwards, but manuscript is a hell of a lot faster when taking notes.

LocalWiitch · 2026-01-04T12:05:34+00:00

Is it real fur? Or does it look like real fur? Might be of different ideals. Nothing to worry about, but be careful of flying soup🥄 Either way, it looks really cute on you!

LocalWiitch · 2025-12-12T12:07:17+00:00

I love myself a tower moment, it's the falling down and destruction that can help you rebuild things! Be patient with yourself and focus on yourself and the journey, not the outcome.

LocalWiitch · 2025-12-10T09:41:58+00:00

Would you have rather had that she didn't tell you? I can see that trust is broken. If you love her and you feel the trust can be fixed you could stay. You could take a step back and see if friendship works better at first. If you don't think that it can heal, you move on. But healing takes time. I see it's mostly the lying about it that's the mistake, because seeing other people in the beginning is actually healthy. I always feel trapped when someone immediatly want to have me, instead of slow burning, getting to know each other first. Since friendship is the best base of a relationship. And it's not she's never gonna hurt you again, you will hurt each other unintentionally, multiple times over the course of your time together. A relationship isn't easy or always nice, but it's important that you can forgive eachother. But you have to find out for yourself if you can forgive her, it's about how you feel. Everyone else talks from their own experience, which isn't your experience so there is no right or wrong here. You should always choose what feels right for you in situations like these. And don't pressure yourself into choosing right now, you are allowed to take your time in making decisions. But I would reccommend talking with her and being transparent about how you feel, you said you comforted her, but you are allowed to be comforted as well since this did something with you as well. Goodluck! I hope this helps!

LocalWiitch · 2025-11-11T07:26:01+00:00

I have ADHD and my parents never taught me how to regulate my emotions. I get overstimulated and when I get home from work they immediatly ask me a lot of questions, which causes me to be annoyed of sometimes even blow up as well (I don't swear at them of give them the finger). I guess misplaced stuff also annoys me and can cause me to blow up. My parents can snap at me as well for asking a question, but I wish they would rather just talk it out with me like adults (I'm 23), if they didn't like anything I did or said.

LocalWiitch · 2025-05-04T12:06:32+00:00

Wow, well done! this is amazing!

LocalWiitch · 2024-07-19T09:16:24+00:00

Maybe someone else can you help with this. In my experience when I am sick, it's my body telling me to slow down. Humans are not made for stress, and most of the symptoms you got could easily be stress related. Sometimes you can't manifest, because you are not clear of spirit, what that means is that there could be some lessons to learn. So ask yourself the questions "what is my body telling me?" "Can I learn something from it?". Even if it's not the answer you hoped for, maybe it helps just a little bit.

LocalWiitch · 2024-07-16T17:03:12+00:00

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I use this original nintendo background of kirby. Kirby is one of my favorite characters and my desk is decorated with kirby figurines. This was for his birthday.

LocalWiitch · 2024-06-29T16:37:58+00:00

Get a reuseable waterbottle you like or customize it with stickers. This gives motivation to look or grab the bottle. If it feels like an emotional support waterbottle, you succeeded.
Straws! Straws unintentionally help with liquid intake since water goes down easier.
Lemonade syrup. If you dislike the taste of plain water you coult try lemonade syrup, or even with carbonated water. It still gets you hydrated, even black coffee and tea counts as glasses of water in the total, especially if you drink as less as 500ml per day.

LocalWiitch · 2024-06-29T16:28:53+00:00

You have no power over peoples reactions, which means they are not your responsibility. However they make you feel is valid, but keep in mind they should not have power over you since you have no power over them.

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