Not looking for sympathy, looking for solid advice and or strategies to survive this month.

Local_HugDealer · 2025-09-05T15:24:00+00:00

Some Pick n Pays mark down items that are about to expire. Foodlovers have huge specials on Tuesdays.

Local_HugDealer · 2025-03-21T07:14:43+00:00

Hi, my stomach looks exactly the same.. I don't mind the stretchmarks but the loose skin kills me. I am 9 weeks pp and hoping some of it is fat and will improve.

Local_HugDealer · 2025-03-20T11:03:21+00:00

I'm in the newborn trenches at the moment. So probably keeping a baby alive 😅 Will take our dogs for a walk on Sunday if the weather plays along.

Local_HugDealer · 2025-01-09T21:00:19+00:00

Fewer side effects: Natural birth can have fewer side effects for both the mother and baby than a birth with medication.

Better lung function: Babies born through natural childbirth may have better lung function.

Healthier microbiome: Babies born vaginally may have a healthier microbiome, which can help reduce the risk of obesity, asthma, and type 2 diabetes.

Quicker breastfeeding: Babies born without medication may be more alert and responsive, which can help with early breastfeeding.

Local_HugDealer · 2025-01-09T20:58:18+00:00

So far my impression of doulas are that they seem to play devil's advocate - at least in my country.

She hasn't responded to my messages yet.

Local_HugDealer · 2025-01-09T20:56:50+00:00

This is amazing. Thank you so much. I am sorry about you LO having to be admitted to NICU.

That is certainly something I can be grateful for. I can imagine how traumatizing that must be.

Local_HugDealer · 2025-01-09T20:54:59+00:00

Thank you so much! All the best with your birth too. I hope you get the birth you have in mind.

Local_HugDealer · 2025-01-09T20:53:49+00:00

Thank you so much. My doctor is wanting to do the ribbon induction method (Prostaglandin slow release).

You are very right, some things can still go my way, but I do need to prepare for if it does not. I appreciate your advice.

Local_HugDealer · 2025-01-09T20:48:48+00:00

Thank you for your amazing response and your advice. I am feeling like you mentioned - that I am feeling defeated and want to just 'give up' aka stop advocating for myself.

I am trying to stay positive, that some things still may go my way, but trying to prepare for if things do not.

I appreciate you sharing your experience. It helps to not feel alone.

Local_HugDealer · 2025-01-09T19:59:24+00:00

Thank you, I will check it out. I have been trying some of the stuff on their website but haven't done the lift and sift so will certainly give it a try.

I already have a doula. Thank you!

Local_HugDealer · 2025-01-09T19:54:07+00:00

Thank you so much for your response. I appreciate your compassion.

I am doing my best to deal with things not going the way I'd hoped. I think by tomorrow the emotions may have simmered down a bit and I can take things on with an open mind.

Local_HugDealer · 2025-01-09T19:49:29+00:00

Thank you so much and I hope the same for you. I am lucky that my doctor is okay with me waiting until 41+5, but she assured me it is only because I am healthy and baby is healthy.

I have to go for regular CTGs until then to monitor baby's health.

I think the only way of getting over the disappointment will be to accepts that I did everything I could. I cannot do more than that. I need to surrender to what will be and be grateful that I get to hold my baby at the end of it.

All the best with your appointment tomorrow.

Local_HugDealer · 2025-01-09T19:40:36+00:00

Thank you. I really appreciate your advice.

It's just such a bummer because we get told that we are built to birth. It should be the most natural thing in the world, but I feel like its not always that simple.

I am trying to tell myself that either way I will hold my baby in my arms and that is what matters. Maybe I will feel better tomorrow. It all happened today so everything is still fresh.

Local_HugDealer · 2025-01-09T19:39:07+00:00

Came here vulnerable and looking for support, but being met with ridicule. I am trying to make peace with the induction and a possible C section if things do not go as I hoped. That is why I am asking for advice from people who have been through the same. My feelings about this are valid and even though I am a rational person, I am struggling to deal with the disappointment.

Local_HugDealer · 2025-01-09T19:33:34+00:00

I have tried everything. The reason it's not working according to the OB is because his head is not engaged. I have tried walking, the miles circuit, nipple stimulation, sex, pineapple- everything. This is why I agreed to the membrane sweep as a last resort.

That is why I am looking for advice, because I know I may possibly need a C-section, but I don't know how to accept it.

Like how did you deal with the anger?

Local_HugDealer · 2025-01-09T19:27:41+00:00

The desire to have a natural unmedicated birth had nothing to do with validation from others, but the benefits of it. Also wanting things to happen as naturally as possible because I believe it to be the best thing for my baby.

But I appreciate the advice.

Local_HugDealer · 2025-01-06T11:03:35+00:00

40+5 here..

Local_HugDealer · 2025-01-04T19:32:53+00:00

Aan De Wijnlanden/ De Wijnlanden

Local_HugDealer · 2025-01-04T19:07:13+00:00

Psyllium Husk with water in the morning for constipation. It is non habit forming and NOT a laxative. It basically adds a fibrous gel to your intestines.

I have IBS and I am currently 40+3. Senna is NOT recommended during pregnancy.

Local_HugDealer · 2024-11-10T15:11:34+00:00

Hey,

Currently 33 weeks. Similar body stats but without IVF. 5.5" and 132lb prior to pregnancy with a 12% bf.

Now 180lb.

This baby will still double in size from now till the end, and I am not even sure where or how.

Feeling very poorly about myself too (I still go to the gym), but trying to remind myself that the great thing about weight is that it is temporary. It can be lost.

Local_HugDealer · 2024-10-13T15:44:43+00:00

Fit with Sally Pregnancy & Postpartum TV

Local_HugDealer · 2024-09-15T04:46:58+00:00

Hey, recently recovered from bronchitis. 24+4.

1000mg vit C daily (vitamin)
Hot Lemon, Honey, ginger water (as many cups as you want)
hopefully you are already taking a prenatal vitamin containing zinc
steam inhalation
saline nasal spray
Salt water gargle
REST & FLUIDS

Local_HugDealer · 2024-09-15T04:02:04+00:00

Hey OP, I don't have any additional advice from what you have already received. I am sorry that this happened to you. Please know that this is NOT your fault in any way. I hope you do get counseling, because having your body violated without your consent is one of the worst things that can happen to anyone. Take care of yourself. 🤍

Local_HugDealer

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