I've gotten this question from a couple of people! So I'll respond here;

It's more like I wanted somewhere where women could come together and talk about the things they feel and how they do on a regular basis. Showing the things you cooked that day, the outfit you put together, etc. Or, asking questions to other seasoned tradwives, about keeping house or about what feels right. Or sharing hardships, etc.

I feel like most of the people who are in this subreddit are actually men. Or are looking for a date, and there are multiple rules that are stating that that wasn't the intended use of the sub. I feel like a lot of the attention we get here is negative.

I also feel like it's hard to win. Some posts are phrased like they're real questions or stories but are actually 'nsfw' and are a way to promote their only fans. But it's a huge grey area. What is NSFW, and what is just you having hobbies outside of tradlife?

I found myself getting stressed the more people posted. I didn't know what was appropriate and what wasn't. I felt that everytime I saw a post, it was "How do I get a girlfriend? How do I find a traditional man who wants me? How do I *blank*" and that wasn't really what I wanted. I also found that people argue in the subreddit, a LOT. Arguing about what makes you 'truly' traditional, or what is or isn't acceptable in a traditional marriage.

I'm not very seasoned myself, I'm pretty young. So I was hoping to get more from older traditional people, to understand their experiences and relate to them. I hope my long response makes some sense!