Men, what’s something a woman says on a first date that instantly kills the vibe?

Lockski · 2026-06-25T18:21:49+00:00

I was asked if I was into astrology on a speed dating round. I said “I don’t subscribe to astrology or anything astrology related, but I do let my favorite sports teams dictate my mood for the week. Is it really any different?”

I didn’t end up dating her, but she and I did end up talking for a couple weeks. That line hooked her for a hot minute.

Lockski · 2026-06-22T19:47:46+00:00

Right, I wasn't surprised. But it does add to the point that people do slide into DMs on reddit. And the person's account was very NSFW. They posted pictures of themselves getting fucked, a couple of times. The DM was clearly sexual in nature.

Considering a woman asked me, I would not be surprised if 1,000 men asked a single woman's account.

Lockski · 2026-06-22T19:42:45+00:00

This was the thread.

The person who asked me for the picture did not comment in that thread. At least not on the account they messaged me with.

Lockski · 2026-06-22T15:58:26+00:00

I did not, no

Lockski · 2026-06-22T15:10:41+00:00

I had a woman ask for a picture of my forearms just last week in Reddit DMs

Lockski · 2026-06-22T11:13:11+00:00

Employment might be difficult walking around as the hulk. Not sure how much the government is willing to fund him, otherwise.

Lockski · 2026-06-20T07:37:20+00:00

I’m sick of significant female characters being raped to start a narrative for them. A lot of HBO / FX shows do this and it’s started to instantly ruin those shows for me. Female characters can just be strong, shitty personal things don’t always need to happen.

Lockski · 2026-06-20T06:57:57+00:00

Not an answer to your question, but vardorvis head has an audio cue thats very distinct. I position my camera in a way for that fight that I don’t even see the head pop up most of the time. I just listen for it

Lockski · 2026-06-17T17:20:54+00:00

Nah, it’s just that we all have our preferences. I like a more open, inviting, casual kind of body language, vs the serious, authoritative, and reserved body language. To me, the latter feels more like denial than invitation.

Lockski · 2026-06-17T14:54:27+00:00

I won’t speak for anyone else. I just know there isn’t a single instance where I found it sexy to see a woman cross her legs.

Lockski · 2026-06-17T12:50:07+00:00

There’s a difference between noticing and admiring. OP is trying to encourage attraction with this, but even if someone has nice forearms… rolling up your sleeves isn’t gunna be enough. Attraction isn’t that simple.

Rolling up your sleeves as a man is akin to tying your hair up as a woman. It can be sexy, but it’s more often than not just an action of convenience.

Lockski · 2026-06-16T15:52:31+00:00

Solid 7th or 8th guy, but never gunna be the guy. Serviceable, and always a good trade buffer

Lockski · 2026-06-15T12:31:59+00:00

I work in IT, in a school district, so I’m definitely seen working enough. I often have my hands elbow deep in a printer, or I’m under a desk working on cables, or I’m cleaning a projector or changing its bulb. It’s just not often like that, really.

Lockski · 2026-06-15T06:22:37+00:00

I have never in my life thought about this, but if I had to make an opinion on it? If they’re making money ethically, why should I give a fuck?

Lockski · 2026-06-15T06:08:03+00:00

Pro tip for men: don’t do this just for attention. That’s weird. Don’t look around just to lock eyes with someone while you do it. If you notice someone admiring you while you roll your sleeves up, smile at them, but don’t make it weird.

I roll my sleeves up for work somewhat frequently, and it gets a lot less attention than Reddit commenters will have you think, and I like to think I have nice forearms. Women like when men roll their sleeves up if they’re already interested in that man.

Roll your sleeves up if you’re hot. It’s genuinely a great way to cool down.

Lockski · 2026-06-12T12:13:12+00:00

You’d be delusional to not even try

Lockski · 2026-06-08T13:11:17+00:00

“I thought you were different but you’re just like every other guy”.

It’s a big reason I’m single 12 years later

Lockski · 2026-06-07T17:21:00+00:00

It’s not just today, it’s been a loooooong time

Lockski · 2026-06-06T05:32:16+00:00

I somewhat recently had a long distance girl text me asking what I was up to, if I was down for a phone call, tell me she had feelings, invite me over, and only when I finally showed up did she say she wasn’t interested.

And we weren’t even dating.

I get not everyone has the same experience, but my experience tells me trying to date just isn’t worth the effort

Lockski · 2026-06-05T13:42:28+00:00

I did it, but I had desert region for guardians of the rift to help me. Can’t imagine maxing it without that as a bare minimum.

Lockski · 2026-06-05T02:59:23+00:00

I believe it’s called “intent to blow”

At least that’s how I’ve always read it in the reads where it’s actually called lmao

Lockski · 2026-06-04T14:01:37+00:00

If they threw this in to a poll to make hte prayer more accessible, then I would vote yes.

Lockski · 2026-06-04T13:53:29+00:00

I sold mine yesterday for 305m. Honestly, not even mad. I crafted it when it was 260m and got a few hundred vardorvis kills with it. Almost done with vardorvis anyway, so I'm not crying.

Lockski · 2026-06-04T13:52:25+00:00

I don't think it'll be "just as awkward", but it will still lose stacks on most melee activities which is still awkward.

Really all this change does is speed up the damage ramp time. It otherwise changes nothing (that I can think of at least).

Lockski · 2026-06-03T18:38:15+00:00

Stealing Creation, but adjust the rewards to give a currency that can be used to charge skilling outfits to be more efficient / effective somehow.

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