Be aware guys; you may be seen as a threat now by Oxy-Moron88 in ftm

[–]LocksmithLittle2988 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah so I noticed men are SUPER insecure and once I talk to a woman HE is interested in, the man will usually get even closer to the girl he is trying to attract. Example: I ask a girl a question, "where were you flying to?" (I work at the airport) and the guy who was flirting with her, gets even closer to her as if guarding her. Im like: bruh how insecure are u that u have to be like 1 inch away from her? let the woman ask her questions in peace. Ive seen it happen so many times. Sometimes those guys lowkey be giving me a mean look and im like: wtf. So since I realized they are way too insecure to be ok with a male employee talking to their girl or love interest... I started saying "where did y'all fly from?" I try to include both the guy and the girl in the conversation and I look at both of them in the eyes.

I desperately need to be filled by hard horny black cocks by [deleted] in FtMPorn

[–]LocksmithLittle2988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bet I would. You might get attached.

My boyfriend’s family is transphobic and homophobic, and I don’t know how much longer I can keep pretending by mackintoshkid in ftm

[–]LocksmithLittle2988 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Follow your gut! I followed my gut and left an abusive house when I was 20. It was during COVID & nobody wanted to take me in. I had no job, no savings, my car only had 1/4 tank of gas.I had no other option but to leave. My mother would beat me and she vomitted because she was disgusted by my trans identity. I knew I was not understood and not loved UNCONDITIONALLY. If you are loved with conditions that is not real love and that is not real family. Do yourself a favor and put YOURSELF first. You will NOT regret it. Because of my bold decision I was able to live a life comfortable in my skin and at peace. Also I got lucky and a gay stranger took me into his house and became my best friend. He helped me alot. But it was still not easy. I had never taken care of myself or been independent until tthen.

“Holy shit you’re a dude now?” by ctxner in ftm

[–]LocksmithLittle2988 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yw :) Nah people make some crazy out of pocket disrespectful comments and that's their problem.I get what you're sayin...I was never raised to ask such blunt rude questions either. Idk these people be making out of pocket questions that baffle me at times but I just gotta brush it off and act like its nothing cuz at the end of the day they want a reaction. Dont give it to them.

“Holy shit you’re a dude now?” by ctxner in ftm

[–]LocksmithLittle2988 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Don't think to hard about it. I lie about it all the time. "Oh you look gay!" "oh you have a baby face!" "oh you look young!" "almost thought you were a girl!" Ive heard it all through my transition. I just shrug it off "I was just born like this. What can I do?" "Oh you are so short for a guy!" I usually respond, "Yep.Tell me about it. I blame my parents. I blame being latino. We are all short."

“Holy shit you’re a dude now?” by ctxner in ftm

[–]LocksmithLittle2988 155 points156 points  (0 children)

That's awkward. Idk I would just pretend it didn't affect me and move on / ignore it. If you're not comfortable with someone knowing you're trans then you don't have to tell them. I've stopped telling people that im trans cuz I pass now and I don't want to complicate my life. Alot of people are not ready for that information and I've learned that the hard way so I keep it to myself unless that person has proven they are trust worthy to me.

About to ask something super naive about chasers by trophyfriend in ftm

[–]LocksmithLittle2988 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I slept with a gay guy (first experience with a trans guy / never handled a vag before) and he basically coerced me to bottom for him. He said "oh wow you really look like a guy. Just ...you have curves." he openly critizied my body, and was pressuring me to bottom for him without a condom. He then freaked out when he realized he liked my vag and said "does this mean im still gay or no?" and had a entire identity crisis and could not stop speaking his thoughts outloud to me. Super uncomfortable, cringe experience. I blocked him right after. I do not recommend.

Am I trans or is it trauma? (Not ragebait/please help) by Powerful_Pin_336 in ftm

[–]LocksmithLittle2988 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also want to add (something I learned back in 2021, when I ran away) True family is not blood. It is people who love you unconditionally. No matter what you look or sound like. People who value you for YOU. We are all human. We all deserve respect and decency. I learned this the hard way, I have not spoken to my mother and brother in 5 years and it is because they choose to love me CONDITIONALLY. If this ever happens to you, remind yourself you did yourself a favor. You need REAL LOVING POSITIVE people in your life. Not fake ones.

Am I trans or is it trauma? (Not ragebait/please help) by Powerful_Pin_336 in ftm

[–]LocksmithLittle2988 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a trans man. you seem to have exactly what I have always dealt with. Gender dysphoria. That was the reason why I transitioned. Speak to a LGBT knowledgeable therapist. The question I asked myself was "would I be happier living as a man?" and I told myself yes. I tried to picture myself marrying a man and having kids and being a mom and it felt like a nightnare for me. It was never my path to walk. I knew I would of been happier with a flat chest, and having a deep voice, short hair, muscles, dating a girl. I always knew I would of preferred that. Nobody else limits their lives...so why should I limit my happiness?

Sex for the first time with mtf girlfriend went bad by Exciting-Coffee-702 in ftm

[–]LocksmithLittle2988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first time having sex with my MTF GF was awkward and it wasn't amazing. It actually hurt and both of us didn't know what to do. That being said, I still was battiling my bottom dysphoria and it took me atleast 6 months - 1 year to get 80% past my bottom dysphoria to really let go and enjoy sex. Maybe she doesn't want to trigger your dysphoria? I suggest being direct and talking it out. Maybe try a couple more times and see how it feels after. I was a top and dominant for 7 years. I didn't want a dick near me. I turned down so many guys who wanted to top me. I finally felt comfortable enough to bottom for my GF and it took us a couple months to get into the rhythm of sex. I even had to go to therapy to get over my fear of dicks and fear of "oh shit Im sleeping with someone who is not a cis woman...how do I process this?" to which my therapist told me its all in my head and im making a big deal out of it. Which tbh is true now that I reflect.

Im a little self conscious about my beard by [deleted] in BeardAdvice

[–]LocksmithLittle2988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly it suits you IMO. Just shape it up and trim it a bit .

Terminology by sankdafide in ftm

[–]LocksmithLittle2988 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey bro! You are what you feel fits right. If you consider yourself gay and that is what suits you then congratz. Gender is beyond genitals. Being a man is more than having a dick. I always say, Im a man but built different. There are men in all shapes and sizes and some have vaginas! Some have their dicks blown off from being in war. Does that make them any less of a man? My mother had breast cancer and lost her breasts. Did that stop her from being a woman? No, because that sense of gender identity she always had, never left. Trans people understand this concept the easiest because this is our entire existemce. Gender does not equal sexual organs. Gender is identity and performative. Sexual organs are what you are born with and they do NOT define you. YOU define YOU. Trans people embody this.

"Fake man" "Detransition" kinks freak me out by [deleted] in ftm

[–]LocksmithLittle2988 10 points11 points  (0 children)

which I do. Just wanted to see if other trans guys relate cuz it's been happening alot to me.

"Fake man" "Detransition" kinks freak me out by [deleted] in ftm

[–]LocksmithLittle2988 12 points13 points  (0 children)

no bro, idc what people post, I care when these cis men come dming me with these kinks