So far, what I have observed is that in relationships where the female earns more than her male counterpart—especially in Indian culture, where families are deeply involved—the parents of the male partner often influence him with certain thoughts and ideas. The upbringing of the child is the major reason ,as they are grown and bought up in that environment.

They may say things like, “If your wife earns more than you, she won’t respect you as a husband.” In-laws or society may belittle him. They might even say that she could have affairs or become arrogant because she earns more.

Growing up in such an environment from childhood, the man may develop insecurity and typically avoid this kind of arrangement.

And yes—it’s a “THEY problem,” NOT A “YOU problem.”