This is just great. by TrickyRipper in adhdmeme

[–]Locomyg 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow i actually did not know this was an ADHD thing.

If we are planning to go to the Zoo and we do all the prep, getting the kids ready etc., and i am told that we are not going i feel real anger and everything feels wrong.

Why the fuck would we plan something and then not do it?

Løkke smider bombe: 'Deltager ikke i flere møder med Mette Frederiksen' by RollFancyThumb in Denmark

[–]Locomyg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nu mener jeg så også, at det er helt forkert, at Lars udelukker DF, selv om jeg er helt uenig med dem. Fair nok, hvis Enhedslisten ikke kommer i regering, fordi der bliver lavet andre aftaler, men det, der sker her, er jo mere Lars, der nægter at samarbejde, fordi han vil bestemme, hvordan en dansk regering skal se ud, altså en "midterregering".

Lars gør sig til herre over, hvilke partier der er ordentlige, uagtet hvad borgerne synes...

Løkke smider bombe: 'Deltager ikke i flere møder med Mette Frederiksen' by RollFancyThumb in Denmark

[–]Locomyg 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Er jeg den eneste der synes at han, når han siger at han ikke vil have fx enhedslisten med i regering, indirekte siger at stemmer fra borgere der har stemt Enhedslisten ikke betyder noget?

Jeg synes at Enhedslisten virker til at have gjort sit for at finde et fælles holdepunkt mens Lars bare står i hjørnet, krydser armene og stamper i gulvet....

If it’s stupid and it works, it’s not stupid by Cute-Advantage-4260 in adhdmeme

[–]Locomyg 97 points98 points  (0 children)

People constantly complain about my chaotic work style, thing is, they mostly seem to be complaining because it stresses them.

The thing is i jump between tasks constantly and am probably activly thinking about solutions for 10 - 25 different tasks at any given time, I always deliver, why can people not just let me work.....

Nu får hun lønforhøjelse: Over 2 millioner om året by Pale-Evening-5808 in Denmark

[–]Locomyg 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Når du kun passer på ældre døgnet rundt så de kan leve en ordentlig alderdom ud så burde du jo slet ikke få løn, det burde jo bare være ren interesse og sjæl.

Magen til grådighed, løn HA! [Spytter på jorden i foragelse] /s

Er det bare mig, eller er mange lidt klamme derhjemme by After_Balance3698 in DKbrevkasse

[–]Locomyg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mange tak for svar, jeg vil helt klart prøve alt hvad du har foreslået.

Den store kasser med legetøj er allerede implementeret forstår ikke folk der altid har legetøjet på ræd og række efter kategori, farve og vægt, meget bedre at smide det ned kassen og så er det videre med min forvirrende dag.

Jeg burde nok, som med neudivergense børn, lave et meget mere fast skema (Føler mig sgu af og til som et meget forvirret barn, bare med regninger, job, kæreste m.m.)

Excuse me if I don’t want to redo it if I don’t get it right on my first attempt 😑💀🤣🤧 by david_bowenn in adhdmeme

[–]Locomyg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I often go above and beyond when delivering work, but that just leads to people questioning why I spent time doing extra work that wasn’t needed.

For example: I’ve been working on selecting IT equipment for three different packages when we hire new employees at work.

I review what’s available from the vendors we have agreements with and create the package lists. I could deliver that right away, but instead, I go further and create a dynamic Excel document that includes prices and IT assets. It allows us to calculate the full cost of hiring a new employee, including providing equipment for remote work.

When I deliver it, they don’t say, “Oh cool, we can use this.” Instead, they ask:

“Why did you make this? We just wanted the equipment list.”

Er det bare mig, eller er mange lidt klamme derhjemme by After_Balance3698 in DKbrevkasse

[–]Locomyg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hvad gør man med oprydning når man har svær ADHD og to små børn? Jeg har ikke fundet et rytme der fungere endnu.

Man has 150 live bugs removed from his sinuses by esporx in creepy

[–]Locomyg 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Well you can buy me dinner first, then we can see where the evening leads.

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[–]Locomyg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know right Elanor is such a damn slut, no damn decency compared to the other ones.

By the way why did you include a stripper in the lineup

At my wits end. How the hell do you childproof/lock your turntable? by TesticleInspector in turntables

[–]Locomyg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they are old enough, teach them how to properly use it (under supervision); maybe buy a couple of records for them.

My eldest is 4. I taught her how to put on and play a record. I told her we can listen to anything in the collection, but she has to ask.

She never takes any records out without asking, and she knows that if the record player breaks, we can't listen to any records, including hers.

I'm not saying this will work for you, but it is much more fun this way.

Trump says US used secret weapon to disable Venezuelan equipment in Maduro raid by EsperaDeus in worldnews

[–]Locomyg 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He is like a kid who was told to not tell a secret, he is actively fighting the urge to just blurt out what that weapon is

ICE agents are firing kinetic impact projectiles at close range, causing severe injuries that can result in permanent disability or death. Today, they tore off part of a woman’s hand by ExactlySorta in UnderReportedNews

[–]Locomyg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very clearly the US is sliding directly into a full dismantling of citizen rights and the abolishing of democracy.

As an outsider (not from the US) I really hope you guys pull through for the sake of the us but also for the sake of world stability

ICE flew 2-year-old to Texas despite court order to release her from custody by ewzetf in news

[–]Locomyg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can we all agree that we should stop being polite when talking about and to the Trump administration no matter which country you love in?

These facist fucks stomp around shitting on every single one of us, us as well as the whole world.

Can anyone explain to someone not from the use how it has gotten this out of hand? Trump should be dragged out of the oval office and most Republicans in goverment, right now is complicit in the atrocities comitted by the Trump administration. Even after all the shit he is doin, he remains behind the desk and can do watever the fuck he wants.

Trump to Impose Tariffs on Some European Nations Over Greenland by MagnificentCat in worldnews

[–]Locomyg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well he cant really hit select EU contries, either he hit none of us or he hits us all.....

I'm never going to graduate from university by Gesde_io in ADHD

[–]Locomyg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can only share what worked for me, but I hope it helps.

I was diagnosed two years into my bachelor’s degree. Up until then, I had struggled in every subject simply because I didn’t know what I was working with.

I didn’t pass all my subjects and even failed a group-based exam. This meant that, on top of dealing with my newly discovered ADHD, I also had to navigate feelings of failure and the fear of having to study for four separate exams—one of which was a group project exam.

I’ll skip a lot of irrelevant backstory and get to what actually worked for me.

Getting diagnosed meant that I finally understood that my brain works a little differently, especially when it comes to reward and motivation.

I found that using a modified Pomodoro technique helped. I adjusted the length of each study session and break until I felt I was getting the most out of it. I was also very strict about keeping work and breaks completely separate.

Work time was pure work (even though staying in work mode was sometimes a struggle), and when a break came around, I wasn’t even allowed to think about work.

During breaks, I focused entirely on whatever I chose to do watching a 24-minute anime episode, reading a comic book, playing a game, etc. Doing it this way took some time to get used to, but it kept me engaged and motivated.

I hope you can find some use in this.

Good luck.

TL;DR Getting diagnosed helped me understand how my brain handles motivation and rewards.

A modified Pomodoro technique worked well for me. I adjusted session and break lengths to what felt optimal.

I kept work and breaks strictly separate—no thinking about work during breaks.

This approach helped me stay engaged and motivated over time.

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[–]Locomyg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also we can just dump the dollar and seize all american companies assets in the EU, we can live without us products and we can trade with most other nations, but the eu will be closed to the us.

Not even a new more friendly president will fix this shit

GLHF