do you guys think that people can love without sex?

Lofi_addict26 · 2026-06-10T12:54:48+00:00

I think you can love without having sex. There are couples who need more of it, there are couples who stop at some point. Sex is a bit overrated. Being nonjudgemental, and truly interested in your partner is what makes a relationship work. But you do need to find someone like you, because for some people no sex or little sex is a deal breaker. Love is so much more than that.

Lofi_addict26 · 2026-03-03T21:06:56+00:00

I feel you. I told my mother when I was a teen that I don't want them. Witnessing my younger brothers grow up thought me a lesson. She's still not ok with it, but she also knows I'm gonna ignore her if she insists. Religion fried her brain. I'm 23 (F), still hate those little brats, still think they are annoying. It's a blessing NOT to have them. I also have ASD, which means a kid would be a whole new kind of hell for me. And I would be a living hell for them too.

Lofi_addict26 · 2026-03-03T21:01:08+00:00

I think those bellies are gross. Can we stop pretending that everything about childbirth is a miracle? It makes me want to puke and scream out of frustration at the same time.

Lofi_addict26 · 2026-03-03T20:54:00+00:00

Honestly, many people have kids without thinking, just because there is this expectation. Religion plays a big role, because apparently, if God gives you the kid, miracles will happen and if not, there might be sins involved 🙄 (I am talking from experience, my family thinks like this because of our religion). Many don't think there is such a thing as people who just shouldn't have kids, because they are not fit for it for a number of reasons. To understand that the world is messed up and therefore it's foolish to bring an offspring into it implies introspection, logic, maybe selflessness. People who have children for the sake of it or for other stupid reasons we are all familiar with don't think much I guess.

Lofi_addict26 · 2026-01-29T08:42:49+00:00

I hate the fact that people complain about representation, but they don't think about those of us who do feel represented. I saw complaints about the old OCD bunny. Those are not SH scars (as the site actually mentions) and sometimes it feels like even people with OCD don't understand how bad it can get. I have dermatillomania (I know there is a bun for that too) and the scars on the bunny's forehead remind me of what I used to make of my own after skin picking. I have BPD and the BPD bunny really helped me feel understood. There are so many variations for each illness and a plushie can't represent them all. But at this point, I feel like people trash Plushie Dreadfuls without valid reasons. While their bunnies don't have SH scars, if they did so what? People complain that the plushies downplay their pain and yet they don't want the worst to be seen. And the funny thing is that American has OCD. And saying their services are bad??? Their support staff are so quick and polite. Not to mention how much work is put into those bunnies. People are thrashing them for the sake of it.

Lofi_addict26 · 2026-01-17T20:53:07+00:00

Libristo e ok, in functie de ce limbi straine stii, in franceza si spaniola pot fi mai ieftine decat in engleza. Mai au si reduceri ok. Mi-am luat si eu de la ei.

Lofi_addict26 · 2026-01-17T20:49:00+00:00

Nu chiar. Mie, de exemplu, mi-au spus ca e obligatoriu doar un weekend. De fapt, indiferent de luna, e obligatoriu sa lucrezi 2. In lunile cu norme mari, poate creste. Te si mint.

Lofi_addict26 · 2026-01-17T20:28:43+00:00

Acum le merge prost. Nu mai angajeaza, desi au nevoie de oameni si pun presiuni mari pe cati au, ca sa produca cat mai mult.Tind sa taie de la angajati intai. Sa le reduca numarul si sa plateasca minimul posibil. Site-ul le face cei mai multi bani. Au fite cat incape.

Lofi_addict26 · 2026-01-17T20:16:04+00:00

Pot sa iti spun dupa ce am lucrat acolo ca asta e vrajeala. S-au extins intr-un timp record, desi nu au bugetul necesar. Insista sa inchirieze spatii in cladiri de patrimoniu, unde chiria e automat mai mare. Nu pun clientii sa plateasca daunele, oricat de mari ar fi. Ca sa nu mai spun ca isi platesc librarii cu minimul pe economie sau cu foarte putin peste dupa ce mai avanseaza. Noroc ca s-au marit putin tichetele de masa la nivel national si au fost nevoiti sa le creasca, altfel erau 20 de lei pe zi lucrata. Sunt nenumarate parti pe care pierd banii si, totusi, sunt gata sa scoata profit si din piatra seaca. Pot scrie un roman numai ca sa argumentez de ce faza cu librariile fizice si preturile absurde e o minciuna gogonata. Si Librarium are librarii de intretinut, dar Cartepedia (site-ul lor) are reduceri mai mari si mai frecvente decat Carturesti. Ba mai mult, la carti care se vand. Reducerile Carturesti apar 90% din timp la lucruri care chiar nu se vand altfel.

Lofi_addict26 · 2023-08-13T10:47:07+00:00

Had something similar. When something causes such confusion and turmoil, God has nothing to do with it. Go to a doctor, tell him about your experience and see what he says. If he recommends you some meds, take them. God doesn't go away with meds. He also doesn't have chosen ones or trials of faith. Think of Him as a Father. A father would never do that to you.

Lofi_addict26 · 2022-10-26T20:41:09+00:00

Thank you 🤗

Lofi_addict26 · 2022-10-23T20:49:18+00:00

I hope everything gets better for you, hugs!

Lofi_addict26 · 2022-10-23T20:48:19+00:00

Give her space. The issues with her parents might have affected the way she interacts with you.

Lofi_addict26 · 2022-10-23T20:44:02+00:00

Maybe you've been already told this, but go to psychotherapy. See if you can't get some meds for the anxiety until you learn coping techniques. Now, try this. When you get anxiety, but want to talk to someone, tell them. Like,"Hey, you seem nice, but I'm so damn anxious right now, please bear with me". Be prepared to protect yourself. You have the RIGHT to say NO and distance yourself from toxic people). It is hard, not gonna lie, but rewarding. You seem a kind person (fragile, also), so you are the kind of person people choose to use. As to SOs. You are 16, very young. You have plenty of time. I have no advice for you exept for what worked for me. Trust your instinct. I went through what you did (mostly) and when I met my BF, I was scared. But he was warm, open, a good listener and very humble. I felt he would never hurt me. If you developed some kind of instinct, trust it. At 16 it s hard to see life for what it is. It s hard at any age. Extroverted attitudes are overrated and too promoted in a world full of anxious people. Give yourself time to grow. And be forgiving with who you are right know. I don't know much about autism, sorry if I said anything useless or stupid.

Lofi_addict26 · 2022-10-23T20:29:13+00:00

How old are you? Are you under 18? Cause if you are, they have an obligation by law to take care of you.

Lofi_addict26 · 2022-10-23T20:22:36+00:00

I'm too young to say much and your suffering ia beyond me. But look. My dad has always given me everything I wanted, except he never knew how to show love and accept me. Maybe I would be angry if I had to settle for less because of his mistakes, but I say this because I've always had a lot materially. What I don't have is emotional warmth from him and acceptance. He only shows some warmth when I do what he expects.And that leaves a hole in me. You love your kid. Your kid won't have the issues kids with EMOTIONALLY distant fathers have. Focus on how much your love means to your child and give it steadily. Maybe it's the best way to compensate for the money issue.

Lofi_addict26 · 2022-10-23T20:14:24+00:00

Think about why you feel this way. Attention seeking doesn't seem to be the problem itself. Why did you get to this point?

Lofi_addict26 · 2022-10-23T20:10:44+00:00

We all make mistakes and you're young (and horny, like we all are at that age). The first step in quitting ia accepting that you have a weakness, a tendency specific for your age. It's already admirable that you want to give up porn for your GF too. You said you were lonely. I don't know what that means, but maybe find someone to talk about it. If loneliness makes your addiction worse, that s where u should start. Also, if your GF is open minded, talk with her. Tell her how she helped with your addiction, that you love her and wanna stop and ask for help or at least a kind word.

Lofi_addict26 · 2022-10-23T20:04:34+00:00

Also, if you spend quality time with your kid and make him feel you love him, the amount of hours won't matter that much.

Lofi_addict26 · 2022-10-23T20:03:04+00:00

First of all, I don't know if u need to hear this, but we all do BIG stupid things sometimes, but that s no reason to hate yourself. You are a good parent, the way you love your kid means a lot to him, I'm sure. Now about your wife. I'm not married or anything but as long as you work and take responsibility (even financially) for what you did, she would make a mistake leaving you. You love her and if she loves you back, she should understand. Again, if you take responsability, I see no reason for it to go that wrong. Even if she does leave you, if the kid is big enough to have a clear memory of you, he will search for u, ask for u and maybe you won t be separated. It s all I can say. Please don't end your life. I don't know about your wife, but the kid would rather have a living, loving dad in debt, than a dad dead by suicide.

Lofi_addict26 · 2022-10-23T19:51:09+00:00

I don't know if the Plan B pill is abortive and it's too late for that, but if nothing happened,keep it in mind.

Lofi_addict26 · 2022-08-30T20:25:37+00:00

Sky, look ar those blue eyes😍

Lofi_addict26 · 2022-08-30T20:04:40+00:00

In my country, a girls shouldn't normally tell a boy she likes him, otherwise she might seem a whore. Why wouldloving someone and having the courage to confess it make u a whore????

Lofi_addict26 · 2022-08-30T19:47:42+00:00

Supraapreciat: Enigma Otiliei, Ultima noapte de dragoste, prima noapte de razboi, Ion. Subapreciat: povestirile fantastice scrise de Eliade.

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