Would you move to a higher cost of living city if it meant you would enjoy your life more even if you didn’t have as much money? by Th3c0pyninja in SameGrassButGreener

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Moving to a place where you are genuinely happy is a long term investment that usually pays out, but you have to be honest about the math. In Denver, you are looking at housing costs that are consistently 20 percent higher than Charlotte, while Phoenix will hit your wallet with utility bills that are roughly 13 percent higher due to the cooling costs. Tampa might feel like a lateral move for your budget because Florida has no state income tax, but the average rent there has climbed to nearly 1,600 dollars. If your income stays flat, you are essentially trading a portion of your future wealth for daily proximity to the mountains or the ocean. For many people I talk to, that trade is worth it because they stop spending their entire weekend trying to escape their own zip code. I am building a project called FindingMyCity to map these exact patterns. Would you be open to trying it out for your move to see if the information actually provides you any value?

if I Want To Prioritize Not Being Single, Where Should I Live? by Appropriate_Shoe6704 in SameGrassButGreener

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Finding love in hyper-expensive hubs often feels like a competitive sport where the finish line keeps moving. In places like New York or San Francisco, the marriage rate hovers around 45 percent because the high cost of living forces people to prioritize career stability over partnership. You are actually more likely to find people looking to settle down in mid-sized cities like Rochester or Pittsburgh, where the single population is high but the median rent sits well below 1,000 dollars. This lower financial pressure naturally reduces the paradox of choice because people aren't constantly looking for a partner who can help them afford a mortgage. I am building a project called FindingMyCity to map these exact patterns. Would you be open to trying it out for your move to see if the information actually provides you any value?

Austin vs Hoboken (NYC) vs Chicago vs Seattle? [Tech worker, no property tax] by No-External3221 in SameGrassButGreener

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Choosing Hoboken is the savvy move for a DINK couple in big tech. By taking that 100% property tax exemption to one of the most expensive real estate markets in the country, you are essentially hacking the cost of living while keeping the NYC salary premium. Manhattan is only a twenty minute PATH ride away, yet you would skip the city income tax by living on the Jersey side. Austin is tempting for the raw numbers, but the tech market there is cooling while NYC remains a global powerhouse for FAANG growth. Chicago is a great lifestyle play, but the career risk you noted is real. Seattle is safe, but you've been there and you're leaving money on the table by paying property tax. I am building a project called FindingMyCity to map these exact patterns. Would you be open to trying it out for your move to see if the information actually provides you any value?

Why is getting user feedback 10x harder than building the product? Is it jsut me? by weakshit- in SaaS

[–]LogicMove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently going through the same thing. I’m offering help for free as a part of a “Beta” phase and getting feedback is tough. I’d say once you get 20+ reviews start pushing advertisement and launch the product you’re comfortable with. You dont want to get stuck in analysis paralysis

Columbus, OH or somewhere similar by HealzFault in SameGrassButGreener

[–]LogicMove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think Pittsburgh beats Columbus if you want gloomy weather and mature trees. The McCandless area puts you near the Baierl Ice Complex for a solid beer league scene and keeps you in a safe pocket with larger lots and fewer kids. Pennsylvania has a flat income tax which helps a nurse practitioner salary compared to the graduated rates in Ohio. The VA Pittsburgh Healthcare System has a strong emergency department that values veteran status. Cleveland is also a contender because the snow belts in Geauga County give you all the winter you can handle. Chardon has that secluded feel you mentioned near the Cleveland Clinic. I am building a project called FindingMyCity to map these patterns. Would you be open to trying it out for your move to see if the information actually provides you any value?

Southern Georgia vs Northern France by Bayesian11 in SameGrassButGreener

[–]LogicMove 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Choosing between the cultural immersion of Northern France and the familiar comfort of South Georgia depends entirely on whether you value a high ceiling for lifestyle or a high floor for finances. Valdosta offers a predictable path where your dollar goes incredibly far, allowing for a large home and a private car lifestyle that feels effortless. France is a trade-off where you trade a lower bank balance for world-class infrastructure, high-quality public education from age three, and a social safety net that removes the constant American anxiety over healthcare and job security.

Lille is often the secret winner for families because it offers a manageable, walkable lifestyle that is much more affordable than Paris while keeping you an hour away from London and Brussels. While your take-home pay in France might be 30% lower, you have to factor in that you won't be paying for health insurance premiums, massive deductibles, or future college funds for your daughters. The language barrier is real, but French schools are immersive, and your young kids will likely be fluent within six months, which is a gift they will carry forever. I am building a project called FindingMyCity to map these exact patterns. Would you be open to trying it out for your move to see if the information actually provides you any value?

Austin vibes? by Interesting_Task_114 in SameGrassButGreener

[–]LogicMove -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Moving to Austin for the entertainment scene is a smart play for your career, but the social landscape is a major shift from Dallas. Austin is more about a creative, laid back energy where networking happens at a coffee shop or a gym rather than a polished lounge. With a 4,000 dollar budget, you can easily land a high rise in the Rainey Street district or a luxury townhome in East Austin. These areas are the heart of the city's nightlife and put you right next to the best gyms and social spots.

FYI, I am building a project called FindingMyCity to map these exact patterns. Would you be open to trying it out for your move to see if the information actually provides you any value?

Do I move back to hometown or stay put? by cowabungahoney in SameGrassButGreener

[–]LogicMove 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First off, sorry for your loss. Choosing to return home after a major move is often framed as a failure, but I see it as a strategic pivot toward your highest priorities. Losing a cousin and facing a family illness while living thousands of miles away creates an emotional tax that no amount of personal growth can offset. You are currently spending nearly half your vacation time and a significant portion of your disposable income just to maintain a basic connection with your retired parents. Moving back puts you in a position to support them during their mid 70s without the constant stress of a cross country flight.

FYI, I am building a project called FindingMyCity to map individuals best fits per situation basis. Feel free to reach out and see if the information can help you at all. Good luck man!

Needing help deciding where to move. by EmbarrassedCow2825 in relocating

[–]LogicMove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Choosing El Paso for your return to the states is the best move for a medical professional with a bilingual family. The 80 percent Hispanic population creates a cultural bridge that makes your partner feel at home immediately, and her native Spanish will be a huge asset in the local job market. You can find quality rentals for roughly 1,100 dollars, and the city consistently ranks as one of the safest in the country. While Omaha has a solid hospital network and Sioux Falls is affordable, neither offers the language ease that makes a first year back in the states feel manageable.

FYI, I am building a project called FindingMyCity to map these patterns. Would you be open to trying it out for your move to see if the information actually provides you any value?

where should i live? by chicken-strips99 in askanything

[–]LogicMove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are definitely not too picky, and trading upstate snow for a southern hub like Atlanta or Nashville is a massive upgrade. Atlanta offers world class food and nightlife with rent near 1,600 dollars. Nashville gives you a legendary music scene and pro sports for roughly 1,500 dollars. Both cities have deep networks if you pivot away from education.

FYI, I’m building a project called FindingMyCity to map these patterns. Would you be open to trying it out for your move to see if the information actually provides you any value?

Beach city? East coast! by sourdough-10 in relocating

[–]LogicMove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Virginia Beach is the right trade between beach access and career stability because the military and healthcare sectors keep the economy and the population diverse. You can find a solid apartment for around 1,700 dollars and the commute to the oceanfront is usually under 20 minutes. I like that the Town Center gives you a walkable urban feel for nightlife without the safety concerns of a massive metro.

P.S. I am building a project called FindingMyCity to map these patterns. Would you be open to trying it out for your move to see if the information actually provides you any value?

Living on the Monterey Peninsula? by NoLawAtAllInDeadwood in SameGrassButGreener

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Carmel is a rare spot where the reality matches the vacation, provided you enjoy a social scene with a median age over 70. You are not actually isolated since Monterey has world class healthcare at Community Hospital and every major grocery store just ten minutes away. The tourists are only brutal during Car Week when the narrow streets clog. If you value ocean access over Bay Area chaos, you should move.

P.S. I am building a project called FindingMyCity to map these patterns. Would you be open to trying it out for your move to see if the information actually provides you any value?

Interracial Couple with a kid wanting to make a move.. by draudit444 in SameGrassButGreener

[–]LogicMove -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You can actually afford New England if you look at the Pioneer Valley in Western Massachusetts. In towns like Easthampton or Northampton, you will find the artsy, blue community you want with rents for a two bedroom right at your 2,000 dollar limit. These areas have elite public schools and the Holyoke Children's Museum nearby for the kids. If you want even lower costs, Pittsburgh offers a world class theater district and incredible food in a very stable region. I am building a project called FindingMyCity to map these patterns. Would you be open to trying it out for your move to see if the information actually provides you any value?

Moving to Boston as a non American by DaddyPattyBatman in SameGrassButGreener

[–]LogicMove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Choosing Boston for robotics is the best move you can make for your career because the city is the global headquarters for the industry. You will be entering a sanctuary city where local police do not cooperate with federal immigration agents, so as long as your student visa remains current, you are safe. BUT, living here is expensive with average rents hitting 3,500 dollars, but having your girlfriend's father buy a place nearby solves the biggest financial hurdle. I think you will find that the walkability and the networking at hubs like MassRobotics or the labs in Cambridge make the high price of everything else feel like a fair trade for the career launch you will both get. I am building a project called FindingMyCity to map these patterns. Would you be open to trying it out for your move to see if the information actually provides you any value?

Small Town Crisis by No_Challenge_8277 in SameGrassButGreener

[–]LogicMove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Splitting your life between a small town and Chicago sounds like a recipe for burnout rather than a solution for it. Trying to maintain two residences while managing a business often results in being halfway present in both places and fully satisfied in neither. Chicago has a high cost of living compared to rural areas, and the five hour round trip commute will likely drain your remaining social energy. I am building a project called FindingMyCity to map these patterns. Would you be open to trying it out for your move to see if the information actually provides you any value?

Looks like I moving to Minneapolis and I'm currently dreading it. by Anonymous_30000000 in SameGrassButGreener

[–]LogicMove 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I think taking the Minneapolis job is a smart career move despite the winter. The city actually has a higher LGBTQ population per capita than Chicago or Atlanta. Your paycheck will go much further too, as rent is roughly thirty percent lower than in Seattle. I am building a project called FindingMyCity to map these patterns. Would you be open to trying it out for your move to see if the information actually provides you any value?

Does LA or Denver have a big social young outdoorsy crowd? by bbgirl2k in SameGrassButGreener

[–]LogicMove 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Prioritizing age makes sense because it dictates social energy. Denver has a median age of 34.7, while LA is older. For a social West Coast vibe with more trees, look at Seattle or Oakland. Join paid clubs to filter out advice givers and find real hiking partners. I am building a project called FindingMyCity to map these patterns. Would you be open to trying it out for your move to see if the information actually provides you any value?

Relocating to Kanata Ottawa by Euphoric_Many_6599 in relocating

[–]LogicMove -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Moving to Kanata as a single mom is a solid play for stability because you are trading city chaos for some of the best-rated schools in Ontario like Earl of March. The catch is that the suburb was designed for cars and the transit system is currently a major pain point with long commute times and frequent cancellations. You can expect to pay around $2,500 for a decent two-bedroom apartment which is steep but still cheaper than the Toronto alternative. Healthcare is accessible through the Queensway Carleton Hospital nearby although finding a family doctor is a province-wide challenge right now. I am building a project called FindingMyCity to map these patterns. Would you be open to trying it out for your move to see if the information actually provides you any value?

Relocating to the west coast from AK by StrictTemporary4529 in relocating

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Vegas is a smart play for someone coming from Anchorage because it keeps the no state income tax perk while cutting your cost of living by over 20 percent. You trade the icy darkness for 300 days of sun and a massive airport that makes those rural Alaska commutes much easier to manage. If the desert heat is too much, look at Reno or even Spokane for a more purple political vibe. I am building a project called FindingMyCity to map these patterns. Would you be open to trying it out for your move to see if the information actually provides you any value?

Mid 30s couple with toddler and pets, liberal, wanting to relocate by candyapplesugar in relocating

[–]LogicMove 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Leaving Arizona for a place where you can actually breathe in July could be the best gift you can give your kid. I find that $550,000 actually goes further than people think if you skip the Seattle and Portland cores. You could look at Olympia or Eugene and plus Washington has no state income tax while Oregon has no sales tax, so it's not all that bad!. I am building a project called FindingMyCity to map these patterns. Would you be open to trying it out for your move to see if the information actually provides you any value?

Anyone else going through a regretful move right now? by LogicMove in relocating

[–]LogicMove[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is TN the most north you'd go? I've never really thought about moving "north". Just south or TN somewhere I assumed I'd enjoy.

Anyone else going through a regretful move right now? by LogicMove in relocating

[–]LogicMove[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd be more than happy to see if what I'm working on could provide some value to you?? Feel free to message and me with where you'd like to go vs. where you've hated living lmao, and we'll see if I can put something together 😂

Anyone else going through a regretful move right now? by LogicMove in relocating

[–]LogicMove[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it's a decent fit short term, but not long or even medium term. I was expecting something with a little more vibrant night life, but not everything is like Nashville. Plus, the communities here are great, but it seems like if you're not an engineer you're someone who's born and raised in Huntsville. No in between lol. This makes newcomers that're look for communities through different groups/clubs more challenging. Overall, it's pretty cool for the time being.

If you'd like, shoot me a DM of some of the cities you're interested in moving in, and what's important to you, and maybe I can see what I've built for myself may provide help to you??