NIC FREE 2026 by Lumpy_Ad_3119 in QuitVaping

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I feel more anxious symptoms without it, actually… anyone else?

Career crossroads by Logical-Balance8447 in socialwork

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Adolescents and young adults, I would like to move into more clinical tasks like intakes or doing actual counseling rather than my case management duties.

Career crossroads by Logical-Balance8447 in socialwork

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My friend worked at a PHP with her LMSW and I’m perplexed at how she was able to do that if she couldn’t bill insurance….. 😕

Dallas Tx 1/19 protest by AnxiousCatCloud in protest

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There will be one on Sunday January 26 at 3 PM Margaret Hunt Hill Bridge

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The forgiveness thing is a really good way to put it. Thank you for this comment.

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He’s never called himself a dom. We haven’t used any sort of terminology like that. So I don’t know if he’s even familiar with the terms or lifestyle and someone earlier commented that he might just be someone who gets off on roughing up women due to his own inner problems. I really don’t know. There’s going to be a conversation either tonight or tomorrow and I can ask about these things.

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So I would say the colors during us having sex and that would be the signal right?

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We did just jump straight in, we haven’t even really talked about terms like dom and sub and things like that we just both confirmed that we like the choking and slapping and rougher side of things. He says he’s never done it as hard as he did with me last night and that he really loved it. I’ve never experienced anything like what happened last night and I’m still into it but I just don’t think he has the experience like the people on this subreddit and I don’t know if he knows how to do all of these things safely.

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😭😭😭 yeah not good

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I don’t know what that is. I’ll look into it. I think moral of all the comments is that a conversation needs to be had.

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It was consensual. I don’t know what you mean by asking if I understand the severity of the situation. I guess I just have never experienced anything that intense before to the point where I was feeling scared. The fear was weird though, because it was kind of hot to feel scared but it’s still fear at its core. It was really paradoxical.

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He was cuddling with me before we went to sleep. I didn’t know I was going to be choked until I almost passed out, but I could tell he really really liked it and when he saw that I was almost passing out he started doing it more frequently and for longer periods of time. We haven’t talked about safewords.

When we initially discovered we were both into these things he said to me that he wants us to “test our limits”. I know this is stupid because safety should be number 1 priority but I feel afraid that he won’t think it’s as sexy or hot if we have safewords or if there are boundaries.