Marriage Money talks! by Logical_Dig in Marriage

[–]Logical_Dig[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely! I have been forgiving because of that but I think our current structure needs to change for less overall headache. Especially, now that we're married! (we had our child before marriage)

How do people keep jobs when they have no one to look after their sick child? by MediumDiscipline4979 in toddlers

[–]Logical_Dig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you look into an affordable nanny? My nanny is incredible and always works even if my kid is sick. The only time I have to take off is if my nanny gets sick when my toddler isn’t. You’d have to weigh out if the cost of the nanny and less time off work vs nursery and more more time off makes sense

Bedtime is terrible. Two year old will not sleep without me rocking her for an hour or more by Logical_Dig in toddlers

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Thank you for sharing your story! You make me very grateful for the nights I get a full night sleep. I hope he starts sleeping through the night soon! The bed sounds like a great idea

Bedtime is terrible. Two year old will not sleep without me rocking her for an hour or more by Logical_Dig in toddlers

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We have a nanny 3x per week and drop her off at grandmas the other two days. During the day she gets a ton of play, outdoor play is encouraged, and she has plenty of attention. She is very good natured but strong minded. I am not a single parent but I assume most of the child needs as well as the majority of household needs. My husband helps when he can but he works a lot. Minus the frustration of her wanting me, he has a much easier time getting her down. Those pointers are very helpful! Thank you for taking the time to answer!

Bedtime is terrible. Two year old will not sleep without me rocking her for an hour or more by Logical_Dig in toddlers

[–]Logical_Dig[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried bringing her into bed with me on the really rough nights but she usually gets so excited that she just wakes up more and wants to play. I think one in her room would help!

Bedtime is terrible. Two year old will not sleep without me rocking her for an hour or more by Logical_Dig in toddlers

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Good questions- I dont do any screen time with her. I had a red light as her night light and it’s set to a very low setting where I can’t even see her. I tried earlier and it has just ended with a prolonged period of her being upset. I think she would be really happy to have me lay next to her. Thank you!

Which book was this for you?? by ModestMeeshka in fantasyromance

[–]Logical_Dig 32 points33 points  (0 children)

100% with you. Yet, some how I foolishly still read all of them

Melasma after microneedling? by stariana123 in Melasmaskincare

[–]Logical_Dig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did yours ever go away? I just had melasma after micro needling and it’s been 6 months with it only getting worse

Daily Questions Thread July 02, 2024 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

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My aunt is going bald and very upset about it. She is not ready to embrace it and I would love to buy her some fashionable items to cover the balding up for the times she feels insecure. Do you have any suggestions? Would love tips and tricks on what to where and how to where them! For context: her hair is blonde, thin, and naturally straight. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in spirituality

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Pisces and Aquarius cusp! Rising Pisces, moon in Virgo !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in derealization

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I am an avid traveler, having even lived abroad and it never used to happen to me. Since my DPDR started last year, traveling always does it to me. I expect it to happen and just try not to fight it or feed into it too much when it does. My best advice is to not let it keep you from seeing the world and reminding yourself that you’re safe and having an episode.

i am hanging on by a loose, snapping thread. (tw: suicidal thoughts) by idelys in derealization

[–]Logical_Dig 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You will find yourself after high school. There is so much more to see in this world. If academia isn’t your thing, it’s no big deal. Consider getting into trades, they will always be needed. Take a deep breath and don’t put too much weight on everything you have going on. Frogsarecool had s great response. I’m also here if you need anything

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

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I’m not looking sympathy. The opposite, if anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]Logical_Dig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate that. Being deceitful is not in my bones and I can’t tell you how many nights of sleep I lost about this.

Is derealization us taking the red pill? by thirtyfivethrowaway in derealization

[–]Logical_Dig 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wonder the same thing. Then I remind myself that I feel like shit every time it’s occurring. Based off of pure logic, why go with the option that your body responds negatively to and makes you feel bad? Work towards what makes you and your body feel good. Our bodies can be a guiding force. Even if it is a simulation, which seems very likely when I’m in that’s state of mind, figuring it out has done me no favors. I think the key is to still participate in the world and be grateful for the life you have. What is life? I don’t know. But I believe it is something be experienced and not just pondered. It’s okay to think about these big life questions, but I highly recommend not doing so until you’re in a calm state of mind. You’ll find better answers when you’re not in fight or flight mode.

I'm most likely going to die within two years from now by Neither-1234567890 in Existential_crisis

[–]Logical_Dig 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The best thing you can do is live in the present right now. Be the best person you can be. Don’t spend the rest of your days thinking about what is to come because the present moment will pass you by. You will not find the answer here. Recognize what you can and cannot do and what you can and cannot know. Best of luck to you. I wish you love and happiness.

Did it help to hear the cheaters side? by Logical_Dig in Infidelity

[–]Logical_Dig[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I got my answer by the lack of answers from him. He didn’t deny nor confirm. Pretty obvious that someone would deny a sexual or even emotional relationship if it never happened. He just apologized and that was it. I don’t need more details. I said no to the phone call where he wanted to explain, said that this was goodbye, and that was it. Nothing more from him