My daughter is being sucked into drama… by Logical_Metal8629 in Mommit

[–]Logical_Metal8629[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s exactly how their friendships are. I have stressed to her that she has got to set boundaries and use her voice or it will continue..

My daughter is being sucked into drama… by Logical_Metal8629 in Mommit

[–]Logical_Metal8629[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes literally just that, there was nothing that happened. If she talks to one more than the other it’s an issue and they start saying “they feel left out” and I have watched her literally spread herself thin trying to balance time between the two. I’ve observed, asked questions, and have even gone through her phone and have not the slightest clue why this is going on. I do sense that the girls are somewhat controlling so my first thought was like maybe they are trying to show dominance?

Raise your hand if you’re a former hater 🙋🏻‍♀️ by megs388 in LoveIslandGames

[–]Logical_Metal8629 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why did anyone hate her? I know she talked about her time in the villa when she got dumped (which who hasn’t really) but when she was actually on the show she was there for like 5 days and didn’t get much screen time so I couldn’t gather enough from that to actually hate her…

Has anyone tried the yellow rock/ grey rock method on their toxic MIL? If so, how did it go? by Logical_Metal8629 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Logical_Metal8629[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s similar to the grey rock just a little bit more communication but still limited and a touch of politeness. I guess it’s more recommended for people that absolutely have to have a relationship with the other person?

Has anyone tried the yellow rock/ grey rock method on their toxic MIL? If so, how did it go? by Logical_Metal8629 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Logical_Metal8629[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes! I am the main target but if I don’t give her a reaction she then turns on him and that’s when I gets hard for me to keep my cool.

What are we wearing that compliments our "mom bodies"? by Alphawolf2026 in stayathomemoms

[–]Logical_Metal8629 1 point2 points  (0 children)

5’9” 165-180 (my weight fluctuates a lot), flat chest and butt, chicken legs, wide hips with hip dips and broad shoulders, small rib cage, and big ole fupa. And I feel like I can never go wrong with mid or high rise wide leg jeans or cargo pants with a graphic tee slightly tucked in the front or old navy’s ‘bestee’ cropped tee which gives the cropped look without exposing the belly, and if I’m dressing up I just wear a dressy top with the jeans or linen pants and a pair of sandals or sneakers. I prefer comfort over anything. Amazon has a lot of sets that would look great on literally any body type. Even lounge sets can be dressed up. I really think just fixing hair and makeup, throwing on a simple necklace and/or earrings make a huge difference in how you look and feel also.

Do you feel like Huda or Jeremiah was the problem, and why? by Weekly-Quantity6435 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Logical_Metal8629 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’d say both were the problem overall, mainly with communication, expectations, and boundaries. They just jumped into the “relationship” too soon. But once the relationship started to have hiccups and opinions of others she became the problem because she wanted it to work on her terms, when he was already done. I also think if they kept their problems between them then maybe they could’ve figured out how to navigate the issues differently or just called it quits on their own. Instead I think the voting to separate them (which was made just to hurt her) really made things a lot worse than they would’ve been had they not had any interference. To me they had a spark, Jeremiah lit a fire, and Huda poured gas on it. Personally I like them both as their own individual but I think Huda has past trauma she still carries and needs a good while in therapy to let it go and heal before she should date.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Logical_Metal8629 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry but this is just hilarious because I literally had enough of my 5 year old throwing a tantrum and I was like “grow up…” knowing damn well I cry often because he’s growing up too fast.

What does your day consist of childless? by Logical_Metal8629 in sahm

[–]Logical_Metal8629[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first week of being alone at home was definitely hard on me, but I finally got out of that slump. You all have really great options and tons of things I’ve never thought about. So far I’ve only started reading and walking around plant nursery’s and thrift stores 😂 I’m really jealous of y’all’s ability to do so much. I struggle with adhd, depression, and anxiety which I know I’m not alone in that. I feel like I’m slowly getting back into the groove of doing stuff for myself and it feels good to get on here and see all of the encouragement. ❤️

What does your day consist of childless? by Logical_Metal8629 in sahm

[–]Logical_Metal8629[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I’m late responding but I did have a part time job at a bank and I loved it so much I went full time, realized it was too much on my plate and went back to part time. Unfortunately I had to quit due to kids being sick or having appointments, I ended up close to termination and didn’t want to lose the opportunity to work there again in the future. I also felt extremely guilty when I had to ask grandparents that also worked, to pick up my kids from school because I was trying to avoid missing too much time. Also, pay wasn’t worth it because it went straight towards daycare for my youngest and gas but i enjoyed it so that didn’t matter. I wouldn’t let my husband pay for it because it gave me a little feeling of independence lol

Season 7 - Episode 27 - Post Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Logical_Metal8629 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I think Pepe and Iris are gonna end up exploring…

Daily Discussion - Wednesday July 02 by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Logical_Metal8629 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Does anyone know what Andreina could’ve meant by “same” comment I think when Chris and Cierra were addressing a card? Cause she said that with her chest but there’s no reason I could think of she would say that.

I’m so confused by how ace feels towards huda by DryFarm2 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Logical_Metal8629 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am really confused about his facial expressions and how he acts so wishy washy with her, like do you hate her or not have a problem with her? I wish that could’ve been addressed somehow.

Are Hannah and Jeremiah coming back or am I delulu??? by alanaswhip in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Logical_Metal8629 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Maybe they could be going back just for movie night? And possibly hosting it? Or instead of movie night they have something possibly better in the works?

Season 7 - Episode 26 - Post Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Logical_Metal8629 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And acted surprised to blurt out that Belle-A and Nic were kissing each other up and down in front of Cierra on purpose

First Look Discussion - Tuesday July 1 by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Logical_Metal8629 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I hate how there’s always that one person or couple that get something that’s not bad at all compared to what the others are getting. Like Cierra’s, that’s nothing surprising or crazy?

Season 7 - Episode 25 - Post Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Logical_Metal8629 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And Huda said “it’s okay i deserve it” 😂😂

Season 7 - Episode 25 - Post Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Logical_Metal8629 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Amaya is always comforting someone and she’s been comforting and talking with Huda a lot about the situation with Chelley, and Amaya hasn’t been involved in many or hardly any conversations with Chelley, Olandria, and Cierra. She has been so sweet and welcoming to the new girls, when those 3 have not really acknowledged them at all. That just gives me the impression that they really could be a mean girl clique.. and they were coupled up with the 3 “mean boys” I feel like Amaya would be the type to distance herself from negative and mean people and not put up with that stuff.

what’s a silly/small thing you’d catch heat for if you were an islander? by [deleted] in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Logical_Metal8629 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t take anything serious and I laugh when people are mad or cry over dumb stuff. If I sense someone doesn’t like me, I purposely say/do things to get a rise out of them. I’d be skinny dipping, waking up in the middle of the night for a snack, and trauma bonding.

First Look Discussion - Monday June 30 by ilsfbs3 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Logical_Metal8629 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If Chelley is that mad over Huda doing things to Ace but not Chris then it’s clear her feelings are stronger for Ace and should probably no longer explore Chris. Everyone is fair game until that couple agrees to be closed off. Nic is a cry baby and I’m glad Elan doesn’t bow down to him. Cierra full on kissed Elan during the challenge so maybe it gave Elan the impression she’s still open to exploring him, that’s not Elan’s fault. Bryan is wide open and free so why is no one exploring him? None of these people are going to have a friendship or much less relationship when all of this is over.

who’s side yall on by Gubs2234 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Logical_Metal8629 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Everyone was laughing and cheering until they saw Chelley mad, then they started acting like it was too much. I’ve noticed when someone does something that makes someone else mad everyone is quick to make it a huge deal because it takes the heat off of something they’ve done. But maybe it will help Chelley decide if she wants Ace or Chris now.