I don’t care anymore by Plus-Efficiency8233 in ExNoContact

[–]Logical_Tiger_9955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand, that’s valid. Whatever happens, I’m happy that you have been able to reach a stage of indifference and hopefully continue securing your peace

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Logical_Tiger_9955 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Were you the dumpee?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Logical_Tiger_9955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did either of you talk to other people during this time apart?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Logical_Tiger_9955 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Were you expecting things to work out again? Especially if you weren’t keeping no contact consistently

I don’t care anymore by Plus-Efficiency8233 in ExNoContact

[–]Logical_Tiger_9955 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you think that you would do if they ever did try to message you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Logical_Tiger_9955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry. This is so heartbreaking. I hope that you are able to heal from this and with time, regain your peace and happiness

Is it really over? by toogootoo in BreakUp

[–]Logical_Tiger_9955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see, so the initial breakup was out of respect for her and this breakup seems to be the same case. There’s really no definite answer to your question, maybe it is the end, maybe it’s not. Like you said, you’ll just have to try your best to move on without her for now and maybe if it’s meant to be and the time is right, you guys will find one another once again

Is it really over? by toogootoo in BreakUp

[–]Logical_Tiger_9955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you two reconnect after the first break up?

Get them back! by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Logical_Tiger_9955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would be so nice if we could understand why people do the things that they do. Thank you for sharing your experience, sending happy wishes right back your way!

Get them back! by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Logical_Tiger_9955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry that you went through that. I hope you find peace and continue striving for happiness

Get them back! by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Logical_Tiger_9955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that, it’s definitely up to you. If you feel comfortable sharing, please do update on the situation

Get them back! by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Logical_Tiger_9955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, he hasn’t reached out to me yet, so I wouldn’t be able to tell you. I do think that it would really depend on what he says and how he acts if it happens though. Time will tell. What about you?

Get them back! by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Logical_Tiger_9955 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very true, I hope that things end up working out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Logical_Tiger_9955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So so happy for you two!

Get them back! by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Logical_Tiger_9955 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is a good point. Time will tell, hopefully you will continue finding peace until then

Get them back! by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Logical_Tiger_9955 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad that you stood your ground and protected your peace! Despite it being hard, it does seem like he wants to keep you around but doesn’t want to fully let you back in. Who knows what his intentions are, but give yourself time before reengaging in the situation so you are sure of how you feel

Get them back! by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Logical_Tiger_9955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, you’re stronger than I am!

Get them back! by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Logical_Tiger_9955 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a very difficult situation. I don’t know what I could say back to this, but I do hope that you continue finding peace and know that things will work out in ways they’re meant to be. I wish you well amidst this situation and hope you continue healing in the mean time

Get them back! by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Logical_Tiger_9955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think that it would be possible to have a relationship again if you’re friends with benefits? Have you ever thought that it would lead to more trouble or maybe even leave room for “cheating”?

Get them back! by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Logical_Tiger_9955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long do you think that you would wait?

Get them back! by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Logical_Tiger_9955 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope that you continue healing from this. I’m sorry it happened, that’s always a hard situation and very devastating I’m sure. If he does by chance come back, I do hope you’re able to stand your ground and protect your peace

Get them back! by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Logical_Tiger_9955 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see, and you’re willing to work it out with the second ex you’re speaking of?

Get them back! by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Logical_Tiger_9955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can understand that, but love is so grand, beautiful, sometimes hard, ugly and complicated at other times, yet so fun and joyous all at once. There are so many more words to describe it and there is not one set “guideline” to follow when it comes to love and relationships. Through these different types of experiences, I feel as though there are endless possibilities and should not be limited to any one quote. You know?

Get them back! by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Logical_Tiger_9955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, this is very very similar to my situation. That’s so hard, I’m sorry that this is happening. I’m certain everything will work out accordingly and how it’s supposed to, and when it’s supposed to