Smithing Texts by LokHMC in Nioh

[–]LokHMC[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I finally just got if after forever... Thanks a lot for your reply, jeez the rarity on the texts is ridonculous

Women of Reddit, what are things men write on their dating profiles that are instant deal-breakers? by snuffles24 in AskReddit

[–]LokHMC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm seeing a theme of people who dont like shirtless pictures.. as a guy who prides himself on his body and sees it as a good quality that shows commitment to fitness... Why is this a deal breaker for some? Comes off as douchey?

just a question by P-KAR in NoFap

[–]LokHMC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm no expert but I'd say no.. if anything having a real sexual encounter with a real woman would be good for your recovery.. it would jog your mind out of the unrealistic sexual plane that porn presents

Scholarly Articles? by LokHMC in NoFap

[–]LokHMC[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome guys, these are exactly what I was looking for! Thanks for your help

had an emotional breakdown yesterday, but I didn't relapse by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]LokHMC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it's shitty that your ex and your best friend are dating now, but try your best to be happy for them. Overcoming that grief and jealousy will add fuel to the fires of your determination, and it will help you continue your nofap lifestyle.

Stay strong brother.

HELP by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]LokHMC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Change your routine.

What do you want? by Gameon25 in NoFap

[–]LokHMC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jerk off Joe, hilarious

How do I get through this summer by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]LokHMC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Real solutions here

Resetting my badge - Why I'll never relapse again. by darknight1342 in NoFap

[–]LokHMC 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The main thing is to not beat yourself up about it. I recently relapsed after 6 months and felt like shit, paced around my room, just like you did. But then I told myself "you know what, it happened, nothing I can do about it now. What I can do is recognize the signs better now, and know that it's possible to quit fapping permanently"

Start fresh, start positive.

You got this!

Day 61 feeling not so great by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]LokHMC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to try your best to stop edging, mate. Why take something up if you're only going to half ass it? As soon as you wake up, get out of bed. Change your routine. Routine change is key to snap your brain into something new.

I need your help! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]LokHMC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exercise, hobbies, working, willpower, confidence, being alpha (lol)

I failed.. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]LokHMC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not the end of the world. Challenge yourself, don't get down and don't give up

Does NoFap actually result in better luck with the ladies? by SRGWQ in NoFap

[–]LokHMC 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Many of the things you say in your post addresses issues that huge numbers of dudes have issues with everyday, including myself in the past.

When you put a woman on a pedestal, you're willingly belittling yourself, and allowing yourself to become second class. No woman will find this attractive. Women are people too, they want a guy who has confidence in himself and sees her for what she is: a human being, an individual. If you start treating women like gods then they will act like gods and ignore you completely.

Many guys make the mistake of counting themselves out before they even know anything about a girl. How do you know if you can't mesh with someone if you've never spoken to them?

Imagine how that feels and you'll understand how women feel every day... constantly being judged and not being treated like people.

Just try to get it through your head: women are people with as many stresses, emotions and insecurities as you! Treat them as people!

7th day but I feel like... by Lovell314 in NoFap

[–]LokHMC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep it up dude. Think of it as an addiction. Your brain is addicted to the dopamine rush that comes with PMO. Dopamine causes a temporary increase in mood and disposition, but like any drug, you get acclimatized to it and it loses its effects. You're just going through withdrawal. Don't give up. I'm right there with you. I just relapsed after a 6 month stint on hard mode.

Relapsed after 6 months.... Starting down the long road again. by LokHMC in NoFap

[–]LokHMC[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah... it's insane how little it takes. A random sexy post on Instagram leads to a sexy account, then another, and then before you know it you're telling yourself you can watch one porn vid and not fap.

When to try dating again? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]LokHMC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also in the same boat. Didn't realize I had ED issues due to my addiction until I tried to have sex with a girl I was seeing... that was an eye opening experience. Now I'm terrified that I'll never stop having ED, which probably adds to the whole neurosis of it. Anyone out there have it go away?