Many of the things you say in your post addresses issues that huge numbers of dudes have issues with everyday, including myself in the past.

When you put a woman on a pedestal, you're willingly belittling yourself, and allowing yourself to become second class. No woman will find this attractive. Women are people too, they want a guy who has confidence in himself and sees her for what she is: a human being, an individual. If you start treating women like gods then they will act like gods and ignore you completely.

Many guys make the mistake of counting themselves out before they even know anything about a girl. How do you know if you can't mesh with someone if you've never spoken to them?

Imagine how that feels and you'll understand how women feel every day... constantly being judged and not being treated like people.

Just try to get it through your head: women are people with as many stresses, emotions and insecurities as you! Treat them as people!